Refuse to be a yes-man in the workplace

Refuse to be a yes-man in the workplace

Although he is a Nuo Nuo-only person in the workplace, Nuo Nuo-only person refers to those who have no opinion of themselves and agree with others. Especially in the workplace, I have never had my own personal opinion. Next, let's take a look at the constellation that refuses to be a workplace yes-man.

Despite being a workplace yes-man, constellation 1 ranks fifth: Gemini.

Gemini, who looks sedate and indifferent on the outside, is like a trapped animal on the inside, eager to get rid of the cage that binds him, go to a place where he can greatly relax his body and mind, do things he is interested in and live a free and carefree life. In interpersonal communication in the workplace, Gemini will inevitably care about other people's behavioral reactions and their respective needs evaluation, but their sensibility is greater than emotion, and their intellectuality is greater than sensibility, so they are not so easily kidnapped by family and friendship, and they are not so easy to succumb to the relationship between superiors and subordinates, and "please" others at the expense of suppressing themselves, which eventually leads them to become workplace yes-men who dare not speak out and suffer from interpersonal anxiety! In Gemini's view, if you always live in the impression of others, care too much about what others think of you, and pursue the perfect "harmony" between yourself and your surroundings, you will not win the respect you deserve. If you encounter something you really can't do, Gemini won't just go along with it. Instead, I will put my inner feelings first, and then implement the principle of "well-founded, straightforward" and carefully explain the reasons to those who are rejected.

Tip: Think twice before you say no. Don't speak too fast.

Fourth place: Aries

The frank and clear Aries never hides his feelings-he is full of energy when he is happy; You get angry when you're angry. Although this crisp and neat personality principle is not like Leo (self-centered), their self-awareness is still very strong, they will not easily compromise with others, and they can't stand the oppression at work. Be a yes-man who has no opinion, only nods behind others' backs and is at the mercy of others? With Aries' straightforward and decisive personality, he will definitely vent all his dissatisfaction. Because playing the submissive role of Nuo Nuo is the most disgusting behavior of Aries. Therefore, Aries, who is calm and rational, will never allow himself to fall into the dilemma of "one second he is still keeping his head down to cater to others, and the next second he has already begun to feel annoyed and self-reproach"!

Tips: Although your refusal is not malicious, you should be aware that too tough attitude and fierce words may hurt others invisibly. Especially when the object of rejection is your boss, don't be too outspoken, you must learn to maintain the dignity of your boss!

Third place: Sagittarius

Sagittarius, who advocates holiness and freedom, always goes its own way and is loyal to its own desires-likes to act according to its own will, hates that its body and mind are limited by objective factors, and its thoughts and actions remain absolutely independent. Sagittarius's open-minded and generous personality is quite popular with people, but sometimes it unconsciously shows hidden personality characteristics: hot and cold. When you are happy, your enthusiasm is like fire; When you are unhappy, you are as cold as ice. Especially when Sagittarius is tired from work, if a supervisor arranges unreasonable tasks, or colleagues make some outrageous demands, with their straightforward personality, the rejection will definitely be very strong. Shooters who hate pandering to win the favor of others would rather give up the existing possible material rewards than fall into the bleak situation of "whose fields have to be cultivated by themselves" step by step, and then be hung up with the brand of "old ox in the workplace" (image of hard work and no regrets), and then suffer both physical and mental torture!

Tip: keep a clear head, pay attention to the skills and strategies of saying "no", and don't be too rash.

Second place: Aquarius

Rational and free Aquarius often combines strong desire with independent spirit. Their unrestrained character also makes them hate flattery and refuse all the shackles that bind them. Proceed from the "overall interests" and often do things beyond the scope of their duties? Taking pains to help colleagues clean up the mess, but also afraid of making mistakes? It's always hard to refuse a dinner with a non-commercial client who is completely uninterested. Angry at the unspoken rules of the workplace but bitter? ..... Aquarius will not be so wronged, and let the feelings of chagrin and regret unconsciously climb and entangle in the heart like vines growing in a garden that has not been repaired for a long time! Although simple and straightforward Aquarius is easy to get along with people around him and communicate frankly, in the face of some unfair demands from superiors and many unreasonable demands from peers, Aquarius feels that accident can also be regarded as maintaining harmonious and stable interpersonal relationships, but after a long time, it will be difficult to get rid of this "inability to refuse and numbness" and lose its own principles, which is not worth the candle!

Tips: Weaken the importance of reasons for rejection and minimize the negative impact of rejection.

First place: Leo

Leo, who has the demeanor of a king, likes to play the leading role in the crowd, which will inevitably give people a sense of majesty and inaccessibility, but in fact, they also have a friendly side-they put down their usual high-profile and appear in front of everyone with a friendly public image, talking and laughing with people, being naive and cheerful, so their enthusiastic personality makes their popularity quite good, and they like to ask enthusiastic lions for help when encountering things. However, Leo with intense emotions, emotions, joys and sorrows can't be just silly. Leo, with the sun leading constellation, is warm and frank, and dares to express his unique views on everything. With a strong sense of self, they don't want to live under the mask of "Mr./Ms. Nice who is responsive". There are always many demands from bosses, colleagues and customers in the workplace. Because of the company's regulations or overwhelming, they will choose to refuse simply and neatly, and carefully attach beautiful reasons.

Tips: Be firm when you refuse, but be careful not to appear too eager and arrogant!

Refuse to be a workplace yes-man constellation 2 Taurus

Niu Niu in the workplace is a good gentleman, who dares to be angry and dare not speak, dare to think and dare not do. Sometimes they know that others have bullied them, but they can still hold their breath and please their superiors at the expense of suppressing themselves. They are also willing to suffer hardships, because in Niu Niu's heart, only the "bitter side is the master", and one day they will prosper.

Cancer constellation

No matter where people in Cancer are, they only have one idea: "Harmony is the most important thing", and they also know that everyone has their own different ideas. Of course, you can't impose your thoughts and consciousness on others. Therefore, in the workplace, I also choose to be a submissive person. What's wrong with being called a yes man? As long as we get along well, that's enough.

Scorpius

Scorpio people seem to be Nuo Nuo-only in the workplace, but in fact they are very opinionated. I just don't want to talk more in front of work and argue with others. I'm sure I can handle the relationship between my colleagues and my superiors without losing any principles.

fishes

In the world of Pisces, there is no eternal status. Maybe today I just act as a handyman who is called around in the workplace, but I believe I have the ability to gain something and grow in everything I do. Therefore, it is not shameful to temporarily act as a yes-man in the workplace. Only with a good attitude can this society become more harmonious.