After 70 years of follow-up research on 70,000 children in Britain, we finally found the factors that affect children's lives.

We humans have never stopped exploring life and destiny. Ancient and modern, Chinese and foreign, metaphysical divination, constellation analysis, psychological testing, including scientists, are all exploring. What is the basis of the change of people's life trajectory, and what determines our character, career and achievements?

As early as 1946, just after World War II, everything was in full swing. British scientists pay special attention to the psychological state and growth trend of children after the war. Because children are the hope and future of the country.

This crazy and great research was completed in 70 years. * * * Investigated 70,000 children, spanning five generations, investigated the details of life, tracked from the mother's pregnancy, and established a powerful database.

Including how much pajamas are, who put the children to sleep, what dad was doing when mom fell asleep, and so on. Finally, it is concluded that it is not innate IQ that determines a child's life, but parents, economic conditions and educational methods.

This conclusion makes parents sweat. Whether a child is promising or not is, in the final analysis, influenced by parents.

First, the family economic conditions

In the conclusion of this study, there is a harsh and glaring sentence: "Don't be born in a poor and backward family, because if you are born in a bad family, you are more likely to embark on a difficult life path."

We often say that a poor family is born, but we only see a few rare "poor families" and ignore the "poor families" that Qian Qian has never succeeded.

Birth is not something we can decide. Scientists only speak with data, and we can only face the reality. Scientists explained that children's poor grades, poor homework and poor memory are mostly found in poor families.

We must face the reality that the rich have rich educational resources, rich teaching materials and wider knowledge. From the starting line, the poor have fallen behind, and the number of "dude" is as small as the number of "poor children".

Moreover, most rich parents have a relatively stable life and a stable income, so they have more time and energy to take care of, accompany, observe and educate their children.

There is a picture that analyzes the professional situation of Xueba's parents and illustrates a sexual problem. Xueba's family conditions and parents' professional social status are generally good.

Second, parents have high academic qualifications, and children are usually excellent.

The Edward family of philosophers produced 13 university presidents, 3 scientists, 103 university professors, 60 doctors and 1 vice presidents in 200 years.

However, in the past 200 years, nearly 100 descendants of Lake, an alcoholic gambler in contemporary new york, were sentenced to prison, and more than 300 people idled and became beggars.

Zu Chongzhi, a mathematician in the Southern and Northern Dynasties, was also an astronomer and mathematician.

Third, good family education.

Many parents collapsed after reading the first article. Actually, it's not necessary Most of our parents are ordinary people, and now most of the new generation of parents have received higher education, that is, most of the children are on the same starting line.

Keep good communication with children.

Spend more time with your children and often go out to play or travel together.

Parents set an example by example.

5- 10 years old pays attention to cultivating children's reading habits.

Children aged 5- 10 have developed a mature sense of self, seeking inner satisfaction and demanding personal value. Therefore, accompanying children to study every day can enhance their horizons and make their way of thinking not limited by the environment.

Children aged 5~ 10 insist on reading stories every day, which can reduce the restrictions of poverty on children. The data shows that parents insist on reading aloud to their children, and their children will perform better in school and get better grades.

Reading parent-child picture books from an early age can help children promote language development, cognition of the world, management of personality, and improve their imagination, creativity, logical thinking ability and critical thinking ability.

Reading is a good habit that benefits children for life. A child who lacks reading ability will be a potential poor student. Yin Jianli said: "If you don't study, the higher your grade, the more you will feel powerless." Therefore, reading is the biggest and best investment that parents can make for their children.