? I found out that my boyfriend has an ex-girlfriend's trumpet, and I have been sending messages to that girl. All kinds of deep regrets?

You know the bad news, that is, your current boyfriend is still attached to his ex-girlfriend, and you also know the bad news, that's just his wishful thinking, and his ex-girlfriend doesn't want to rekindle his old love.

Most women with normal thinking do well, that is, once they have a new lover, they will definitely draw a line with their former lovers. Except in special circumstances!

We must also admit that some people are nostalgic, and this habit is attributed to Cancer in the constellation.

That is to say, in the process of love, you may be lukewarm and not active towards your lover, but once you break up and even have a new relationship, you will find the ex-girlfriend is good by comparison, thus opening the nostalgic mode, paying attention to the social media information of your ex-girlfriend, and even "harassing" each other.

Maybe your boyfriend is like this! There is no quick-acting medicine for this disease, he must adjust himself, otherwise even if you force him to break up on the grounds of breaking up, he may not give up his ex-girlfriend completely at once.

Only blame you for meeting an immature boyfriend. Either you grow up with him (it doesn't mean there will be a good result), or you grow up and end this relationship as soon as possible.

But all the above are inferred from your description, which does not mean that it is accurate.

The best solution is that two people in love are honest with each other, come out with all their doubts and suspicions, listen to each other's answers and explanations, and then make further plans and adjustments.

In fact, whether a person really loves a person, this person is completely felt. He really loves you and has eyes for you. How can he have time and energy to care about other women? Are you tired?

Love is completely irrational, and falling in love with someone is uncontrollable, even if that person is a heinous villain.

If you don't love someone, even if you are barely together, it will still be like a year.

Personal advice: Have a frank talk with your current boyfriend. If he really wants to be with his ex-girlfriend, he will end this sadomasochism as soon as possible, readjust his state before getting too deep, and look forward to new and healthy feelings.

The above answers are for reference only!