What do you talk about when chatting with boys?

How to find a topic to chat with boys? Whether two people come together or not, they need to interact with each other if they want to get closer to each other. Only through communication can their feelings become stronger, and only in this way can their lives become better. So the interaction between two people is particularly important. However, many girls will have a confusion, that is, many times they have nothing to say with the boys they like, or they will have nothing to say to their boyfriends after falling in love for a long time. What should they do at this time? A few small suggestions for your reference.

1. Don't always be spoiled. When two people are familiar with each other, they will always be spoiled as before, and it is easy for the other party to stand it. If they are too melodramatic, the other party can't accept it, and it's hard for them to want to talk to themselves, so they should know how to grasp themselves. If the boy you like doesn't like the girl who is too spoiled, don't always be spoiled, or the other person will be disgusted.

2. Cultivate more interest in * * *. To know how to cultivate two people's hobbies, only by cultivating the same hobbies can we have more topics and more exchanges. Therefore, it is very important to know how to cultivate each other's hobbies and let yourself have more communication with each other, which will give you more opportunities to communicate with each other.

3. Communicate more actively. How wonderful it is to like someone, and I will be willing to change something for each other. Therefore, if I feel that the person I like has nothing to talk to me, I need to take the initiative to talk to the other person. Only in this way can I get closer to each other and get to know each other better.

4. Understand each other's thoughts. Just because they are unfamiliar with each other or are not interested in each other, there is no topic to talk about. If you are very familiar with each other, it is easy to understand each other's ideas, and some things can be known quickly. Therefore, we should know how to understand each other's thoughts, so that we can get closer to each other faster.

5. Don't complain too much. Sometimes when two people get familiar with each other, there may not be so many topics to talk about, so at this time, girls are likely to be inexplicably angry. If they often complain and get angry, it will annoy each other, so they should know how to adjust their emotions so as to get along better.

6. Do more things together. If two people really don't have so much to say at ordinary times, they should do more for each other. Doing things is easy to promote feelings, so we should find more opportunities to let each other do things, so that there will be a lot to say and a lot to do slowly.

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What if the boy you like has no topic to talk about?

1. The weather is a good topic. When communicating for the first time or at the beginning, in order not to appear too hasty, you can choose a transitional topic, and the weather is a good topic. Today's weather is good, the sun is shining, and it looks really good. Or it's really cold recently, and it's been cooling down. It's not too presumptuous to communicate, but it can also bring us closer.

2. News hotspots or sports events. All kinds of stories are happening in our world every day, and we can also communicate with the news hotspots or current events that everyone pays attention to. For example, the 18th National Congress, which everyone is concerned about now, is a good topic, and sports events that male friends generally like to pay attention to can be used as communication topics.

3. Interesting things in life. Sometimes you can tell some interesting things in life, such as a child making a childish mistake, forgetting to bring his wallet when going out to take a taxi, and so on. These little things in life may not happen to anyone, so communication will feel more intimate and easy to close the distance.

4. Physical condition, etc. Sometimes when chatting, you can also talk about your physical condition. For example, you have been insisting on physical exercise recently and feel energetic, or you may be too tired and have no spirit recently, or you are most worried about insomnia and don't know what to do. Many times, talking about these problems will solve a lot and make you feel more comfortable.

5. Academic or work matters. If you are a student, you can talk about your recent study and existing confusion. You can also talk about your favorite teacher or some interesting things that happened in class. If you have already taken part in the work, you can also talk about interesting things in the unit, or people or things you met at work.

6. The situation of relatives or family members. If you are a familiar person, you can also talk about family or relatives when communicating, such as parents' health, temper changes, children's learning and growth problems, how husband and wife get along, and so on. Of course, you should pay attention to protecting your privacy.

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Chatting skills with boys you like

1. You should learn to show yourself in front of him. Many girls will instinctively disguise themselves in front of the boys they like, trying to shape themselves into a perfect person, either wearing delicate makeup or wearing too grand clothes, giving others a feeling of overexertion. This will not only increase the distance between you, but also directly affect his first impression of you. It is recommended to keep yourself in life. Remember one sentence.

You should learn to express yourself bravely. Some girls used to talk about Kan Kan, but in front of the person they like, they suddenly become less talkative. In the final analysis, the reason is that when they face the person they like, they will become nervous and worry that the other person will not like what they say. I suggest you learn to express yourself in your life. You know, the more afraid you are, the less you will say it, and the less you will say that the other person has nothing to say to you.

Have a basic understanding of him. Some girls' affection for boys is often superficial, which may be his casual action or his casual concern. In short, there are various reasons, but many times if you really like someone, you should know something about his life, such as personal hobbies and dressing styles, which will not only make you have something to say when you meet again, but also increase your distance.

You should learn to take the initiative. You can take the initiative to talk to him, but don't always take the initiative. Being too active will make him feel from his heart that even if he doesn't talk to you, you will take the initiative to talk to him, so he won't bother to think about what to talk to you, because you have already considered this question.

You should learn to shut up. Some girls will start to use some simple tricks when they can't get a response from the other party, such as deliberately expressing their affection for other boys in front of him, hoping to see him jealous. It's good to use this skill occasionally. If you use it frequently, it will only make him really think that you are talking to him only for other boys, which will only make him farther away from you.

6. You should give the other person a chance to make suggestions. Don't say it alone. Give him a chance to make suggestions. If you are afraid that you have nothing to say, keep talking, maybe he will get bored. Chatting is a matter for two people. If you say something he doesn't want to hear, but you continue to say it, it may make him unwilling to talk to you too much next time. You should let him talk about the same topic as you.

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What is a good topic to talk with boys?

1. Beauty (female star): Girls like male stars, while boys have a male god. Instead, I like female stars and have goddesses in my heart. You can see if there are any clues about their favorite stars in his circle of friends and space.

2. Computer games: Boys like games very much, whether it's stand-alone games or online games. Some games you have to study, such as the popular League of Legends, such as the classic Diablo, the legend of the Sword and the Chivalrous Man, and so on. You are not required to play. It is good to know the characters and plots inside, and you can achieve your goal by chatting.

3. Delicious snacks: If women are interested in clothes, boys will be more interested in food. He must know your local food street and new restaurant like the back of his hand. Go and see him, and then tell him that I believe he will take you to a hearty meal.

4. Animation: Now more and more boys and girls like animation, mostly Japanese animation, especially some series, such as One Piece, Detective Conan and so on.

5. Cars: Many men like cars, but girls don't need to study more. To know the common license plates, meet for the first time, talk about each other's cars, and ask some common knowledge about car maintenance and driving.

6. Photography: If you know that the other person likes photography during the chat, take photos. You can also show great interest and ask him to teach you some tips for taking pictures with your mobile phone. You can take pictures, and you must know a little about taking pictures with mobile phones.