What kind of person is easy to become a slag-sucking physique?

What kind of person is easy to become a slag-sucking physique?

How to avoid becoming a slag-sucking physique?

Attention: Pisces, Leo, Sagittarius

╋ "On the Spiritual Freedom of Sagittarius"

First place: spiritual freedom (for Sagittarius)

Sagittarius likes people who don't like themselves very much, because they like the love they have won. Sagittarius tries to be kind to others and make them feel indebted to themselves, so that they can have a clear conscience and feel at ease. This feeling of letting others owe their feelings can be said to be a kind of spiritual freedom ... but this spirit has not benefited the shooter, but has turned the shooter into a slag-sucking physique. Sagittarius likes a person to enlarge from a certain aura, deify the other person, as if by magic, and never leave him. In his eyes and heart, the crowd is full of him ... well, he doesn't care about everything of others ... even if the other party only gives a little vague and invisible hope, well, Sagittarius won't give up as long as it's not despair. Well, it is not worth it. This state can sometimes easily become a slag-sucking physique ... (Of course, some people think that the shooter is naive, heartless, calm and approachable. It's really easy to cheat when he looks at it, and then he starts to want to chase it. Hehe, cheating you will win. Not to mention, for this kind of person, the shooter chooses to watch the play, and then keeps a magical distance and beats him between applause. Who knows who is stupid? The shooter's slag-sucking physique is not self-aware, but he can't stop when he knows it, but he can't get it back when he wants to, but he is black and blue but guarding the lonely city. This is probably the most ridiculous thing for sober people, so how to wake up quickly? Just be hard on yourself. Another name for the person who knows the right thing is the person who misses it. Then, you broke your retreat and paralyzed yourself for two weeks. Then you will feel happy and help yourself get rid of it once. Sometimes it is necessary to understand that even if you have the same view, you all want to find an enterprising person, but don't forget that if you think that person is him, he doesn't necessarily think that person is you, so you are still inconsistent after all. People who love you don't need you to fall into the dust, and people who don't love you will dissipate no matter how much you hold them. Don't you agree that love is free? Why not set him free and let you go by yourself? To avoid slag-sucking physique, he asked, "What does he like about you?" If we can't get an answer about what we like about you, then don't make excuses for ourselves. The next time you have a secret crush, consider the mismatch and think twice before you act. I know these words are hard for an immature shooter. When you love them and lose them, you will know. After all, we should learn to be rational instead of indulging in an idealized world. ) The shooter's weakness is spiritual freedom, but his advantage is also spiritual freedom. If others want to know the shooter, they should vent with the shooter when they don't understand him, and tell the shooter that it's not the shooter's fault when the shooter blames himself.

Third place: Sacrifice spirit (for Pisces)

Pisces is kind-hearted, sincere and kind-hearted, and seldom thinks of himself. The most vulnerable aspect of their personality is excessive self-sacrifice and letting others push their luck. Pisces is romantic, sentimental and self-deceiving. It often feels like a roller coaster and a female constellation. Sometimes I don't like love that is too smooth. It takes abuse, disparity, stimulation, love and pain to be profound. Pisces women are very feminine, but at the same time they are really strong women. However, in love, Pisces often becomes a scum-sucking physique, because it is too easy to think slanting. If you keep giving, even if you get hurt in the end, you will choose to die together and everything will burn, instead of taking unilateral revenge like Scorpio. Advice to Pisces: If you always show up when the person you like is hurt and when he needs it, others are safe, but just because you feel safe, you don't care and don't worry about you. When you want him to get hurt, you will find no one to comfort and care. Only when he is in pain will he think of your kindness. This is human nature. He won't feel precious until you show up again. If not, it's no use trying again, because I don't like it at all. In fact, anyone is the kind of person who always pays and loses, stops in time, is proud of being spoiled, has never lost or hurt, and will not cherish it.

Second place: the spirit of protection (for Leo)

Leo, who thinks he is very powerful, loves someone endlessly, and watching others feel sad will give others warmth. It's really a dazzling sun, and no one is more enthusiastic than a lion. By the way, I feel that the lion and Scorpio are a good match. One is extremely warm, the other is extremely dark, the most selfless (everything can be paid) and the most selfish (everything is your own). Both of them are emotional people, and both want to find a lion or Scorpio with deep feelings and full devotion. The lion who originally wore a crown became unstable after meeting his lover, which was both beneficial and harmful to him. The advantage is that you meet someone who cherishes you, and the disadvantage is that you don't have to hit the south wall and never look back when you meet someone who is worse. It doesn't matter if others treat you badly. I love him and can't abandon him. Others are cold to you, and you still think I am willing to warm him; Others hurt you cruelly, and you said I wanted to protect him. I can be paranoid about one person and want to leave only the two of you on earth. The lion's possessiveness is no longer called possessiveness, but control. The average person can't bear this kind of spoil! Advice to Leo: Think about what the other person wants. Not everyone wants you to be nice to him. For example, Aquarius wants to be a playmate. Aries ... Forget it. Aries meets a lion. Let's see who can blow up who ... Lions play hardball, unlike archers. Lions love a person and want to be nice to him. It's for his own good. Is it a disguised moral kidnapping? To what extent should a person feel inferior and fragile before he can express his desire for control in this way? This article may hit the nail on the head. I feel worthless to such people. If you want to avoid this scum attribute, you can't be kind to everyone, learn to distinguish between good and bad, and distinguish between true love. Otherwise, you will always be injured. If the lion doesn't have the proud and powerful sunshine attribute and self-healing ability, how worrying it is! Some people should let go!

