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After all, we live in a big dye vat of society, and we can't do without socialization and communication. How to have the skills of social arrogance is still very important.

Each constellation has its own characteristics, a set of independent values and different ways of dealing with people. Therefore, correspondingly, if you want to socialize, the things that people in each constellation have to do and the state they have reached are different.

In addition, the constellation I wrote here only supports the corresponding sun constellation, because after all, the rising constellation and the sun have different functions, so everyone only refers to the sun constellation.

Many people think that Aries belongs to the fire sign and is notoriously straightforward. When dealing with people, you will not be timid at all. With his careless personality, he can quickly blend in with others and be called the king of social cattle.

However, there are still many Aries who claim to be "I am not like this".

Aries is sudden in daily social life and has strong organizational skills. They seem to have inexhaustible energy. There must be an Aries asking you to play-there are so many interesting things outside, why stay at home! Unless I'm sick! This is Aries, an energetic person who likes to play with a group of people. When he rises, he will shake people randomly in the circle of friends. Even if only one person is asked to play with him, you can still get high.

Aries is also the first in the loyalty atmosphere. If you go out to spend money, as long as you have Aries, you will generally pay for it. Good friends who are short of money will also find ways to help raise money. So sometimes some people use this to bully Aries. Because Aries values loyalty too much.

Aries is also very self-righteous, and social arrogance depends largely on it. As long as Aries is willing, Aries can quickly integrate into the target population, buy things that people like materially, eat delicious food, and play with people mentally, which makes people happy. I'm afraid no one can stand it.

The Aries friends around me are basically very typical Aries. On weekdays, only a few Aries told me to go out for a barbecue at once. It's just that as a Virgo, something happened suddenly, and I basically took it back suddenly. As a result, the next time this person wants to barbecue, he will still go his own way and organize a party temporarily.

They are like children at ordinary times. They actually lack the concepts of money and time and don't care about themselves. So they always feel that they are careless and can't take care of people from the details.

Aries can be more social, and a few tips tell you:

Don't just think about doing things.

Aries is so hot, when you want to do something, you must do it at once, and no one can stop it. If Aries does this by herself, it's fine. If it involves others or unfamiliar people, if you are in a hurry to call others, it may appear that you are irresponsible in the eyes of others and don't take into account each other's situation. So in this case, for others, in fact, you can't take care of others' feelings, and things are not fully considered.

When doing something, Aries only thinks about how to do it well and satisfy the leader, so it is no problem to control it in a big direction. The key lies in the details, because not only work, but also social interaction, which contains a lot of psychological operations. Commonly known as human feelings.

Therefore, when you do things in Aries, because you are very serious, your attitude towards others is also business, not for people to see, so it will inevitably give people an uncomfortable feeling. Because your reaction is the most direct and simple, and nothing else is mixed. But a bad temper can hurt others. You will write happiness and unhappiness on your face, and the other person can directly feel your emotions. If you are angry, then the other person can feel it directly.

Although your emotions come and go quickly, and only for things, not for individuals, this emotional injury will leave some memories for the other party, including physical and mental memories. So in the short term, it will have little impact on the follow-up relationship between you, but in the long run, it will definitely have a big impact.

One more thing, in fact, your personality will be more straightforward, you won't beat around the bush, and many words will be pointed out directly and said directly. But in fact, some words don't need to be said at once, but need to be considered repeatedly. Therefore, when speaking, it is best to think for a few seconds and then think about a sentence, and then tell the other party. Otherwise, even if you hold a sincere heart, the other party will not feel it and will probably take an evasive attitude.

Try to understand others more attentively.

Frankly speaking, Aries is very thoughtful. We have met many Aries people, and they are all very enterprising. And once you decide to do something, you will start doing it immediately, which is an advantage. But socially, Aries often falls into a very passive state.

They will give people the feeling of preaching. Generally speaking, when Aries and a person get along, they will give their hearts to each other, including helping each other do something. Whether it is good or bad, he will give corresponding suggestions and practices.

But when helping others to do something, or giving some guidance, Aries will not hesitate to point out some problems of the other party. This is a sign of loyalty and affection for Aries, but it may not be an acceptable way for the other party. Because the other person will feel that his dignity and face will hang on, the other person will feel that Aries is really a person with low emotional intelligence. Why not consider my feelings so much? Is his EQ too low?

So for Aries, although this is true and it is difficult for you to reverse your thinking mode, I still hope you can change it a little. When you help others, you can achieve some goals and objectives in a slightly less direct way without being so mean.

Don't get emotional to extremes.

A typical state of Aries is that they will be very influenced by their own mood to do something. For example, when they are in a good mood, they especially want to invite a bunch of friends out to play. If you don't come out at this time, he will give you a soft and even say something exciting to shout you out. But if you are in a bad mood, no one can find him. Even if you call him, he will probably just say a few emotional words to you, or even give you a few words, or embarrass you to send him food or something. In short, everything will follow his idea. This practice has returned to your temper.

At this time, they are more likely to fall into such an emotional state, and it is difficult to get out, because when they fall into that state, they are more of an acceptance and sadness of personal reality. So Aries should pay attention to this. It is necessary to think more about others, because when you are happy, others may not be happy. If you must ask some people to do something with you, then use some soft methods to guide and guide others, so that we are both happy.

These places must pay attention to:

Your speech is too straight, so when you make suggestions and demands to others, you can try to make some twists and turns, and don't let the other person feel that you are talking to him condescendingly.

Your temper is too hot. When you are happy and want to call someone out to play, if the other person refuses you. Then listen to the reason why the other person refuses you, and pay attention to it next time, instead of automatically ignoring it every time.

Don't think about why, every time you help others, others don't remember. Think about how you solve this problem, and whether this problem is what the other party wants.

You think about this problem. Sometimes it's a little extreme, or if you insist that what you think is right, it's hard for others to change your mind.

Can you try to be tolerant and understand other people's thoughts and feelings? When you are hesitant, you can sit and wait. After all, not everything needs your immediate decision. Making decisions too hastily will lead to many decisions you regret.

Aries is a fire sign. Strong execution, but lack of thinking ability. In the case of sufficient execution, it would be better if we could increase some personal thinking and planning abilities.

When you think a thing badly, you should hold your temper first and wait. Don't always ask others for your own requirements, try to be soft and understand others.

This constellation, which depends on your own efforts, I hope you will be softer, so it will be easier.

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Author | Aftersound

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