It turns out that marriage is predestined. Is marriage meant to be?

Speaking of marriage is predestined, everyone knows that marriage is predestined to be true. In addition, some people want to ask where "marriage is doomed" comes from? Is it true?/You don't say. What do you think this is? In fact, where does "marriage is doomed" come from? Is it true?/You don't say. Let's take a look together. Is marriage meant to be? I hope I can help you!

It turns out that marriage is predestined.

1, it turns out that marriage is predestined: Is it really predestined? Now I'm a little convinced. Last year, I took one photo after another on my way to a blind date, but I couldn't decide. I moved this year for work reasons. According to my colleague, it turned out that we were only one block away, and we also saw each other. We developed rapidly and went to his house. I brought him to my home this month. Haha, more timid than me, and obviously cheeky when we are together.

2. It turns out that marriage is predestined: Where did "marriage is predestined" come from? Is it true?/You don't say. The story of Yue Lao holding the red line.

The fate of the elderly under the moon is really a doomed case.

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Yue Lao is a household name in China. He is in charge of the marriage of men and women in the world. In the dark, he tied the feet of men and women with red ropes to solve the marriage problem.

This image first appeared in the betrothal shop in Li Fuyan's Collection "Continued Mystery" in the Tang Dynasty. According to legend, Ling Du was modest and withdrawn, and had long wanted to marry. However, many proposals were unsuccessful. In the second year of Yuanhe, Wei Gu went to Qinghe and traveled to Nandian, Song Cheng. A guest arranged for him to meet the daughter of Sima Panyun in Qinghe at the entrance of Xilongxing in Nandian. Because Gu Wei was eager to propose, he went to the meeting place at midnight, where he met the old man under the moon:

The moon is still bright, and an old man leans against a cloth bag and sits on the steps, looking up books from the moon. It is neither the tendency of Worm Seal against the eight sects, nor the Vatican asking "What book is my father looking for?" Study hard, the word in the world, and say that you are an ignorant person. Western Sanskrit can also be read, but this bibliography is not seen. How's it going? "The old man smiled and said," there is not a book in this world. Why do you see it? "... Gu said," But what can you do? " Yue: "Marriage in the world. "... because he asked," What's in the bag? "As the saying goes,' bare rope ears bind husband and wife's feet, and they are born together'. Although the enemies are separated, the world is in the official position and Wu Chu is in a foreign land. This rope is bound together and it is inevitable. Your feet are tied to him. What does he want? " (According to Taiping Guangji (Zhonghua Book Company), the same below. ) Is marriage predestined or artificial?

The old man who leaned against the cloth bag, sat on the steps and looked up books from the moon was later regarded as the god of marriage. As long as he ties the feet of men and women together with the red rope in his bag, even if "enemies are divided, the world is public and Wu Chu is a foreign land", they are husband and wife.

Artistic view of marriage and love fate

Under the moon, the old people tied together with red ropes to decide the marriage between men and women, which embodies the fatalism of marriage in the Tang Dynasty and is one of the manifestations of the fatalism of marriage in the Tang Dynasty. According to the Tang people, one's destiny cannot be decided and changed by oneself. "Everything in the world is predetermined" (Li Bi's Sense of Consciousness), "Everything that happens to people is determined by fate" (Wang) and "People are determined by nature" (Han Quan's Continued Life Record). Test the relationship between two people for free.

Of course, this preconceived idea of the Tang people is also manifested in marriage and love, that is, "when you get married, your life is settled and you can't ask for it" (continued mystery. Mrs. Zheng is the wife), "The way of husband and wife is also a long-term way" ("Yutang Gossip". Garden baby girl ").

The appearance of the image of Yue Lao is precisely the artistry and visualization of this view of fate in the field of marriage and love. In fact, before Li Fuyan's The Persistent Mystery. Engagement shop ",also has a similar image in the Tang Dynasty. Dave's Guang Yi Ji. Geng Yan cloud:

Seeing his extraordinary vision, he said that Geng held a pot of wine from outside, taking wine as the guest first, and the guest dared not accept it and returned it. The wine is full of joy, but stay. In the middle of the night, I greeted each other and saluted. The guest replied, "I am not a human being, but a local Cao Er, who has made the marriage in Hebei a stumbling block." Ren Xu looked at his clothes and saw the rope in the bag, so he didn't believe it.

Here, Cao Di, who calls himself a "guest", that is, "the main wedding in Hebei", also uses the rope in the bag to "trip the feet of men and women" to decide the marriage of men and women in the world. It can be seen that in the Tang Dynasty, it was a popular and universal concept to decide before marriage to be the master of ghosts. Men and women in the world can become husband and wife because mysterious officials are bound by ropes, which is an invisible fate.

But the image of the old man tying a rope under the moon to define marriage is more poetic, so it spreads more widely and becomes a reality, so the old man under the moon has become a well-known god of marriage. It says that marriage is destiny takes a hand.

Take HongLing to test whether the two have the fate of husband and wife, there is indeed a problem.

Yue Lao and Cao Di of Geng Yan in betrothal shop are engaged by tying the feet of men and women with ropes, which is an intuitive presentation of the concept of fate in the Tang Dynasty. Although this string of male and female feet is imaginary at home, it is also wonderful. I think the arrangement of holding red ribbons when men and women worship their parents in ancient wedding ceremonies probably evolved from this. The marriage between husband and wife has long been doomed.

In fact, in the real life of the Tang Dynasty, there has been a record of choosing a spouse by tying a rope. Guo's choice of wife in the article "Holding HongLing to Marry a Wife" in Kaiyuan Tianbao Legacy is like this: Why do some people get married so late?

When he was young, Guo was beautiful and talented, and Prime Minister Zhang wanted to be his husband. Yuan Zhen said, "I know there are five women in the imperial court, and I don't know who is ugly. We should not rush, but wait patiently. " Zhang Yue said, "My daughters have their own beauty, but they don't know who the puppet is, and they are all handsome. Very much, I want five girls to hold a little each. I will take it in front of the curtain, and the winner is my husband. " Yuan Zhen readily obeyed, so she took a red silk thread and got her third daughter, which was very beautiful, and then she really followed her husband.

"Mountain Hall Examination" also records that Zhang has five daughters. Guo didn't know who to marry, so he used HongLing to choose them. This is the so-called "HongLing knot". Of course, this fact is hearsay (Hong Mai's "Rong Essay" Volume I "The Book of Shallow Jumps" can be seen), but we can also see the origin and evolution of such marriage concepts and customs.

Should it be "destiny takes a hand"?

This is from the song "Strive for Victory". The original sentence is "destiny takes a hand, seven points depend on hard work." Late marriage is due to past lives.

Where does "marriage is doomed" come from? Is that really the case? Fate is really mysterious, and I think it's really destiny takes a hand.

Don't worry, yours will come, not yours, and it won't be forced. Marriage is destiny takes a hand.

Sometimes there must be something in life, and there is no need to force it in life.

From the story of Cowherd and Weaver Girl! As for whether it is true or not, I think it is a personal opinion. Some people experience love as if destiny takes a hand, and there are always many accidents. Of course, he thinks so. And some are not, it depends on how you understand!

Is marriage meant to be? Does it mean that marriage is destined to be true? Share. After reading the original "Marriage is Destiny", I hope this will help everyone!