How to improve selective introversion

I always thought I was an introvert? I also envy those people who have conversations no matter what type of people they meet. I have always been curious about how such people do it.

Teacher Li Xiaolai is in What should I do? Oh, don't quarrel with my wife? "The article mentioned the following description:

Seeing the above words, I feel that my second pulse of Ren Du has been opened. In fact, whether I have a topic to talk to others has been decided before I speak. We need to have the same language with each other. Even if we talk about gossip, we need to know two gossips.

Looking back on yourself on weekdays, I will really be like a nagging bitch when I meet something I really understand. But I don't want to talk when I meet two kinds of people. I call this phenomenon selective introversion:

A person pretends to know that he doesn't know, and then I'm too lazy to say it.

The other kind of people have the advantage of crushing in a certain field, but they are afraid of making mistakes, so I will say less to avoid being despised.

In fact, to sum up these two points, I should say that I don't want to be a fool, so I will show my introverted side. Of course, in both cases, judging from a weak chain of contempt, I will feel despised by others because of things I don't know, and Hu Kan will feel despised when he sees others.

Subsequent improvement:

1. plus virtual machine: There are actually not many topics to talk about in the field of life, such as cars/houses/wealth management/gossip/constellations. I will consciously learn more about this knowledge in the future, at least when chatting with others.

2. Give up the chain of contempt and don't look at the daily chat with serious eyes. Each of us will be influenced by many aspects, so we should treat it with some normality and don't feel superior or inferior.