Aries's younger brother is too gentle and always bullied. How could he know to refuse?

If you want a person to learn to refuse, you can do it in the following ways. According to the constellation attribute, Aries should be a brave person, not a too gentle person. It must be his family influence, and then it will lead to his gentle personality.

First of all, we should know how to encourage Aries people and let them learn to refuse someone. For example, let him know if he knows the consequences of rejecting someone. For example, when he still has something to do, suddenly someone comes to us for help, and we don't know how to refuse, which will make us unable to do it. Then we'll spend time helping him. His things are done well, and our things are not done well, which will naturally affect our work and life, affect the progress we want, and naturally lead to our unhappiness.

The next day, let him know that rejecting others is a very necessary learning to deal with people, and let him know that not everyone should promise them, but should help them. We should know how to measure the cost of time, know how to measure the cost of this kind of help, and know how to think for ourselves instead of living in other people's world. Only in this way can we relax ourselves. After all, we came to this world to enjoy life, not to always help others make things difficult for themselves.

Third, let him learn to be brave. After all, if a person wants to refuse others, he must first be brave, stand firm and know how to distinguish who should help and who should not. If you don't dare to refuse when others ask you for help, it will naturally lead to resignation, which will only make you more and more miserable and helpless.