How to have self-consistent logic

In my opinion, self-consistency means not attacking yourself.

Self-consistency is a life deduced according to your own logic, which means that you completely accept yourself, accept yourself and let yourself have a happy life. So, how to achieve inner self-consistency?

Know yourself.

Only by accepting your own people can your body and mind be fully developed, and then harmonious interpersonal relationships can be obtained. If you don't get along with yourself, no one will get along with you; If you get along well with yourself, others will get along well with you. The same is true of couples and husband-wife relationships!

The essence of man is loneliness. If you want to be strong inside, you must learn that a person can be self-consistent. Accept your imperfections and constantly polish yourself. Only a self-consistent person can live in harmony with himself and shake hands with life.

Learn to accept yourself.

If you find that your interpersonal relationship is not good, you may wish to reflect on your relationship with yourself. It is an effective method to adjust self-relationship first and then improve interpersonal relationship. People have a considerable degree of autonomy, which is the main difference between people and other animals.

I think a person can be self-consistent, and the most basic thing is to have a certain knowledge reserve and cognition.

I have been listening to Feng Tang's lecture recently. I love Feng Tang, just like reading Lin Qingxuan and Yu's essays in high school and Li Yu's Poems of Southern Tang Dynasty.

My literary plot stems from listening to all kinds of fantasy stories since I was a child, and I especially like to buy Youth Digest and Readers in high school. At that time, there were not so many entertainment facilities and developed electronic equipment. My only hobby is reading books and reading all kinds of leisure books, such as martial arts novels such as Jin Yong, Gu Long and Liang Yusheng. Now it seems that my world outlook, values and outlook on life are all derived from books bit by bit.

Learn to reflect on yourself.

When we are alone, we'd better calm down and objectively reflect on our own advantages and disadvantages. If you find that you have shortcomings, you just need to make real efforts to improve. You don't have to hate or even dislike yourself, which leads to self-denial, but it is easy to become a bad person.

Recently, people have frequently praised my circle of friends, not only praising but also commenting, which makes me feel as uncomfortable as eating flies. I never liked it before, and I didn't pay attention to the video number. Suddenly, I came to fix it. If something goes wrong, there must be a demon. Since it can't be black, it can only be tolerated. I will think about why I hate him so much. oh . The result is betrayal. I hate people who stab me in the back, even verbally, even if we are thousands of miles apart. There is no value and necessity of any link. I regard everything this man does as air.

I hate being alone, why should I put up with it? Of course I can keep him out of my circle of friends. The future relationship is a "casual chat" relationship. Yes, I did.

Be good at discovering your own shortcomings.

The best way is to accept the fact that you have some shortcomings, try not to let it develop, and then turn it into your own advantages. Beethoven became deaf, but he still wrote famous songs handed down from generation to generation.

One thing, everyone says good, is not necessarily really good; Everyone says it's not good, but it may not be really bad. Especially in a pluralistic society, if one person says the same thing well, five people may not say it well.

We can't just judge this matter by other people's judgment, but we should see who is in favor of it and who is against it, and then make a further judgment carefully.

Don't care too much about other people's criticism.

When you hear someone speak ill of yourself, you should see who the speaker is, what his position is and why.

For example, my favorite teacher, Feng Tang, met with overwhelming darkness when translating Tagore's Birds on 20 15. Finally, his translation of Birds was forced to be taken off the shelf and became an orphan, which was hard to buy in the market. I got the electronic version from an app today. Personally, I think the translation of the most grounded version of Birds is better than that of Mr. Feng Tang.

When talking about books, Mr Feng Tang often refers to himself as an erotic writer. I haven't seen his stories about giving birth to a girl at the age of 18, and all the growth, including the story that the spring breeze made into a TV series is not as good as yours.

Here, I want to clear Mr. Feng Tang's name. No matter what others think of Mr. Feng Tang, I know him and I have the ability to enlighten him.

So in my eyes, he is a very powerful management master (former global partner of McKinsey), an awesome academic bully, a cross-border business wizard (helping my friend Luo Yonghao pay off 600 million debts in three years), a sincere writer, a compassionate poet, an adult with children in his heart ... Teacher Feng Tang is a very sincere and real person, and we come from the same constellation. ...

In this society, it is easy to be a villain, but it is too difficult to be a good person, so we should constantly strengthen our cultivation, study more, broaden our horizons and become a mature person.

If you can realize that you live in a defective world, and keep pursuing progress, constantly overcoming defects and constantly surpassing them, that is the real value of your life. There is self-consistent logic!