In our marriage, Mr. and Mrs. Sheng Jiangchuan always quarreled. What are their main differences?

In our marriage, Mr. and Mrs. Sheng Jiangchuan always quarreled. What are their main differences? Let's discuss this problem below, hoping that these contents can help friends in need.

Our Marriage is a recent popular life drama. The joining of David, Bai Baihe and Rulu has greatly added points to this drama. At this stage, the story of Shen Comet and Sheng Jiangchuan's divorce. They had a fight. The most important factor is that comet Shen knows that Sheng Jiangchuan almost lost his child. Comet Shen said that it was hard for him to take care of his children at home for so many years. Sheng Jiangchuan also said that he worked hard because he was unfamiliar with each other. Finally, comet Shen told the story of separation!

Some people say that comet Shen has gone too far, and Sheng Jiangchuan has not committed the problem of principled position. The money for her own work is managed by Shen Comet. Although it is hard for her to take care of the children at home, it is also difficult for Sheng Jiangchuan to communicate. Why are you so wronged? On the surface, the best way to deal with their differences is to find a family nanny with plenty of time. This way, even if comet Shen comes out to work, the children will not be left unattended. Or ask Shen Comet's stepmother to help with the children. But if it's just that comet Shen came out to work, it'll be easy to deal with. I think the real factor is not here at all!

Comet Shen doesn't like Shengjiangchuan as much as Shengjiangchuan. According to Shen Huixing's memory, just two years before the wedding, Sheng Jiangchuan would accompany Shen Huixing for the wedding anniversary even if he was busy at work. But after the third year, Sheng Jiangchuan focused on his work and stayed at home. So, in order to take better care of her daughter, Shen Comet accompanied her to the hospital late at night and learned to install various household appliances! Sheng Jiangchuan did give money to Shen Comet and the house, but what did he do for his family besides paying? He was so drunk that he couldn't even find the door and didn't understand the layout of the house at all!

In the years since she gave birth to a child, comet Shen has been living a widowed life. She put the child to sleep, and Sheng Jiangchuan didn't go home. Sheng Jiangchuan didn't even surprise comet Shen, and he didn't know what comet Shen liked to eat! Being a full-time wife for six years, comet Shen has always been very wronged. On the road of novice mother, she is already very good without her husband's waiting and depression. Now that Shen Comet has to return to her new job and find her own use value, she must be very sad, because she was destroyed by Sheng Jiangchuan in various ways!

If they also have feelings, Shen Huixing is unlikely to let Sheng Jiangchuan sleep in a small room for so long, and it is hard for Sheng Jiangchuan to think of sharing with Shen Huixing in the process of applying for a golf card. In the six years since Shen Comet returned to her family, she has been resentful and wronged. Knowing that she was kidnapped, Sheng Jiangchuan was even more rude. She was asked to take care of her for another six years, and she immediately blew up comet Shen!

Comet Shen took good care of this family, and Sheng Jiangchuan felt that only his own work was more meaningful. I also watched the trailer in the back. Sheng Jiangchuan brought his own sugar for a few days. He is six years old and has met so many difficulties. It will also make him realize how hard it would be to bring up such a small child before.

I always thought that Sheng Jiangchuan's selfishness was the highest obstacle to their married life. Doesn't he really know the hardships of comet Shen? How could he look down on his family so much in the past? Does he not know or doesn't want to know? Maybe he will change for fear of losing his family, but a leopard cannot change his spots. With the elimination of everything, irrelevance has become a daily life. Will he deal with the problem again with his past avoidance and selfishness?

Before getting married, both of them had very obvious contradictions. They were blinded by love and didn't know each other. Sheng Jiangchuan seems to have a good temper, but he is actually a straight man. His ideal in life is a successful career. He regards making money as an investment in his family, but he doesn't really want to spend time on family life. His idealized lover is a housewife who throws herself into herself.

Shen Comet has his own career development goals and must be cultivated in his work. She must have an equal husband, hand in hand with the children, and everyone is equal. It can be seen from the debate in colleges and universities that their views on marriage and love are very different and cannot be reconciled.

If Sheng Jiangchuan can understand more in his daily life, see more heroine's sharing and pay more attention, even if he does some housework at home, he doesn't have to be arrogant and be kind to others, maybe things will be completely different. Sheng Jiangchuan got drunk as soon as he got home from work. He thought that he had made a lot of money outside and that he was the eldest brother, so he despised Shen Comet's investment in his family.

I think Sheng Jiangchuan and Shen Comet are both participants in the debate in colleges and universities, and they should have their own set of basic theories, but they seldom consciously output them in family life, and there is no quality marriage life at all. Every time I go home for dinner, I play with my children or do my own thing! I feel that they are more like separate individuals. The drama pays attention to the division of responsibilities in marriage, but I think the division of responsibilities is dead and people are alive. Does it mean that one person does one thing and the other person doesn't help? Husband and wife should care about each other!

In the cruel real life, it is not easy to ensure a happy marriage and a successful career at the same time? The secret of managing love is not tolerance without a bottom line. In our marriage, unless Sheng Jiangchuan can make a big change, you can put yourself in the heroine's shoes and apply the heroine's ideal, otherwise it will definitely be finished. Sheng Jiangchuan once compared his work to a glass ball and his family to a rubber ball, which is not normal!