Why are you looking for a girlfriend in the same constellation as your ex-girlfriend?

Love is mutually inclusive, how can we give it unilaterally? This kind of love will not last long. As for how to avoid it, you can tell each other when necessary. It's really troublesome to say that you also need each other's love. Both of them feel that they have paid a lot, and the other has paid very little. This is a problem. Since two people love each other, they should not consider who pays more and who pays less.