Which constellations are already numb to love?

First place: Aquarius-born not good at playing emotional cards

Aquarius can keep a cool and rational mind when dealing with any problem. The more complicated the problem, the more willing they are to challenge it and try to solve it by their own ability, thus proving their value. It is a pity that a mind with such clear thinking and meticulous logic will often short-circuit when dealing with emotional problems. This constellation often lacks the ability to understand perceptual thinking. It can even be said that Aquarius is born with a high incidence of "romantic numbness". Romance in the eyes of others may become a waste or a mystery in their eyes. Too pragmatic values and too efficient attitude towards life limit Aquarius' emotional thinking, so that they can't learn all kinds of expressions of love like others, and therefore perceive each other's thoughts. This also makes many people who become lovers with Aquarius very headache. They are often troubled by Aquarius' indifference, and they are also confused about how to impress their lover's heart that does not yield to the arrow of love.

Suit the remedy to the case: change your mind and put yourself in others' shoes, and maybe you will gain more touch.

Second place: Leo-Love is a dessert, not a dinner.

Leo is very enthusiastic about his family and friends, and holds the same attitude towards love, and never resists others to express their love. But the problem is that although they like to express themselves in an extraordinary way and are willing to harvest the same expression, they don't believe that there is a constant and sincere emotion behind such expression, which can be called love. For Leo, romance is like dessert served at the back end of lunch. With it, life will be more exciting, so they are willing to enjoy it; But when they are short of money or need to go on a diet, they will decisively refuse to pay for it. Therefore, when Leo is in a relationship, it often seems more sincere than anyone else, because they are enjoying the romantic feeling and enjoying this kind of investment. But when they want to get out, they will also show determination and even indifference beyond ordinary people's understanding. The speed of this change is even daunting.

The right medicine: don't let self-confidence become conceited, and don't easily overdraw other people's emotional efforts.

Third place: Capricorn-Love always wants to live within its means.

Capricorn is a typical pragmatist and has a strong plan for life and future. They will try to do what they want, even if they sacrifice everything. If they encounter obstacles in the process of implementation, they will kick them away. Therefore, in the attitude towards love, Capricorn's view is often: love is a good thing, but only love that can lead to marriage is valuable. And only the romance that helps this kind of love has the meaning of existence-and definitely not much. In Capricorn's view, "romance" is often synonymous with wasting time and reducing efficiency, and this kind of waste and reduction exists in both directions between yourself and your lover. Therefore, they prefer to regard "romance" as an ornament in love. In order to maintain their feelings, they will consider spending time, money and energy to buy some such ornaments properly, but they will definitely control this effort within a rational range. Feel excessive, out of control, dissatisfied, etc. For Capricorn, it means a signal of danger. They don't allow such crazy love to happen in their own world.

The right medicine: Life is not just about work and study, and happiness can't only be bought with money.

Fourth place: Pisces-love, love, love can't afford to hurt.

Pisces actually suffers from "romantic numbness", and this conclusion may make many people stunned. But in fact, it is precisely because Pisces is the most eager and emotional romantic model that they become a group prone to romantic numbness. You know, when the romantic tendency of Pisces breaks out, it often blinds subjective insight. They are easily burned by love, forget their reason, lead to emotional mistakes, and make themselves black and blue. Over time, naturally, there is no strength to continue to pay and continue to be romantic. In addition, because of the romance of Pisces, there are many disappointments and injuries to one person in one's life. Looking back on his own emotional history, Pisces may be surprised to realize that there are so many loves, and the love and enthusiasm that he once thought he had fought for all his life appeared repeatedly in his life. So, since you can't even believe your own vows, then the romance and love of others are probably just passers-by in life, right?

The right medicine: distinguish between sincerity and ambiguity, and at the same time pay your own gentleness carefully.

Fifth place: Libra-the ideal of love is always better than reality.

Libra likes to look for everything in life that can make him feel beautiful, harmonious and happy. Love is like this, and romance in love is the most important thing. Therefore, after falling in love, Libra will create a romantic atmosphere between lovers in all the ways she can think of; Libra in the emotional window will also be full of longing for romantic love. Libra with such a mentality should be the farthest crowd from "romantic numbness", but this is not the case. Libras often get bored quickly after experiencing the "romance" they once yearned for. After that, either a relationship dies, or the relationship is more stable after the running-in of both sides, but it is also a relatively dull direction. Because Libra always feels that the romance in reality is far from his ideal pursuit, studying what he has done, the smart Libra will reflect on whether he loves for love's sake and how many valuable things are in his so-called romantic expression.

The right medicine: after sharing your inner world with others, you will find that "sincerity" is so important for romance!