Here comes the great god who knows the constellation.

These two kinds of people give the impression that they are extremely selfish. However, the root causes are quite different. Aries people often have no intention of hurting others because they are immature and thoughtful, while Capricorn people are determined to remove all obstacles and hurt others in order to realize their plans.

Capricorn people have almost no mental infancy and adolescence, and they are sophisticated from birth. Age has many advantages, which can make people think carefully and avoid losses. However, to be mature to the point of perfection means always being on guard against others, keeping your mind hanging all your life and making your life difficult. No wonder Capricorn people envy Aries's carefree attitude and lifestyle the most. But Capricorn will never easily develop a long-term intimate relationship with the opposite sex of Aries. Only when they are past middle age and everything is ready will they consider this problem. Because of foresight and never acting on impulse, it is difficult for Capricorn people to let their feelings get the upper hand of reason. Maybe that's why they don't want to get too close to Aries, who acts on feelings and impulses. They look down on people who can't control their emotions. Maybe they don't want to admit it, but it's true-they are utilitarian and sophisticated. In order to get ahead, they can give up their love, suppress their feelings, wronged themselves and flatter their superiors. For them, getting married means climbing to a higher social status and a bulging wallet. But Capricorn believes that this is not selfish, but for the sake of the younger generation. Only by being rich and strong can we ensure the healthy growth of future generations and receive a good education, so that we will not be unable to correct our teeth or get stuck because of poverty. Look, how far they think! They also publicly defended their views on marriage, saying that instead of spending a lot of money to treat foot diseases, it is better to carefully choose a pair of good shoes when the feet are not sick. Marriage means money status to him, so those who elope or die in love rarely have Capricorn. They are unlikely to express their emotions and rush to perform a touching Roman drama.

Aries and Capricorn can be compared to sheep that climb to the top of a hill. The former wants to climb up because he thinks there will be more charming scenery in the high places, and climbing up itself is challenging. Once he goes up the mountain, he will feel meaningless and immediately go down the mountain to climb another slope. The latter climbs hard because he understands that only mountains have their own world and can be safe, so he climbs anyway. In order to climb the mountain, the latter can endure any hardships, eat cardboard and swallow iron pieces, as long as they can fill their stomachs and climb vigorously. Therefore, Capricorn people can always endure bitter criticism, stinging setbacks and bitter prejudice silently. As long as they succeed, they can endure anything. No wonder they are always the most obedient and resigned people in social occasions or career paths. Aries, on the other hand, is warm and cold and easily angry. Their emotions are all visible, and "submit to humiliation" is a word that cannot be found in their dictionary.

How did such a couple get together?

Because of the old guards, men are lonely inside, and this loneliness is particularly strong in crowded places. And the woman can be keenly aware of this. So, the kind woman went to the silent man and talked to him, hoping to cheer him up. The woman smiled and talked to the man about herself and the past, but the man seemed to have a rusty lock in his heart, still reserved and indifferent. The woman thinks that the man would rather be lonely than see the beauty in life. "He probably hates me very much," she thought indignantly, ready to walk away.

In fact, the man also appreciates the beauty in life, but he just doesn't want to say it. When he was a pupil, he painted beautiful pictures behind his teacher's back and serenaded him when he was sure no one could hear him. But that was all in the past. (From Constellation House) At that time, he still had a heart that believed everything would be fine, but he was not sure whether that woman really loved him, so he would never tell her these wonderful past events.

The man is too close to his feelings, and as a result, the people who love him are deeply hurt, especially the woman belongs to Aries. A man knows this, but he would rather risk losing the woman he loves than let her see his heart without being 100% sure. Those affairs are a thing of the past, and now he should be pragmatic in everything he does.

After falling in love, the woman wants to make the differences similar, and the man makes the differences bigger. When there is a conflict of interest with one party, contradictions arise.

They are often unhappy because of money. Men value money very much and know it very well. The woman, on the other hand, is extravagant and not good at calculating (specifically, she doesn't want to bother to calculate). In case the woman encounters financial difficulties, the man will lend her money to pay the rent or repair the car. The woman's money is very reassuring because their relationship is different from others. Women are also secretly moved. It is really worth loving that this person can be so considerate at this time. A few months later, the woman did not pay back the money, not intentionally, but simply forgot, while the man did not forget, and he could not forget. The man gently hinted or reminded directly, but the woman thought the man was joking. Yes, she remembered that the man said he would lend it to her, but that was just talk. It can't be serious. Moreover, when she was well-off, she gave the man a brand-name color TV and a silk bathrobe as Christmas gifts. She bought a gold watch and a famous dog on his birthday. These things were bought with her own credit card, and the value far exceeded the money he gave her. The man was also moved by the generous gift from the woman, but he thought that giving and borrowing were two different things. So, he sent her a reminder, which also listed that 200 yuan's interest should be 47.96 yuan. What will happen to the woman after receiving this reminder? Of course I'm mad: he's so vulgar that our feelings are stained with copper. "Men are also angry after knowing the reaction of women-she thinks we can acquiesce in our feelings.

Even if the above events don't happen, they will still have ups and downs because their nature is so different. When a man encounters something, he thinks more about the bad, less about fantasy and more about action. This woman is a hopeless optimist, always fantasizing about miracles. At the beginning, the woman's inexperience made the man like it, and the pure woman also admired the man's deep sophistication. But gradually they found each other's charming personality unbearable. Therefore, the man tried to convince the woman not to believe that the rainbow on the horizon can lead to heaven, while the woman hoped that the man would throw less cold water on it. In the end, there was no choice but to break up.

But since I loved you, how can I give up easily? Both of them have scars in their hearts. Every time I think of the past, this scar hurts.

Their sexual life can only be more and more perfect after they stop demanding each other. Emotion has a great influence on their sex life. If there is anything unpleasant, the man will be extremely cold and the woman will deal with it listlessly. In fact, once a man is sure that a woman really loves him, he will surprise her with generate's passion, which is completely different from the cold appearance during the day. Although the woman is easy to get angry, she is also easy to get angry, and once the man can show sincere love in sex, the woman will soon forgive each other and enter the role. Therefore, the quality of their sexual life depends largely on the man.

For any couple, it is a thankless thing to transform each other, especially this couple. Therefore, no matter the man or the woman, once they decide to stay with each other for a long time, they must accept everything from each other with a hundred times tolerance.

-