How to look at a person's personality?

Be strict with others and yourself.

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Perfect friends are generally introverted and thoughtful people, belonging to a group of pessimistic people. Perfect friends are serious, decent, polite and contradictory, afraid that others don't care, but also afraid that others care too much.

People who look perfect from their faces often have a long face and a face of class struggle, so it is difficult to laugh. Walking generally looks at the ground, does not like to look up, eyes dodge. The clothes they wear are particularly exquisite. Perfect friends spend a lot of time getting dressed before going out, and finally decide which one to wear. When they go out, they regret that they are not dressed well enough, because they always pursue perfection.

The perfect smile is quiet and often polite and appropriate. Besides, they are very organized and clean. I have a lot of things to take with me when I travel. Bags are always big. They live in an orderly way and especially hate people touching their own things. With the perfect person, it is best not to touch his body or his things. The law of life is clear and unchangeable.

Social contact

Perfect people don't make friends easily, but every friend they make is a very good friend. Because of what? He pursues perfection, and no one is perfect. Generally speaking, their friends are also perfect and they are very happy with each other. So the rest of the older girls are almost perfect, because they are always dissatisfied. Different personalities have fundamentally different performances.

Lively people always can't remember things, and the perfect type is different. He is loyal and kind to his friends. He can remember many things you can't even imagine, and he is the most loyal group of all his friends.

A socially perfect friend thinks first and then talks about it when it's over. Perfect people are particularly prone to depression. Some small things, unintentional words, make perfect people feel uncomfortable. The more they think about it, the worse they feel, and they may even leave. But if you want to have a deep conversation with your friends on a certain topic, the perfect person is very suitable.

Perfect people are very talented and talented people. It is difficult for them to praise people, because they always feel that things are not perfect, and they feel that a compliment can only be given to one person. They belong to a group of people who live in their own inner feelings with high standards.

Yesterday's disappointment tormented them, and tomorrow's confusion troubled them, always feeling very lost.

mood

The perfect friend will be very devoted to watching TV and feel that the protagonist is like himself;

Perfect friends are generally thin and think about problems every day. They are constantly suffering from minor illnesses, and there are always some minor illnesses that make them particularly nervous. If he has a little cold, he will feel that he will have a big problem. He will go to the hospital soon, especially nervous.

In terms of emotion and family, perfect women are generally good at housework, especially saving. They don't throw anything away, but keep everything. They have introverted emotions. The famous French prophet Ricardo Roberto Barreto da Rocha Danmas is a typical perfectionist and a typical pessimist. Many things he predicted were extremely accurate. This is the perfect type of genius. The positive significance of pessimism is that it can predict future risks and prevent them in advance.

The life meaning of a perfect friend is contribution and sacrifice, which is a very precious life meaning.

Perfect friends, especially your mother or your husband, will be willing to cook for you, but not for themselves; He will buy you something nice to wear, but he is very economical. He always sacrifices his contribution to make others live better than him. When men and women fall in love, the perfect type will be miserable. They will be unhappy all day and think, "Dear, you know, I still miss you, as long as you live better than me."

The active type is always talking, the strong type is always doing, the perfect type is always thinking, and the peaceful type is always watching.

They can create more excitement for themselves in a world composed of external activities and interests, and then bring greater vitality. This state of life is like saying, "I feel so I exist."

If you are smart enough, the perfect character is good at expression, fast speech, strong understanding and organization, and excellent memory.

Healthy and perfect people are good at everything: they know many languages, can play various musical instruments, excel in their own professional fields, and even master cooking, sewing and other skills. The whole world seems to be in their hands.

Generally speaking, a healthy and perfect person is the most talented of all personality types.

