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How to talk about constellations with girls gracefully?

It is said that from August 30 to September 22, the "Mercury retrograde" in astrology was ushered in, and countless constellation lovers and sisters began to exclaim "Water retrograde" and "Fire prevention, theft prevention and waterproof inversion", and at the same time issued various "waterproof inversions" in the circle of friends. ...

The key point is that this is the third so-called "water retrograde" this year, and not far from the end of the year, Mercury will retrograde again. ...

Mercury, are you finished?

In fact, most straight men don't care about the pseudoscience of constellations ... but! I can't control my sister's love! Girls talk to you about water, stars and idol dramas. What should you do?

1, respect girls' preferences and avoid mindless attacks.

"Constellation and everything is deceptive. Who will believe it? " "Korea bonzi have what good? They are all white faces. " In that case, you will die! In any case, you should at least give your sister a positive response to the topic she mentioned to you, whether you agree or not, which is a respect for people. Think about it. If a girl told you that "boys who play games are diaosi", what would your experience be?

Also, do you think girls don't know that most straight men don't like horoscopes and Korean dramas? But my sister also knows that anyone who curses and laughs at things he doesn't like will do it. It is a rare achievement to learn to smile and keep silent about things he doesn't agree with.

2, don't talk too deeply, in case you become a girlfriend.

"Since I want to respect my sister's hobby, I will seriously study the constellation or her favorite star and strive to be more professional than her. Will it add points? "

When! However! Don't! Yes! Ah!

Who do you think my sister will study hard in the astrolabe with, and who will play tricks on the hero in the love drama with? Best friend! You have done everything your best friend should do. You are a capital "bitch" in her eyes. Why does she want a man with vague gender consciousness as her boyfriend? If you insist on doing this, I have no doubt that the next time you go against the current, my sister will come to you with tears and say, "My boyfriend is going to break up with me recently, please help me analyze what to do." ...

Bian Xiao can't help you.

3, it doesn't matter if you don't pick up, naturally change the subject.

Can't attack can't deep, is someone going to sigh that "a woman's heart is in the sea"?

In fact, it's not that complicated at all. Most girls don't want to discuss this topic with you seriously. She just picked up a teaser to chat with you, which is no different from chatting with the British. If you really don't want to talk about this, you can move on to a topic that you think is more interesting and good at.

Sister talks to you about constellations. Talk about personality psychology or even type 9 personality along the constellation? Or is it just a joke to say, "Don't be afraid to sail against the current, dare to bully you and I'll fry mercury for you"? Read more and learn more, broaden your knowledge, learn to apply what you have learned, improve your adaptability, and win the admiration of your sister and happy laughter. Isn't this a matter of minutes?

4. Read the appeal behind it and explore its meaning.

Actually, there is another situation. When you realize that your sister is not so understated in saying such a topic, it is likely that your sister is implicitly expressing some kind of subtext!

She complained to you about disobedience? Maybe life is frustrated and I need your comfort or help. Don't let her drink any more hot water. Think about how to get closer. She likes some kind of fixed love? That is often her expectation of feelings, and understanding this is equivalent to mastering the shortcut to her; If she frequently doubts your horoscope, she even compares your horoscope together (for example, "Is your XX horoscope a playboy?" "I am a XX constellation. I heard that I can't get along with you?" ), then it may be a hint that she is interested in you!

Natsume Sozaki said that even if the implicit Japanese claim to be the moon, the hidden thoughts behind boring topics need to be carefully explored.

5, the other party is too addicted, long-term choice, careful consideration.

In fact, girls with normal intelligence just regard this thing as entertainment, just as you just regard games and island action movies as entertainment, and you know very well that this is not true.

But it is also possible that this girl you meet is not interested in anything except Han Xing's gossip soap operas, and there are only these topics in life, so in fact, Bian Xiao suggests that you seriously consider her as the object of long-term communication. Because such a girl, her inner world is often poor and empty, even if she is beautiful, it is difficult to give you a good experience in long-term emotional interaction. Just like a boy can occasionally get in touch with online games and pornography, but boys who are addicted to them are diaosi regardless of their looks and family.

Boys who have long been concerned about uncle know that uncle always encourages boys to associate with girls with rich spiritual world and high attitude. After all, even is the most interesting and beneficial love.

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