How should we choose between love and bread?

Hello, I'm xu teacher, and I'm glad to share with you how to choose between love and bread.

I have a good friend named Yong Er, and she had a good boyfriend named A Feng when she was in college. A Feng is a very ordinary boy, but he is careful with the children who sing. Besides studying, he wants to spend the rest of his life with Yong Er.

Remember when we were still in college, when we occasionally went out to play together, when we chatted and drank together, we would ask them what kind of love or bread they would choose?

I always said that I should choose love no matter what, because there is a Feng around me who is very kind to her. Every time she is unhappy, she will talk to A Feng for the first time. A Feng is not a particularly rich boy, so every time he gives something he makes himself, such as making her a doll, or making her something delicious to make her happy. Looking at their sweetness, I began to be intoxicated, and I really wanted to have a very warm relationship with them.

But then slowly, the two graduated and went out to work. This society is like a big dye vat. When A Feng only bought Yong Er a rose, she was very happy. But I don't know when it started. No matter what Feng does, he can't satisfy this chanting. Maybe Yong Er began to learn to compare at work. She saw that many colleagues around her had a lot of material things, a lot of brand-name things and ate a lot of very advanced food. She also wants to experience these things herself.

Once, I told A Feng that she took a fancy to an expensive watch, and A Feng worked hard. At the same time, he found several part-time jobs and tried to save money to buy this watch for Yong Er. Because of this, his time with Yong Er has been reduced a lot.

Until one day, A Feng finally saved enough money to buy this watch. He invited Yong Er to a restaurant to surprise her. But that night, he saw Yong Er put on that expensive watch.

Yong Er told Feng that she didn't think Feng would plan their future. She felt insecure with him, made some excuses and left Ah Feng.

Feng didn't take out his watch. He put it away. In any case, he will become a more successful person because he doesn't want to lose to material things again.

In the later days, Yong Er was with her boss. She thinks that her boss is very powerful and can broaden her horizons and teach her a lot. She began to think that bread was actually more important than love. Her boss didn't praise her or surprise her.

When Yong Er is unhappy, her boss will only say something ambiguous, which is obviously perfunctory. But Yong Er doesn't care at all, because the boss often gives her some very expensive gifts, takes her to travel and eats high-class food.

Yong Er began to brush her circle of friends and show off things she had never experienced before. At first, she will feel very fulfilled and happy, and she will begin to understand a popular saying a few years ago: I would rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bicycle. She feels that her life is close to the peak.

But then she gradually realized that everything seemed to be a little wrong. Friends around her began to alienate her, and everyone thought she was showing off. Once she traveled with her boss, and kept taking some beautiful pictures and recording the journey.

She watched some wonderful performances, but she didn't feel very happy because she didn't participate in them and didn't invest well. It turns out that the reason why she has been brushing her circle of friends like this is to support her decision to give up her love for bread through some praises from her friends.

She asked herself whether she was really happy this year with her boss. When she got home, she saw a mountain of brand-name bags, many of which were brand-new. When she and A Feng planned a trip to the beach where she went when she got married today, she couldn't help feeling a little lost.

What embarrassed her the most was the praise of A Feng in her circle of friends. She found that the boy she left was still paying attention to herself, while the new boyfriend around her never really cared about herself from beginning to end. During this time, she also found that the boss's boyfriend cheated on her more than once, and she began to regret it. So she was a little excited and rushed out of the bathroom to ask her boyfriend if he had thought about their future.

And her boss's boyfriend said, "In fact, you already have a boyfriend. You are only with me for money." So he never wanted to be with her all his life. For the boss in Yong Er, this relationship is actually a transaction.

From that night on, Yong Er left her boss and returned all the gifts that the boss gave him. She began to realize that what she always wanted most was not these material things, and she missed the happy days with Ah Feng.

A Feng didn't develop into a super-rich man like a Korean drama, but A Feng is still waiting and treating her so well.

If it were you, would you choose love or bread? Do you want to live a life you haven't experienced, or love you can't get back if you miss it?

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Which should I choose, love or bread? We women used to choose love, but now women are smarter and choose bread. Of course, you can choose both, but such a perfect state is usually difficult to achieve.

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Look at this problem from a man's point of view.

In fact, I have also heard that many women will begin to miss love when they have the ability to fight for bread.

On the surface, women nowadays are very smart. In the choice of love and bread, they will definitely choose bread. In fact, true love has come. I think women should love directly.

On the other hand, men seem heartless, because in the face of love and bread, they have to choose bread without hesitation, so there are many sad people like Chen Shimei.

We have heard many stories. A man finally married a woman with more money than himself, or married a woman with more social status than himself.

Ha! I think women are very contradictory. If an emperor loses his land, the beauty will definitely think that he is a useless person and his love for him will be reduced by 80%.

Haven't you heard that money and power are the most powerful aphrodisiacs? In fact, we men intuitively want to win these two things, that is, we hope all women will continue to be crazy about us!

Many women associate love with the bread she needs and life. They all want their other half to be Superman and have enough power and money to protect their lives. So it is not wrong for them to choose love, because the love she defined must have bread. Anyway, love and bread, I feel full after eating one bite, and my stomach is full.

But it is difficult for a man to get a woman's love and then ask her to provide bread by the way. There may be many such men now, but it is impossible for me. I'd rather provide bread to the woman I love. I am such a man.

That's the point. I think I have to provide bread for my beloved woman, so do you think bread is important to men? To be clear, it is "I have bread, so I can get the woman I want!" " Since women think that men must provide bread in addition to love. "

In fact, many men feel that having no money can't give women a good life, and they are afraid to get married because of this.

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Life without love is like a stagnant pool, lacking vitality and passion; A loving life is a trickle with a source, which makes your life full of happiness and hope. In today's society, many couples get married not because of love, but because of bread, which is called "suitability".