The advantages of a perfect personality

People with perfect personalities are thinkers, and they take their goals seriously. They emphasize the order and organization of doing things, and they advocate beauty and wisdom. They will not be impulsive and look for excitement; On the contrary, they will make long-term and best arrangements for their lives. If there are no people with perfect personality in this world, we will lose a lot of poetry, literature, philosophy and music, and the education, taste and talent buried deep in our character will also be lost. There may be many engineers, inventors and scientists in the world, and our economy and information will be unbalanced. Aristotle said, "All geniuses have perfect characteristics." Writers, artists and musicians are usually perfect. They are brilliant. If their potential is properly stimulated and brought into full play, giants will be born. Although Michelangelo died long ago and could not be tested by us, there is no doubt that he is perfect. Before creating classic sculptures such as Moses David and Piata, he deeply studied the human body structure, dissected the bodies in the morgue and studied the muscles and tendons. He studied more deeply than other sculptors of the same period, so his works are still respected and regarded as treasures today. Perfect people are the most talented and creative. They may be gifted in music, philosophy, poetry and literature. Perfect people pay special attention to details, so they are the best travel companions for active people. They can take good care of their tickets and luggage and remember which door to enter. Perfect people usually dress neatly. Men dress appropriately, and women comb every strand of hair just right. They always want the surrounding environment to be clean and tidy, and they even follow others to pick up the rubbish thrown on the ground. The motto of a perfect person is: If it's worth doing, do it well. If a job is handled by a perfect person, you will know that the job will be done well and can be completed on time. Perfect people are considerate and helpful. They are lawyers' materials. They are considerate, and they are willing to listen to other people's difficulties and help analyze and find effective solutions. Perfect people are perfectionists. They want the perfect spouse. They are cautious in making friends, only like a few confidants, and don't like too many lively acquaintances. Oh, how the world needs perfection! A keen insight into the spiritual world of mankind and an artistic taste in appreciating the beautiful things in the world. The talent to create amazing works that have never been seen before, and careful observation when busy. Careful thinking and consistent goals. As long as it is worth doing, we must make a good oath. The ideal of doing everything in an orderly and successful way.

The shortcomings of perfect personality

Due to the natural negative tendency, people with perfect personality are very harsh on themselves, always taking things private and often asking for trouble. Their thoughts are like a radio knob turning to a negative position, trying to collect some criticism from others. If they hear their names mentioned in the room, they will think that someone is speaking ill of them. People with perfect personalities sometimes find it difficult to tell whether they are happy or sad, because they never want to get too excited, but in fact their lives are mostly serious. Perfect people hate people who are rude and like to manipulate people's power, but they don't know that they are also controlling others through emotions. When people know what will make him depressed, they will carefully avoid it. It is very difficult to maintain this explosive tension, so people will try not to contact such people in general. Because people with perfect personality have high standards, they should do their best in everything. But if these high standards are imposed on others, it is a flaw in character.

Typical stable people are easy-going, and they want to live like a calm lake, not a rough ocean; They don't like "making waves", but like life to move forward at an even and balanced pace. Remember, people with stable personalities and people with active personalities are people-centered, and they all have a radar detectors in their hearts to pay attention to the needs, feelings and wishes of others. People with typical positive personality are extroverted, while people with typical stable personality are introverted. A person with a steady personality is very reliable. They like to obey the rules, which makes them very comfortable. They don't like accidents, but prefer to do things according to rules and effective methods. They are reliable because they are so persistent. When they do something many times, it becomes part of their nature. If things go beyond the known range or are about to change, they will feel very uncomfortable. Although stable people are introverted, they can become excellent leaders. They will lead others like coaches, not dictators. If they run a company, they are not only telling employees what to do, but also willing to tell them how to do it; They feel like their employees' parents, and so do others. People with stable personality have a heartfelt desire to help people out of trouble, which is commendable. However, they should be careful, because they are so kind-hearted, and sometimes they will be taken advantage of by others, but people with stable personalities will not care too much. They think that in the long run, everything will be "balanced", and they may be right. People with stable personalities are organized and efficient, and they want things to go smoothly. One of their mottos is: "If we work together, we can do it." They may not achieve every goal, but they hope so. This is their unanimous feeling. Typical stable people are good at diplomacy, because they are flexible, people like to be with them, and they can put themselves in others' shoes. In the play The Violinist on the Roof, there is a scene in which a man explains his political views to a rancher, and the rancher replies, "You are right!" "Before long, another man put forward the opposite political proposition, and the rancher replied," You are right! ""One person asked strangely, "Wait a minute, first you said this person is right, and now you say the other person is right, but they can't all be right, can they?" The rancher said, "Do you know? You are right! " Just like the "Mr. Nice guy" in our ancient stories in China, this is the skill of a typical person with a steady personality. People with stable personality are humorous, and the implicit black humor makes them see the bright side of life. They are curious to know what happened, who is doing what and the latest situation. Although people with stable personalities don't like to show off, they can always feel their existence. Without them, people with ability, vitality and perfect personality will not be appreciated. The creator found that it is impossible to be "overbearing" in ability, "flamboyant" in activities and "harsh" in perfection without balanced elements. Therefore, with a stable personality-without a stable quiet, steady, peaceful and inclusive, the world may be really chaotic.

Strength characteristics

-Be strict with yourself, be strict with yourself.

