Libra boys' view of love

I don't know how to express my love

I was going to delete this article in Libra. Why? Because if Libra doesn't know how to show love, I'm afraid there won't be any constellation in the world who knows how to show love.

However, it is also because Libra is so good at showing love, so I decided to keep this one. I hope you in Libra can also listen to my little advice.

What I want to emphasize is: show as much love as you have. In other words, please clarify some personality characteristics that are not directly related to love from the perspective of others.

Libra likes beauty and harmony and hopes to take care of everything. Of course, you will keep your image perfect first. So you always use the standards of a gentleman and a lady to regulate your every move. Libra men, in particular, know when to open the door for women. When do you put your coat on the lady's shoulder? When should I give a small gift?

These seemingly touching manners are actually just a means for you to express your politeness. If someone mistakenly thinks that you are "sincere", I think it is inevitable to get hurt.

I can't blame you. However, when the whole society is wrong and you are right, then your correctness may bring trouble. When all men are only kind to lovers, it becomes confusing for you to show your manners beyond the standards of ordinary people for lovers.

I can't remind everyone you associate with. Therefore, I have to advise you to try to grasp the discretion, "show how much you love."

When you look directly into each other's eyes

When it comes to dealing with the state of eye alignment, I must stand at attention and raise my hand to pay tribute to Libra who performed well. I can be 100% sure: as long as you are a Libra, when you think you notice someone, he will definitely feel your hospitality.

From girlhood to now, I don't know how many times I have heard friends describe Libra's hospitality, and my envy has almost turned into jealousy.

Here are a few examples:

At the end of a party, a handsome Libra guy "dropped by" to send the girl he just met home. The girl sneezed on the road and the handsome boy immediately pulled over. Pick up the coat from the back seat, carefully cover it on the girl, wrap her feet with the hem of the skirt, and whisper, "This way, you won't catch cold." Another handsome guy called a girl he just met and asked her for coffee for the first time. The girl refused. He persevered, and by the fifth time, he said, "I called so many times to ask you out, and I was angry if you didn't agree!" " "As a result, they went to a five-star hotel for coffee.

I can't imagine the plot and dialogue like this, which are all masterpieces of Libra. Seriously, if I were that girl, I really don't know what to do!

You may think something is wrong, right?

By the way, when you look at your right eye, you may show the appearance of love. Such an external expression beyond the inside may lead others to fall in love with fantasy. In this way, not only is he in big trouble, but you may also be involved.

At the time of first love

Striving for perfection in everything is a typical way of thinking in Libra. First love is the first flower of love in life. Libra certainly wants it to be romantic and beautiful, and wants to act like the protagonist in romance.

Therefore, sometimes it is inevitable to think too much. He proposed a date, and you thought, "I don't agree. My classmates won't laugh at me for being too timid, will they?" "If I say yes, will it be too casual?"

When he wants to kiss you on a date, you will think, "I won't allow it. Isn't it a pity that I haven't had my first kiss at the age of 20? " "If I don't refuse, will he think that I was very experienced before?"

Everything has two sides. If you want to have it both ways, you can't finish it at all. You just shook your Libra.

So, my advice is: put your Libra aside and follow your heart. You don't have to think about what your classmates think. How did he guess? The most important thing is: when he wants to ask you out, do you want to go? Do you want to be kissed when he wants to kiss you?

If you feel "really want to", just say yes! If you don't want to, then refuse!

You may get married more than once, but your first love is only once in your life. If you think about everything from different angles and trap yourself in deep contradictions, ten years later, you will find that the first love is only 80% fantasy and 20% absurd performance, which is not worth it.

When you fall in love

There is a Chinese song that just tells the love feelings of Libra: "In my lover's heart, there is a Libra to measure my enthusiasm and your response." "I want to know all your feelings, you know, all my secrets."

Seeking fairness and truth is a portrayal of Libra love.

