Analysis of Personality Defects of Cancer Boys

Analysis of Personality Defects of Cancer Boys

An analysis of the personality shortcomings of Cancer boys shows that the personality characteristics of each constellation are different. The division of constellations has a great relationship with the operation law of celestial bodies. The fate of the constellation can affect our life. This constellation will have different attitudes towards different people. I have carefully sorted out the analysis of the personality shortcomings of cancer boys, hoping to help you.

Analysis of personality shortcomings of Cancer boys 1 Please don't believe that Cancer is a good man at home.

Cancer, homesickness and family care will be good men at home. This is what I learned from the horoscope book, which is very impressive. However, you really shouldn't think that you can cross your legs and wait for him to cook, sweep the floor, do laundry and clean up after marrying your husband, as if all the housework can be done by a cancer man. You know, if you do this, it will deeply hurt his self-esteem; Although family is synonymous with him, it doesn't mean that he is a servant at home and can be sent at any time. When you learn to respect him, appreciate him and thank him, he will become your standard housewife.

Please don't believe that Cancer has no ambition.

The general impression given by most cancer boys is that they are not enterprising. Many times, Cancer Men feel that being an assistant or second-in-command can avoid taking greater risks. Therefore, to outsiders, they have become less enterprising. It can be said that the real reason behind the lack of dedication is the lack of security of cancer men. Although Cancer Man "really" lacks some pioneering spirit, the advantages of being pragmatic and caring for others enable him to help others succeed.

Please don't believe that Cancer will shelter you from the wind and rain.

Cancer boys are gentle, careful and know how to take care of people. These will make you unconsciously fall into a "trap" and mistakenly think that cancer boys can always protect you and give you a reliable "harbor". Don't think that the shell of cancer is hard. In fact, Cancer is weaker than you think. When he encounters problems, difficulties and things that he can't solve, he will retreat, retreat and escape. It's not that he doesn't have the courage and determination to solve it, but that he denies himself prematurely because of his lack of security in many cases.

Please don't believe that cancer is docile.

Many times, the feeling that Cancer boys give girls is that they have no temper and are very docile. Indeed, cancer is really approachable, easy to get along with and very docile; However, when his potential desire for control is "released" and "blocked" by you, making him feel insecure, the docile cancer will also become irrational and unreasonable. It can be said that his meekness is actually a "weapon" to conquer you, and it is another manifestation of his desire for control.

Please don't believe that cancer likes ambiguity.

Girls who have been in contact with Cancer Man may have tried depression: Why didn't he tell me? Why didn't he explain it to me? Why does he like ambiguity? Cancer men don't know how to refuse other people's feelings, even if they don't like it; Cancer boys do not know how to take the initiative, even in the face of girls they like. Cancer man is indecisive. For girls he doesn't like, Cancer boys like to take care of the subconscious of others (especially girls who are weaker than themselves), so that he can't bear to refuse each other, thus causing ambiguity; For the girl he likes, he will be afraid that he can't give each other happiness. Lack of self-confidence made him bear too much psychological burden and stopped talking, which led to ignorance. It can be said that ambiguity is not what he likes, but sometimes, he really "has no way" to be ambiguous.

Analysis of personality shortcomings of cancer boys II. First, "sensitivity"

"Cancer Man" is more sensitive than many girls, and a little thing can make him think a lot. Moreover, even if you explain immediately, he will try to be brave and say, "You don't have to explain, I understand."

Second, "stingy (bear grudges)"

The "stingy" of "Cancer Man" is not embodied in material things, but in getting along with people around him. One sentence is wrong, he can sulk for several days alone, without text messages, phone calls or any news. This is the so-called Cold War. At this time, even if the other party takes the initiative to compromise, he will not "forgive you" at the first time, but "deal with a man as he deals with you", which also makes you unhappy. The soft-hearted man actually forgave you at the moment when you took the initiative to compromise, even very happy, just to give himself a step down, so he deliberately pretended to be like this.

Third, "chanting"

I have always called this "cancer man" in our family a teacher. There is no other reason, that is, he likes talking about things, because he likes talking. However, "Cancer Man" is willing to tell you the truth, just like your performance. They are very passive constellation men. If you are not sincere to him, it is very important that he will never tell you the truth.

Fourth, "hot and cold"

This is one of the biggest shortcomings that I can't tolerate "Cancer Man" so far. I will be close to you for a period of time, caring, meticulous, patient, careful and considerate; But the next second, he will give you a very strange feeling. He speaks politely, can keep his distance, and is not active or active, which makes people puzzled.

Fifth, "pun intended"

This is my second unacceptable shortcoming of "Cancer Man" besides "hot and cold". "Cancer man" talks to you, especially on emotional topics, and his favorite is "pun intended". Obviously, he wants to ask your opinion and is eager to know your answer, but he insists on starting with "what others say about me". Obviously, he wants to get your praise or praise, but he insists on using the sentence "This is what I should do" to deal with you.

Sixth, "self-protection consciousness" is too strong.

The longer you are in contact with "Cancer Men", the more you will find that it is actually very difficult to really enter their hearts. Obviously, two people already care about each other, but the feeling he gives you is still "unfathomable". You always feel that he didn't show you all the appearances, and they always feel that they are hiding something. In fact, this is all an illusion. "Cancer man" is generally more single-minded, more serious about feelings, and not so particular. They are so difficult to be "breached" because they are sensitive, self-protective, shy and urgently need a sense of security.