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Judging from his face and eyes, a powerful friend's eyes are bright, he is striding, and the expression on his face is always absorbed. In addition, their appearance is also very distinctive, which accurately reflects their personality. Their gestures are not many, but as long as there is action, they are firm. Perfect type will coordinate; Although the dynamic type is not very harmonious, it is very powerful and fast. They like to eat fast food best, and don't like to spend their time eating unless it is for work. The perfect type is the slowest to eat. Strength-type clothes generally wear block-type clothes. If both husband and wife are very powerful, then the clothing must be as square as a matchbox. Powerful people like to wear black clothes and black bags, which are the embodiment of strength.

Social contact

They are a group of persistent and active people who don't need friends. Strength-oriented people are natural leaders and people who like challenges the most, so they talk straight, don't say anything unrelated to work, and don't like to talk.

Powerful people will not easily participate in the conversation when they attend a banquet, where they will drink a glass of water while watching and listening. If someone is found to have made a mistake, they will say sorry. Your opinion is wrong. You want me to express my opinion. He likes to argue most, and he has to fight to the death. The biggest taboo in communication between powerful people is argument.

Strength-oriented people like to support what they have seen, even if it is wrong, they don't apologize. Willing to give orders rather than admit mistakes, he feels that all mistakes are caused by others. It is very interesting that they are people who never make mistakes. They are also a group of people who are most willing to do things for the collective and the country. When it comes to national feelings, it is solemn, and this is the supremacy of power.

mood

-they are also work-oriented emotionally, naturally dominant, irritable, directional, emphasizing value, ignoring details, performing a lot, and it is difficult to relax. Once they get sick, they are seriously ill and emotionally fragile. The artistry is poor. They don't appreciate and like music very much, or they just like working and can't stop. Because he is very powerful and speaks directly, as if he has no sympathy at all. In fact, this is understandable.

Powerful friends tend to think of others hastily, which makes many perfect friends and peaceful friends feel that powerful friends have no compassion. It is not that he is unsympathetic, but that he thinks everything is natural. If you want to achieve such great success, you will inevitably encounter such great difficulties. But the perfect person is not ready. He must do it step by step.

competence

Powerful friends are strict with others, but they don't care about themselves.

He is a natural leader, and our subordinates feel that they can't understand some aspects of their superiors, just as we feel that the superiors ask their subordinates to do something, but he can't do it himself. As a leader, the powerful must take care of this, and you must also meet the requirements of others, so that you can become a real leader.

Besides energy and enthusiasm, healthy and powerful people have creativity and experience, so they can make contributions to people. They are the kind of people who can achieve something as long as they concentrate, so they can become versatile people. Because of this versatile talent, I will become a person who builds bridges between industries.

Healthy power figures tend to distinguish likes and dislikes, and can take a positive attitude towards everything. Even as they get older, they still keep a young mind. In addition, they are full of vitality and energy, and can quickly recover from inevitable injuries or setbacks, just like a phoenix reborn from the fire. Powerful people won't let things frustrate them for long. They have the ability to learn and regenerate from events.

A man with strength is full of vitality and can start over. Their contact with the world can constantly stimulate their vitality; Every experience can promote their ability to expand new experiences.

Their abundant attention and energy are always focused on the outside world. He will not be distracted by introspective meditation, so he will never retreat from the world of practical action. On the contrary, they are always ready to invest in new fields with great energy. Their love for the world always leads them forward again and again, allowing them to gain new interests and abilities.

Having a lot of experience can make powerful people happy, so they are afraid that if they only focus on one or two things, they may make mistakes in others, so they repeatedly want to have more things that can make them happy.

In this way, the average power figure will become more and more experienced and want to have everything, thinking that this can avoid the anxiety of being deprived.

-General strength figures are less creative and tend to be materialistic; Less constructive, but want and have. They expand their lives in order to gain more different understandings. If they really destroy the world according to their own will, they still can't create a world in their own minds according to their own will. If their strongest desires are not satisfied, it will inevitably lead to the deepest frustration.

A lively personality

Generally speaking, the active type belongs to the extroverted, talkative and optimistic group. Brought endless joy to the world. They always act happy and excited. Their faces are like budding flowers, which will bloom at any time. Girls like big red and purple, big earrings dangling, boys like to wear colorful ties, crooked. They skipped when they walked. There are many gestures, and the body language with eyes looking around all the time is particularly rich. People who like to show that their handbags are in a mess and don't know where their mobile phones are when they hear them ring. Finishing clothes only tidy the surface, ironing clothes only ironing sleeves must be lively.

