Love is not what you want to give, but what the other person needs.

As we all know, loving him means being kind to him.

Someone refuses to accept, saying: I love you and bully you. Some people are really like this, which is more common in adolescence because they are really naive.

1 the story of a dead fool

A few days ago, a friend and his wife accidentally saved a newborn chicken. They couldn't find a nest to entrust this chick, so they decided to adopt it themselves.

The bird looks pathetic, like a chick covered in dust, and its slender legs seem to fall off as soon as the wind blows. The friend said piteously, "Little fellow, grow up quickly and send you back to the sky when you grow up."

A few days later, my friend told me the bad news. The bird died. The causes of death were severe dyspepsia and acute gastric dilatation. People say: I'm dead.

My friend sympathizes with the bird, especially her husband. When she remembered, she fed a bug, 12 times a day.

It's just that I'm exhausted.

2 hydroponic aloe

Last year, I moved home with a pot of fresh and juicy aloe. The tall branches look very energetic, and several small green shoots emerge from the roots. Kangaroos like it, too. Go and have a look if you have nothing to do.

Kangaroo offered to take care of this basin of aloe. I said yes, it's the easiest to take care of, just three words: never mind! Aloe seldom needs water and fertilizer. Just remember to water it once in a while.

Maybe I spoke too casually. Kangaroo thinks this can't express his love for aloe. His idea is simple. Plants need water, and he is embarrassed to see aloe vera without a gift.

So, every time he went to see it, he took a glass of water and poured it once.

In this way, aloe vera was watered by him into aquatic plants, and it happened to be the rainy season. Poor aloe soon withered, and its roots began to turn black and corrupt.

I asked kangaroo, "Do you really like this kind of aloe?" He said yes. I showed him the rotten roots of aloe, but he refused to look and cried. In another way, I used Du Niang to find out the habits of aloe, but he refused to look at it and asked me piteously, "Mom, have we forgotten this?"

Son, not so good.

I want you to remember that your love should not be the reason why it withers. Your love is not for what you want, but for what the other person needs.

What you want to pay, if not what the other person needs, may still be hurt.

3 The story of Aries man

It is said that in 12 constellation, Aries male is the most typical: if I love you, I will give you my best.

Papa kangaroo is Aries.

As I said before, Papa Kangaroo is crazy about cars. Before Kangaroo, he often dragged me to watch F 1 or GP games with him on weekends. To tell the truth, I don't even like bicycles. I am not interested in anything with wheels. The "meow" in these events will make men's blood spurt, which is a lullaby for me.

He asked me angrily, "Do you think F 1 can fall asleep?" I also replied angrily, "Can't you sleep with F 1?"

In a fit of pique, he decided to buy only the station ticket of Shanghai F 1. As a punishment, he didn't take me there. Actually, I just want to shout long live for his decision, okay?

Every birthday eve, I worry, will he send me a car model crazily? !

His favorite weekend arrangement, besides watching F 1, is to visit 4S stores. A man visiting a 4S store is just like a woman visiting a shopping mall, which will make another person who can't participate bored to death.

After he bought a car, the situation got worse. Wake me up in the middle of the night and say I'm going out to swim the river. I was so sleepy that he drove 80 yards in the unobstructed inner ring of Shanghai in the middle of the night, so excited that he opened the skylight and shouted. But he shouted, "Say, are you happy?"

I'm actually unhappy, but I won't tell you.

4 birthday presents

The story I heard on the radio.

A man called the radio station and said that today was his wife's birthday. He wanted to give her a big surprise by singing a birthday song on the radio.

As usual, the host will ask their love stories. The man said that he and his wife were high school classmates, and it was not easy to be together for ten years. Both of them have poor family conditions, and everything depends on themselves.

The host asked him how his life was now. He said that now that he has his own house, his own home and a lovely child, everything is getting better and better. Most importantly, he and his wife have a very good relationship and are very loving. He said loudly, "Although we are poor, we are very poor."

The host was also amused by him and asked him what birthday present he was going to give his wife. He said that because of poor conditions, his wife's birthday has been very simple in recent years, often a bowl of noodles or 10 yuan cupcakes. I called the radio station this year and wanted to give my wife a different romantic birthday as a gift.

The host was very moved and said that the column group could sponsor a big birthday cake for them.

After the phone was connected to his wife, the host pretended to be a surprise column, saying that her husband had signed up for the surprise activity and she was lucky enough to be drawn. What kind of wish does she want to satisfy?

The woman thought for a long time and said, "I have no desire."

The host was surprised and said, "In the information provided by your husband, it seems that your family is not particularly good. Don't you have any material needs? "

The woman said, "We are quite poor. I want to drink a bottle of iced black tea in summer. If I don't want to buy two bottles, I'll buy one. Let's drink it together. The year before last, we bought a house, had no money to decorate it, and bought the paint back. The paint for painting the wall was approved by ourselves. "

The host asked her, "Did you decorate it yourself?" The woman replied faintly, "Well, my husband and I, we approved the walls ourselves and installed the tiles ourselves."

The host asked, "Then it's really not easy for you. Especially since the high school romance has lasted until now, you have all paid a lot. If the perfect score is 100, how many points would you give your husband? "

She hesitated for a long time before saying, "80 points."

"What is the deduction of 20 points?"

"I hope he will spend more time with his children after work and play less with his mobile phone."

Obviously, these conversations exceeded the expectations of the host. Men are happy and lively, while women are tired and indifferent. The host made a final effort and asked, "Today is your birthday, and your husband entrusted us to give you a surprise. What kind of birthday present do you want? "

The woman has a deep voice: "I want to have a good sleep." After a pause, he said in a heavy voice, "Don't be disturbed by anything. There is no time limit. Have a good sleep."

The whole radio station was silent.

After a long silence, her husband's voice sounded: "I always thought I was a good husband." It seems that I still have a lot to work hard. "

The host said, "Happy Birthday to both of you."

Text/Su Yuan