Who likes who is in danger?

Carl jung once studied the astrological data of 483 couples, and found that the biggest common feature of married couples is that the sun and the moon on both sides have induction. In dangerous liaisons's contrast map, in 90% of cases, one side of the sun is seated with the other side of the moon or is a triad.

As I said in The Relationship between Friendship and Decline, friendship and decline have a strong Mercury relationship. Mercury gives advice but does not give a sense of security, and dangerous achievements are different. The sun illuminates the road ahead for the moon, which not only guides the direction but also provides heat continuously, so the moon sincerely appreciates and worships the sun, and the sun gains recognition from the moon, which strengthens its sense of value and self-confidence.

Harmony between the sun and the moon is a necessary and sufficient condition for the establishment of the crisis, that is, there must be sun-moon induction in the crisis relationship, but sun-moon induction not only exists in the crisis, but also may occur in the comparison of other relationships. The sun is not necessarily successful, and the moon is not necessarily dangerous. Usually, Fang Cheng is the relatively calm party in the relationship. In Marx's pair of dangerous disks, the phases of the moon and Saturn will appear, so Fang Cheng feels great pressure and it is difficult to express his feelings.

Love at first sight, long and tireless.

Many dangerous comparison disks have the phase between Mars and the sun and the moon, so many dangerous ones are accompanied by love at first sight, and there is an impulse to throw each other at first sight. But if they stop on Mars, what is the difference between danger and safety? After the passion fades, in the face of trivial daily life, only Cheng Wei can explain what happiness is at first sight, and he will never tire of it for a long time.

Danger is the real relationship of 1+ 1 > 2. When you fall, it may be karma and safety that add salt to your wound. It may be honor and love that help you get up. Maybe friendship helped you find 100 ways to heal wounds quickly. Only danger cares about why you fell and how to stop falling.

Observing those stars CP, you will find that when they are in danger, their eyes will overflow with smiles: Faye Wong, Li,;

Then compare those bad CP's: Nicholas Tse Cecilia Cheung, Wallace Huo Ruby Lin, Shawn Yue Zhou Dongyu (this is Lang Langpei's program, which embarrassed me), and you will know what is shining in Cheng Wei's eyes-pygmalion effect.

Pygmalion is not only the king of Cyprus in Greek mythology, but also an excellent sculptor. He carefully carved a portrait of a girl, so beautiful that Pygmalion really fell in love with her. He looked forward to the "resurrection" of the sculpture day and night. Finally, one day, his sincerity touched the love god Avilott Dieter, who gave life to the sculpture. From then on, Pygmalion and the girl lived a happy life.

Psychologically, pygmalion effect is also known as the "expectation effect", that is, the sincere recognition and praise of an individual by important people will greatly enhance the individual's self-confidence, and the individual will strive to develop in a direction superior to the general performance.

Danger is a mirror of each other. A cat saw a lion in the mirror, then it believed it was a lion, and finally it really became a lion. So you love this mirror more and more, and love yourself more and more. A good dangerous liaisons can not only heal childhood trauma, but also help you regain your self-confidence and realize your self-worth.