Social performance

Lively and active, at the party, I can hear a person laughing at the stairs, but I can't hear his voice until I see him. I like to live in groups and have many friends. Active personality, enthusiasm, always with joy; But I always can't remember other people's names, and others have gone a long way to remember them; It is easy to have a good impression on others, because he naturally wants to win the recognition of others, which is the biggest feature of the lively type. Listen carefully in a group of people and find out who speaks the most. People of other personality types are talking, but lively people are always telling stories. Lively type likes to praise people most, especially to apologize. Apologize frequently, because he makes mistakes faster than apologizing. On the bus, in the cinema or in the subway, those who speak loudly must be lively. Many people try their best to squeeze into big shopping malls, and the lively ones are the most active. They asked him what to squeeze in front of him and what to sell. I don't know, but I like exciting and fresh things. They hate numbers the most, remember numbers the least, and like people who are late the most. They are a group of hedonists. They do things regardless of results and pay attention to fun. What happened yesterday won't bother them. They don't even think about what will happen tomorrow. They just feel happy. They are a group of naive and fickle children who pursue novelty.

Emotion?

Every time a lively person falls in love, it is the first time. Every time he shed tears, he felt new. He was in pain, but after a while, he was well and happy again. The lively type thinks it's too much trouble when it's a little difficult, and wants to give up, but two days later they say they want to have a big fight. Fickle. He seeks novelty. Lively people are generally fatter. They don't get angry or hold grudges. That's why they are so broad-minded and fat. Lively people's emotions can be mobilized at once.

competence

Lively friends like music and all like singing, but they don't necessarily know music; They like to write poems, but they can't always write poems that make people feel happy. For example, the movie Titanic was put into a very sad paragraph, and the whole cinema was crying. Who is crying? Active type. Perfect friends don't cry. Their chests are sad, their eyes are moist, and their noses are sore … but their tears just won't come out. Back home, lively people smiled at Princess Zhu Huan; But the perfect friend may stay on the Titanic for a week and still stay in that uncomfortable stage. They are extroverted and emotional friends, and lively friends are also extroverted, which sometimes makes other types, especially the strength type, unable to understand. Lively friends don't care about others and don't care about themselves. All he needs is happiness and interest, as long as there is happiness and interest. At the best, a very healthy and active character has enough confidence in reality that he doesn't have to occupy himself when he is in contact with the environment. They found that the connotation of life itself is enough to satisfy them, as long as they can really absorb it. In addition, the profound experience of reality makes them not only happy, but also ecstatic, enabling them to accept the reality and unconditionally affirm the true colors of life. Lively characters can accept the mystery and instability of human existence under the attitude of affirming life, and can truly appreciate the true face of life without being anxious about the fragility of life essence. Beyond psychological happiness, enter the ecstasy realm deep in the soul. They embraced everything with joy. They take everything as a gift with gratitude, and when something is not helpful to their personal interests, they will appreciate the value of it with a broad mind. How busy the world needs! It brings laughter when you are in trouble, relaxes you when you are physically and mentally exhausted, lightens your burden with clever ideas, and makes you feel comfortable with humorous words. The star of hope dispels the haze and has endless enthusiasm and energy. Creativity and charm color the ordinary. Innocence helps you out of trouble.

superiority

People with lively personalities are often emotional and enthusiastic. They know how to turn work into fun and are willing to associate with others. They can find excitement in anything and then enjoy happiness in vivid descriptions. People with lively personality are enthusiastic and cheerful, showing optimism and enthusiasm for almost everything. No matter what you suggest, they want to do it; Wherever you suggest, they all want to go. They walked around, jumping up and down, waving and twisting their bodies. A lively person is warm and straightforward. They are used to hugging, kissing, slapping or touching their friends. They think these contacts are very natural. When they open their hands, they don't even realize that people with perfect personalities are retreating into the corner step by step. A lively person is born with the ability to perform, attracting the audience and the focus of the camera like a magnet. The more silent they are, the more they can give full play and create excitement. Lively personality has created many excellent greeters, hosts and club presidents. They can create an atmosphere, arouse the enthusiasm of the most boring people, and give an audience to lively people, who can talk endlessly. Oh, how the world needs to be alive! It brings laughter when you are upset and relaxes you when you are physically and mentally exhausted. Smart thoughts let you off the hook, and humorous words make you feel better. The star of hope dispels the haze and has endless enthusiasm and charm. Creativity and charm add color to the ordinary, and innocence helps you get out of trouble.