Therefore, your lover will have some pressure. It is human nature to demand fairness. However, your enthusiasm is in full swing, and there may be some doubts about whether his reaction can be more turbulent. Because everyone's warm-up speed for love is different, everyone's expression of love is different, and the external performance is not necessarily the internal equivalent reaction. If we just blindly demand fairness, it may not be true "fairness."

Being realistic is also difficult to reach the same definition for everyone. You need some living space of your own, and so does he? If your two hearts are completely transparent, he knows everything you think and you see everything he does, then the pressure will be too great.

So when you are in love, you should have a good proper limit. Fairness is required, but it is not the contrast of single things, but the total weight of everyone's true feelings. Seeking truth is not the loss of each other's original living space, but the mutual trust, interdependence and mutual support between two hearts. Such passionate love can not only enjoy the glory of love, but also feel a balanced sense of security.

Take love in a horizontal knife, okay

It involves "okay?" "Is that okay?" Question, Libra, you'd better weigh all relevant factors on your Libra.

Now your question is: He has a family or a fixed lover, but the spark of love has been ignited. Can we continue to communicate? Is it okay?

Can be divided into two stages to weigh!

In the first stage, we only consider the possibility. Do they match? Are they close? Do you deserve him? To what extent are your feelings? What would your friends think? What would his friends think? How will he or she react? Do you feel guilty? Will he have a psychological disorder?

The answers to these questions are first placed on both sides of Libra.

In the second stage, we should consider the question of love or not. Does he really love you? Do you really love him? Do you cherish his contribution? Does he feel differently about your efforts? Is there room for you to participate in his future? Do you want him to do the same in the future?

Then put the answers to these questions on both sides of Libra. Then, see if we should continue or retreat.

If you want to continue, don't listen to other people's gossip and boring comments; If you want to retreat, don't miss the immature love that just sprouted. In short, trigonometric exercises are most afraid of becoming complicated. If you want to advance and retreat, you must have decisive thinking and action. Please cheer up.

When he doubts your loyalty

In the first case, you didn't cheat, and the whole incident was a misunderstanding. With your Libra's analytical ability and good eloquence, I believe you can explain what happened to him clearly. I want to remind you that he doubts your loyalty, not just "things", but more "feelings".

So, when you have analyzed all the causes and effects, please add gentle care. Because even if it is a misunderstanding, you feel unfair, and he really feels wronged. Please show your good love talent, make him smile through tears and love you more.

In the second case, you are really disloyal. Now, what should you do if the evidence is conclusive?

If you follow Libra's character, tell him the truth. Tell him honestly how you feel about two lovers. Maybe he will go crazy, but it's better than being kept in the dark. If you are really a Libra, please tell your other lover about him, which is in line with your pursuit of fairness. If asked, what is the conclusion? I think it is most likely that both lovers run away in anger, or one runs away in anger, and this problem is solved. I am most afraid that you will meet two spoony women, and I am determined to fight you to the end. Then, your story can't be finished in 30 series.

Don't just want to make peace, both sides delay by cheating. One day, paper can't cover the fire, so you still have to face the reality.

When love meets a bottleneck

Love can't stay at the peak forever, sometimes it will be elastic, tired and weak. At this time, both sides should work together to break through the bottleneck, otherwise the market will decline all the way and the future will be worrying.

Libra, the first thing you have to do is to take out your Libra and start putting weights on both sides.

How good is he to me verbally? How did I treat him verbally? What is his substantial performance? How much substantive correspondence do I have? How deep are his feelings? How heavy is my affection? Has he made a promise about the future? Can I dedicate my life? How long is his road? How far can I follow?

Increase, decrease, swing from side to side, the most feared conclusion is that this business can't be done, but it can't be done. If you don't continue, the previous investment will be gone; If you continue to invest, I'm afraid you will get deeper and deeper and get stuck.

My suggestion is that you might as well give full play to your analytical and communication skills and talk to him directly. If you want him to pay more attention in words, pay more attention in essence, don't be too clingy in feelings, make a clearer commitment in the future, and plan the future road with you ... everything can be clearly put forward. Maybe he has long wanted to make some changes, but I don't know what your opinion is.

