Old Rong Zhi: How terrible is the distorted view of love when it changes from a beautiful teacher to a demon?

On the one hand, the change of marriage view is caused by the catalysis of the progress of the times. The rapid development of economy leads to the low income of some people with low ability, and the actual consumption is far from supporting the life they yearn for, which leads them to pay more attention to material things when choosing marriage. Its purpose is to shorten the gap with the rich and let them live a better life.

Old Rong Zhi

On the other hand, the reason is comparison and following the trend. Some people envy others for their high standard of living, but they are not competent enough. In order to make themselves glamorous, they will put their subjective consciousness on choosing marriage. This opportunistic practice virtually formed an abnormal bad style, which led some people to follow the trend and contributed to its popularity.

Old Rong Zhi

In addition, there are some people who are particularly vain and overreached. They have no ability to ask others to become gods. They are frogs in the well, but they covet swans flying in the sky. This spread of ideas with a wide vision and a large pattern also led some people to follow the trend blindly, which led to the final breakup of lovers. The grandiose world, grandiose people, grandiose love, grandiose marriage, this is the pale reality, powerless.

Now love is vain and marriage is unreal. They are all centered on money. Many people have done many things that people don't understand. One is that the other party buys a house before marriage, and the other party has to add his own name. It seems that the relationship we are talking about can't guarantee the stability of marriage, only by grasping money can it be stable. It seems that it is not for the sake of life, but always thinking about what divorce can get.

Old Rong Zhi

What I can't understand is that when I get married and have a banquet, I want to treat but I don't want to pay the bill. The man said that I only pay men, but women don't do it. I insist that men pay for women. Finally, the marriage didn't form, and I divorced for some reasons. So love is so fragile!

In fact, whether to distort the understanding of the concept of marriage depends on the severity of a person's selfish psychology and depends on a person's understanding and attitude towards marriage values. In real life, there are many remarks that distort the concept of marriage, but not everyone's practices distort the essence of marriage. They are usually wise men in life, and the so-called behaviors, understandings and remarks that distort the concept of marriage can only be persuaded by fools to follow suit.

Old Rong Zhi