I remember chatting with a beautiful friend before. She is nearly 30 years old and has never been in love once. Hardly had she entered the queue of older women when she started dating. When you are free, chat with me and say, "You must marry yourself before you are 30."

I asked her, "Do you have a boyfriend?"

She said, "No, I'm old and I still talk about love. Finding a suitable blind date to get married is a lifetime thing. "

In the following days, she really started a crazy blind date. The blind date met several boys, but it still failed.

She complained to me, "If I had known this, I should have fallen in love in college. I want to fall in love now, but my age is not allowed. "

I asked her how the blind date went, and she told me, "I lost a lot of battles."

I'm confused. I've seen more than a dozen blind dates. How can I not see many?

I asked her, "What kind of boy are you looking for?"

She said: "As long as you look good, you have to pass the hardware barrier, such as buying a house, having a stable job, and preferably having a car."

I said, "Which do you choose, love or bread?"

She said, bread, of course. What's the use of choosing love? Love can't be eaten as food. "

Well, after listening, I didn't ask any more questions. In the next two years, because of our work, we seldom communicated. We were chatting some time ago, and I asked her how her marriage was.

She just said, "Don't say anything. If you give me another chance to choose again, I will definitely marry love. "

In the real society, campus love is pure, because it doesn't consider many practical problems, only knows that you are in love, so you will pursue it. After several years in society, you think bread is more important than love, so people who are going to get married will choose bread more.

Married life is not only supported by bread. Two people live together every day, without love, tolerance and communication. The longer they stay, the more they dislike each other. Finally, the small quarrel turned into a big quarrel, and the big quarrel escalated to the breakdown of marriage.

In my opinion, marriage that comes together because of love is the longest. If they have love and no bread, they can make their own bread together. That will be "you accompany them to have a hard time and I will accompany them to live a happy life."

In TV series, we often see such a plot. Love and bread can only be chosen. People who originally had love gave up love for bread, which is also the background of many tragic TV dramas. Without material foundation, will love really fall apart? Among the twelve constellations, if faced with the choice of bread and love, what will the constellations basically do?

When faced with love and bread, I choose.

Aries: Love is the most important thing, and bread is the second.

If Aries choose between bread and love, they will choose love. Aries is not a person who values bread. They believe that bread should be obtained through struggle in life, and there are many ways. Only love can bring happiness to Aries. Of course, love is chosen.

Taurus: Bread is supreme.

Taurus is the messenger of bread. There are many ways to collect bread, and they are very concerned about it. But Taurus is a person who doesn't believe in love. They think bread is more real than love. Taurus believes that people are material, so as long as there is enough bread, love is also a natural thing.

Gemini: If you choose between the two, you will choose love.

When Gemini is faced with the choice of love and bread, if they can only choose one, then they will choose love. Gemini is a person who doesn't know how to live without love. Gemini thinks that people are emotional animals themselves, and life without love is not perfect.

Cancer: Love comes first, family comes first.

Cancer will choose love between bread and love, because cancer is a person who wants to have a family. They think that the premise of building a family is to have love, and the yearning for home can give up all obstacles, including bread.

When faced with love and bread, I choose.

Leo: Bread suits you better.

Leo is a piece of wood in front of love. They think love is hard to understand. They hit many walls for love. Leo will choose bread before love and bread. A lion eager for power cannot live without bread. They know exactly what they want and will make themselves stronger. This is their mission.

Virgo: Bread comes first.

Virgo will choose bread between bread and love. They are utilitarian people in life, because of the influence of virgins, they will keep a distance from many people. If they get close, there will be many problems. These headaches are troublesome and often the reason for choosing bread.

Libra: The Dilemma between Bread and Love

Libra is born with good looks, which is their pride. Libra will not be satisfied with only love, nor will it be reluctant to face bread. Moreover, Libra is not the kind of person who will make decisions easily. In the face of bread and love, Libra usually makes a choice after weighing.

Scorpio: I want both bread and love

Scorpio is a person who wants both love and bread, and often has neither love nor bread. Scorpio is a person who has illusions about love and is very eager for bread at the same time. They think they can't live without bread. It is difficult for them to choose between the two, often both or none.

When faced with love and bread, I choose.

Sagittarius: Love prefers it.

Sagittarius is a constellation that yearns for freedom, and it is also a person who does not like to fight for power and profit. Wanting bread often means conspiracy and competition. Sagittarius will choose love when there is a trade-off between interest and bread. Sagittarius doesn't require much bread, but freedom is more important.

Capricorn: Look at yourself completely.

Capricorn has no fixed choice between bread and love, but Capricorn who yearns for love still tends to love. The final choice depends on Capricorn's mood. Capricorn's mood will affect their judgment and choice. They may choose love when they are in a good mood and bread when they are in a bad mood. The final choice depends on their mood at that time.

Aquarius: Focus on bread.

For Aquarius people, it is difficult to impress them with the eternal vows. And they think it's really hard to meet true love in this life. Therefore, Aquarius does not pour more feelings into love, but puts them in bread. Any practical problem involving bread is what they really care about!

Pisces: the most easily lost constellation

Pisces is a person who doesn't know how to choose. They look greedy and want everything, but their ability is not enough to support their greed. When faced with the choice between bread and love, Pisces often appear hesitant, and the result of their hesitation is often nothing. Love can't stand hesitation and doubt, bread can't stand waiting, and Pisces often misses opportunities in hesitation.

Everyone's choices are different, and life may be different. What the teacher wants to say today is that it is good to be happy. There is no right or wrong between love and bread, only suitable or inappropriate, just like when we choose shoes, it is not only beautiful, but more importantly, it fits.