You are dissatisfied with the present because you cherish the past. Because you are looking forward to the future, you want to break through the bottleneck of the present and think clearly about what you want. See if he can give you something. Think clearly and make it clear, maybe your future will be clearer.

When the old lover turns back,

Speaking of the return of old lovers, I have to come from three aspects, one at a time.

If we broke up because of helplessness, the relationship between the two sides came to an end. Now the facts have changed and the obstacles of those years have disappeared. I want to bless you for the second time. The only thing to remind you is that time will wear away bad obstacles and dilute good quality.

Although you are facing an old lover, you still have to operate with a brand-new mood, otherwise it is easier to have an unbalanced feeling because of the comparison of "how he used to be, how he is now".

If we broke up because of his betrayal, I'm afraid you still have gas in your heart. But it is not difficult to calm down. First of all, he has learned a painful lesson from leaving you. I think he must have had a bad time when he turned back. This lesson has been learned. Secondly, he should listen to your long speech respectfully. You bring his mistakes together and let him know that you are not indifferent, but open. Don't mistake him for you. You can let him come as soon as he says, and leave as soon as he says. You mean to make him sincerely repent and be convinced from now on.

But be careful, such a lesson may become the first rascal you re-associate.

If it was your grievance to break up, if you want to accept him again, you must find a self-explanatory reason.

For example, I did it because I didn't want you to worry when you went abroad. Now that you have got your degree, you should understand my painstaking efforts. Although it may not sound true, at least express your sincerity.

What kind of situation are you in now? In any case, when accepting an old lover, please don't forget to cherish it from the perspective of a new relationship.

Doubt about love

The comparison in your heart will make you doubt love.

The first is the "past and present" comparison.

He used to call every night. Why hasn't he called these days, and even he can't be found?

The second is the comparison of "giving and returning".

I held a big party for him on his birthday. I found many friends for him, bought his favorite cakes and gave him his favorite gifts. Why did he just say "Happy Birthday" on my birthday?

The third is the comparison between "he and another him".

I have been dating him for some time, and he has always been very kind to me. Recently, another one has often appeared beside me. He is so considerate. He sends me flowers home every day. When I was in a bad mood, he came to accompany me at once. Strange, it turns out that he also said he loved me, but why did he send so many people?

These three comparisons will make your Libra unbalanced and make you feel that his love for you is problematic.

Doesn't he love you? I can't answer for him. I want to suggest that at both ends of the balance, please put equal weights fairly, and don't measure it by a single event.

Take the second as an example. It is unfair to measure only his birthday, but he should also consider his poor expressive personality. If he stayed with you by the bed for several days when you were in the hospital last time, you should also put it on the Libra.

Please remember: only by objective analysis can we get a reasonable answer.

Facing the choice of love and bread

Love is precious and bread is important. In Libra's cognition, if both have value and significance, then choosing Libra is basically absurd.

If some of the bread you are currently in contact with is big and thick, it is a pity that it is not romantic enough; Some feelings are deep, but the money is not good. I think the most likely situation is to fight and let nature take its course.

Libra often shows a conniving attitude towards their feelings. When superfluous feelings come, it is difficult to restrain depression with reason. When connivance becomes a problem, there is a lack of courage to cut the gordian knot. Many tangled emotional debts, in this case, become difficult to clean up.

Take your communication as an example. You didn't deliberately avoid interacting with multiple objects at the same time. When your feelings grew slowly, you didn't actively handle the crisis of this multi-headed carriage. You think "kick down the ladder", but you end up in a bigger dilemma-you feel responsible for both sides, and you don't want to hurt each other by choosing either side.

Finally, you have only one choice-let the other person choose you.

I sincerely remind you in Libra that the last-minute choice is the most harmful. If you can make a decisive judgment before the problem gets worse, you can reduce future harm. Love, work, family and life, every day may change your life. Please face the reality.