A man who keeps in touch after breaking up, but often contacts you.

Regarding love, I have heard such words: "In fact, we just want to find someone who can get along well, be comfortable together, miss being apart for a long time, want to make a big noise after being quiet for a long time, and immediately regret giving up after quarreling." Love and friendship last forever. ""If only I could love someone like a child: unreservedly, completely trusting, totally dependent, completely unaware of being hurt, and never expecting to lose. "

Love begins and ends. Falling in love with someone may be a wonderful thing, and breaking up may be a very sad thing. Everyone thinks that the person they love is the most special, and everyone thinks that their feelings are the most special. When a woman falls in love with someone, she will weave a fairy tale, hoping that she will be a princess in the fairy tale and stay with her beloved prince forever.

When breaking up, it is undoubtedly sad, and if a person does not love, a person still loves, which will bring a burden to people. Many people think that after breaking up, the two will forget each other in the rivers and lakes and die of old age. There is a saying that "a qualified predecessor should be dead." But often after breaking up, men don't talk about getting back together, but frequently contact women. Women often can't guess men's intentions, and even have the illusion that men still love themselves.

After a couple breaks up, men who often contact you often have these thoughts:

1. He took you as a spare tire.

After Xiaoru broke up with her boyfriend, they had a big fight and felt that they didn't want to contact again in their lives. After a while, her boyfriend began to contact her and said such ambiguous words as "I miss you" and "I dreamed of you". Xiaoru is also a soft-hearted person, and feels that since she still has feelings, she should not get back together. As a result, her boyfriend didn't mention getting back together. It's embarrassing. She feels so angry. Later, she found out that her boyfriend was still flirting with others, and obviously regarded her as a spare tire.

Perhaps for the sake of feelings, women should be more pure, love is love, and not love is not love. Even if a man breaks up, if he can't find someone better, he will put down his face and reconnect with a woman. Men get back together, and women are mostly delusional, thinking that men must have discovered their own goodness and want to be with themselves. In fact, a man may smoke, but he won't miss you. Before he meets someone better, he thinks it's good to flirt with you, at least to kill time.

A man who often contacts you after breaking up. He no longer promises you, no longer seriously talks about feelings with you, and always acts like love rat. In fact, he regards you as a spare tire. Women must see clearly and don't fall down twice in one place.

He is not satisfied with his own efforts.

After Feifei broke up with her boyfriend, he scolded her like a dog, and she was going to collapse. Originally emotional things, even if wrong, are also nine Niu Yi hairs, Feifei has no principled mistakes. She later calmed down and thought about it. That man just found a reason to dump her. However, I didn't expect her boyfriend to talk to her after the breakup. It is said that he sent her many gifts and spent money on her, asking her to be a grateful person. I just know that my boyfriend just doesn't want to pay for himself. He doesn't love himself anymore.

When two people fall in love, there will naturally be pay and return. When you fall in love with someone, it's normal to pay for them. We both have to work hard and pay, otherwise how can we maintain the relationship? However, some men are naturally calculating and feel good about women. They spend time with her and buy her gifts because they love her performance and feel that they have paid too much. So after breaking up, some men will ask women for the gifts they gave before, and even pester women after breaking up because they have paid too much.

Love, what unwilling, love is not worth asking. Falling in love with someone, it is normal to give. But many men are reluctant to contact women after breaking up, just want to get some benefits. Women must see clearly.

He needs your help.

Xiaomei and her boyfriend separated for a period of time, and her boyfriend contacted her again. Xiaomei is not such a caring person. Since she loved, she is not an enemy. Occasionally two people talk. As a result, after chatting for a while, the boyfriend's nature was exposed. He needs Xiaomei to do something for him. Xiaomei knows that men are always the most realistic people. The reason why I have so much preparation is nothing more than trying to get some benefits from myself. Really smart.

Some people say that when two people are together, they may want something from each other. For example, you want the other person to be tall and handsome, and the other person wants you to be gentle and considerate. But over time, when two people fall in love, they should pay more attention to their feelings and be grateful. A relationship, just for a certain benefit, is too utilitarian and impure.

After breaking up, men often contact you, sometimes just because you are still useful to him, and he uses your feelings to ask you to do something for him. Therefore, women must not be stupid enough to break up. If a man doesn't explicitly mention the matter of getting back together, don't break up, otherwise it will be his own pain.

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