disadvantaged

Positive people are self-centered and don't care about others. They only see themselves. They relish their own stories, but don't pay attention to the changes in other people's attention. They may talk about things that people are not interested in, but pay little attention to the needs of others because they have an inherent tendency to avoid problems and shortcomings. Lively people are not good counselors, because they only talk but don't listen, and often only give simple and quick answers, which may not be applicable. Lively people make life colorful and have many friends, but they are often not good friends. Play with you when you are happy. When you are in trouble or need help, they will disappear without a trace. They often have like-minded people, not real friends. They gathered people who appreciated them, loved them and worshipped them. They like people who are willing to give, and when someone needs help, they will turn away. They are too busy with some exciting and interesting things to care about any trouble at all. Although positive people are often chosen as "people who are most likely to succeed", they usually don't succeed. They have ideas, personality and creativity, but at some point it is difficult to organize these advantages. If they are lucky enough to succeed for a while, their sense of superiority will be carried away. If it takes years of planning and work, they will give up and turn to another direction. Many active people often change jobs or even change careers after a few years. They said that once they found it difficult to get a crown in this kingdom, they would find another job.

Typical four personality characteristics: ability, positivity, perfection and stability.

A capable gentleman who doesn't admit his shortcomings said to his steady wife, "I hate stubborn people." She boldly replied, "You can be stubborn sometimes." He retorted sharply, "That's when I did the right thing." Another capable gentleman said, "I am not always right, but I never make mistakes." Even capable professors are keen to master control. A competent boss made a personality test, and I noticed that he chose all the advantages instead of the disadvantages. I specifically pointed this out. He replied, "that's because I have all the advantages and no shortcomings." If you insist on my choice, I will choose a few to make you happy. " Look at that! How noble he is! Soon after, this capable boss came to me again and said, "I have thought it over carefully." I do have a shortcoming, that is, I can't choose people, and all the people invited are Nuo Nuo-only people who are prone to mistakes. They did well at first, but they got worse. When I walked into the office this morning, I saw them sitting there motionless. I asked them what was wrong, and they actually replied that they were afraid of me. I immediately solemnly told them: "If you can do what I say on time, there is no reason to be afraid of me!" " "This is the ability of people to understand their own shortcomings! As you can see, capable people not only want to control others, but also fail to see their own shortcomings. They are so keen on taking care of others that they ignore the work influence they bring to others. People who take the initiative and don't think through their brains are extroverted and optimistic, and they are particularly enthusiastic about people. They know how to create and have rich imagination. An active person's mind is always full of new ideas. People with active thoughts can always turn things at work into fun and help others. They can find excitement in anything and then enjoy it in vivid descriptions. Positive people always hope that they can help in anything, so positive people are very popular with everyone. In a meeting, active people always have the ability to start thinking, make the meeting full of imagination, and then choose a unique and exciting theme. In a training class, in order to make the scene more active, I asked a difficult question: "Is the chicken laying eggs or the egg laying chickens?" At this time, an active student stood up and replied, "Of course it is the chicken that lays eggs!" " I then asked him why, and the active student said decisively, "Because there are eggs, chickens lay eggs." The audience gave a knowing laugh! A very creative active type told me that he often does something novel and exciting at home, and people who don't know active type will doubt whether he is normal or not. One day, an active gentleman took all the children in the community to a nearby park. There is a small fish pond in the park. He announced to all the children, "I bought a lot of bread today." Shall we go to the fish pond to feed the fish together? "The children were very happy and said with one voice," Good! "This was a good thing, but then something unexpected happened. A naughty child accidentally fell into a fish pond. Although his life is not in danger, his parents are very angry about it. So, please remember that active people should not play your games too much. Although you are unintentional, you often give people a surprise. Positive people are the most active and infectious people. As a talkative person, active people tend to be self-centered, active people are enthusiastic and open, and have a hobby of telling stories. Obviously, active people would rather talk than do things with peace of mind. When the advantages of a perfect person are exaggerated, the perfect person may have an overly sensitive, delicate, suspicious, nervous and critical attitude. Typical perfectionists pay attention to "their own inner feelings" rather than the inner feelings of others. When others can't understand the perfect type, they may feel lonely and depressed, and then they may feel sorry for themselves and enter into negative thinking. Perfect people act rationally, but there are lingering negative emotions in their inner world, which are incomparable in all personalities. Because perfect people can't effectively convey their complex emotions, they have a strong desire for others to understand their emotional needs. Perfect people sometimes feel very contradictory. red