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What should the teacher do if the children in kindergarten are disobedient?

Kindergarten teachers have too many things to do. We should not only care about every child's health, but also pay attention to every child's emotional problems and psychological trends. Some children are smart and sensible, and will listen to their teachers, but many children are too naughty, not only naughty, but also willful and disobedient. Children can't reprimand, let alone beat and scold, but they can't be willful and disobedient. Then, in the face of disobedient children, how should kindergarten teachers carry out correct education:

Understand the child's "weakness"

Disobedient children don't mean bad children, just some wayward or stubborn. I dismissed many children in kindergarten. The more disobedient children seem, the more "weaknesses" they have. For example, their disobedience is just to attract your attention, or it is caused by a little inferiority complex. Therefore, when the child is disobedient, you should observe the child well, understand his personality weaknesses, and then take corresponding measures.

Don't rush to reprimand or stop the child's "willfulness"

Children who are no longer obedient or willful are just babies. They don't have the thinking of adults, and they don't have complicated ideas of adults. They are disobedient because they want to achieve one of their goals, but they have not achieved it, so the children will show disobedience. If you scold him at this time, maybe he is only obedient temporarily, and the child will insist on doing his own thing as soon as he turns around. So remember, you can stop your child from being disobedient, but don't scold him in a hurry.

Hold the child in your arms and ask him why he is not obedient.

Even if you know the reason why the child is disobedient, you don't have to say it directly. Sometimes children will play some "tricks" with kindergarten teachers, or because teachers ignore children, or teachers are partial to other children, or children want to attract other children's attention, and so on, so they will try to get their attention and then achieve their goals. Needless to say, hold the child in your arms, then ask him why he is disobedient, and then tell the child your analysis. At this time, the child usually bows his head and says nothing, which means that he has "won" and achieved his goal, because he really caught your attention.

Mark the child for disobedience.

This is a small punishment for disobedient children, and it is also to let children know that every behavior of adults and children is responsible. He disobeyed and made a small mistake. A teacher can choose to forgive and understand, but it doesn't mean that he won't accept the punishment that belongs to that mistake. You can choose to give your child a little black star, and then tell him that if he behaves well, he will immediately turn it into a beautiful little star. He may act disapprovingly, or he may be very upset, but in any case, his heart will be upset and nervous, and he will behave well.