Sister-in-law is ugly and has beriberi. She is not as good as my brother's predecessor. It's really unlucky to marry her into my family. People say I'm much more beautiful than her?

1. You think my sister-in-law is ugly and has beriberi. She is not as good as my brother's predecessor. It's really unlucky to marry her into my family. Others praised me for being much more beautiful and pleasing to the eye than her. This is a typical way to belittle your personal value, expand your personal confidence and form a sense of low value, which is extremely harmful and must be eliminated, otherwise it will endanger your life.

You think my sister-in-law is ugly and has beriberi, which is worse than my brother's predecessor. It's really unlucky to marry her into my family. Others praised me for being much more beautiful and pleasing to the eye, suggesting that your personal value is very low (except for your appearance and athlete's foot, which can be regarded as zero), and you can only measure your personal value by other people's standards. Once you lack recognition, it is completely worthless.

3. Low sense of value is extremely harmful.

(1) If there is excessive psychological shortage, it will require excessive compensation in reality.

Many men and women deal with rich people in order to continue to live a high-class life, but they are generally unfortunate. From the subconscious level, the despair of luxury is the reverse formation of belittling self-worth and "unworthy" belief. In this relationship, conditional gift is not a gift, but a bribe. Maintain relationships by money.

(2) The subconscious feels that it is not worthwhile to miss the real partner, because the subconscious does not agree.

Even if you meet the right partner, you will unconsciously interact with each other in a habitual low profile in the relationship.

When many people are under pressure, they will show that their self-esteem is crushed, dodged, hesitant and over-responsible, but they dare not express their true self. If it is suppressed to the point where it is really impossible, people will collapse and make disgusting behavior.

4. Finding a sense of belonging needs a breaking activity.

We must re-establish the self-evaluation mechanism (including creating a storm) through a remote activity, return to a sense of belonging, and let others feel it. As a result, people have not changed, but only changed their internal patterns, and then found that the content in the relationship is very different. When we spend a lot of time looking for love, maybe what we really need is to eliminate the obstacles related to love in our hearts. Think of a sentence: what you lost does not belong to you, such as a lot of glitz, which corresponds to a sense of low self-worth that does not belong to you.

The realistic crush will push a person back to the beginning and reshuffle. It's up to you. Practice hugging yourself in the noise.