From the Moon to the Sun

Douban has been hotly discussing recently: How do ordinary people spend their lives?

In astrology, this answer has a more widely known saying: from the moon to the sun.

From the moon to the sun, it can be said that everyone needs to travel for a lifetime. You don't have to follow your parents' path, the path widely recognized by people around you, the path of pursuing idols, as long as you follow your highest expectations.

This means that you need to grow up from the "shaping" of parents, the "bondage" of environment and the authority of others in order to truly shine your own light.

Many times we need to let go of our attachment to security and then look at the new creativity in life. We need to get rid of the personality brought by childhood and move towards a wider world.

No matter how old we are now, we have always lived based on the personality brought by childhood. This early life personality is related to our moon constellation prototype.

In recent years, as a therapist, I have learned from self-healing to helping others. I learned many different natural therapies in China and the West, which helped me out of the low tide of my life. Recent cases have made me deeply realize that the cases that teachers try to talk about are the best of our best teachers, which makes me look at the astrolabe from the perspective of a healer and gain more understanding and sentiment.

Father's Day just passed will let us see a lot of topics about parents.

For us, the sun is our parents. We absorb the texture of their fate and unconsciously reflect it in our own lives.

When we were children, the moon provided us with the basic guarantee of life, such as family life, the care of parents and the influence of local culture. We need this motherly protection and sense of belonging.

For the light absorption of the moon, we will passively accept the parenting care and nutrition supply provided by our parents. At the same time, we will unconsciously absorb the family atmosphere, parents' three views, parents' words and deeds, and even we will unconsciously absorb parents' subconscious life feelings, emotional patterns and belief systems, which will be reflected in our own lives.

However, as we grow up, this early personality needs to be upgraded with the responsibility of life and destiny. Adolescence is the first time for us to get out of the moon personality and explore ourselves.

In adolescence, the spontaneous sense of independence gradually emerged: I am me, I am not a baby attached to my parents. We began to have our own ideas and even became rebellious. Then we want to take risks and impulsively try something we haven't done before.

This is the beginning of self-awareness. We began to distinguish our life from parents and others, no longer taking mom and dad as the center of life, and gradually realized "my own life" and gradually became the central master of our own destiny.

This is an ideal growth process that follows the laws of nature.

A large number of people will wake up passively, often inspired by setbacks and changes in life, which brings us an opportunity to re-examine our true selves.

In the process of introspection, some people will really face themselves, start to know themselves, and realize that their life situation requires their full responsibility. Real, life-centered self-awareness and self-awareness of the sun will continue to expand, and people can move towards real maturity.

Others insist that it is the fault of the other party that leads to their own situation, and they are pure victims. However, the subconscious voice of this psychological reaction is: my life was created by others, and others are responsible for my situation. If you look deeply, you will find that this is a child's moon-like character thinking.

However, if he wakes up because of setbacks and germinates the sun's self-consciousness, he will naturally start self-exploration and self-reflection, and may consult professionals and try different choices.

In my life journey, I have also experienced passive awakening again and again. I explore and reflect on myself by learning different natural therapies. They taught me to love myself, to see myself clearly, and to handle and release my emotions correctly. Astrology learning has helped me better understand myself and my real inner needs. Everyone will have a positive side and a negative side, accept their imperfections, respect each individual, face every trouble with a positive attitude, and give themselves time to explore and explore what they need? We will really grow up!

The real sun consciousness is to shine consciously, not to illuminate yourself-it will make people realize what they are doing and what kind of person they are.

I hope everyone can live to be their own sun? (? ^o^？ )?