Sagittarius's Spiritual Freedom

-I don't owe anyone. I don't blame anyone.

This is an old article, which has been renovated for the third time. Because I saw the word spiritual freedom yesterday, I couldn't find a good topic. I was suddenly enlightened and decided to delete the previous article and write it again.

Spiritual freedom is a kind of psychology that you don't want to owe anyone or blame anyone. At a deeper level, it is similar to a state of no self and no other. Sagittarius habitually indulges in remorse, because he is afraid that he will always feel guilty and does not want to taste the uncomfortable taste inside. Therefore, Sagittarius is more willing to pay, and believes and leaves no room without reservation, which makes people feel that there are such simple people in the world who are kind enough to believe everything. In fact, the shooter is fearless when he decides to fall in love with someone, and this process also doomed the shooter to win in the end. This kind of victory is not to gain or reap some benefits, but to be carefree and invulnerable in spirit. Spiritual freedom is tolerance and understanding, sacrifice and dedication, liberation and openness, and instant liberation.

Some people use material aspects to measure whether others love themselves or not, and think that only keeping them is a sense of security, and so is love. The more you get, the more satisfied you are, the more practical you are, and the more you dare to laugh after the exam. Sagittarius is not. Sagittarius, on the other hand, prefers to give everything to others, nothing, nothing. Many people will think, what is such a shooter? -peace of mind. You will also ask, isn't the shooter afraid? -Not afraid. Because there will be human feelings, no debts, no complaints, no need for other people's approval, just seeking their own innocence. Even if he gets nothing in the end, the shooter has a clear conscience. Without regrets, he will only leave proudly. No guilt, no regret. This may be the reason why many people say that Sagittarius is heartless. Ruthlessness is unique. Sagittarius is pure. When you love, you really love it. If you don't love, you will suddenly become indifferent, which is very surprising. Maybe it's because it was so good before that people didn't think so when they first lost it and didn't realize the seriousness of the problem.

I know a real thing. A shooter said he broke up, but he put up with it for a long time and was really ready to leave. The other party disagrees, cruel, hurtful, exclusive and indifferent. Anyway, I have basically done everything I can think of, and the shooter can't be humble any more. No matter how easy-going the shooter is on the surface, he is lofty, arrogant and disdainful in his bones. If it weren't for love, he wouldn't lower himself for a second. Then the shooter said goodbye, never said a word, never met once, and soon forgot. To what extent, I just forgot to delete my friends. The other person happened to be a cold war fighter, so I thought the gunman was fake. I think how can I suddenly let go of that love? I held it for two or three months. I contacted the shooter. The shooter saw that the message was automatically blocked, only to remember that it had not been deleted, and then it was quietly deleted every two days ... and he didn't ask how to contact me at ordinary times. If I remember correctly, that was three or four years ago. I know that the shooter's predecessor looked for him several times in the past two years, but he didn't respond, almost out of thin air. But even so, there is no reason to blame the shooter, because others have seen that the shooter really has no bottom line when he is in love. Forgive again and again, lose face again and again, give countless opportunities, super good. Sagittarius's love is often heart-pounding love, heartfelt love, sadness and forbearance, please and entreat, which makes people feel distressed. If the shooter is like this, what can you owe? Blame it, it doesn't matter. Sagittarius rarely explains, they are rigid without desire and have no strong sense of guilt, because they are spiritually free.

It is estimated that many shooters' bad reputation also comes from this, such as fast input, fast turn and no explanation. Most people didn't start to scold the shooter because he did something bad. Because the shooter basically won't do anything that makes him feel guilty, he will try his best to make up for it. Many people swear because the shooter was too good at first, the other half didn't cherish it, and then he ran away. The shooter's posture fell from the sky to the ground, and the light stopped, causing some angry criticism. It is also possible that the shooter was insincere and changed his mind. There are many questions to remember here. Do you really know your shooter from beginning to end? Are you really good to him? Do you really feel the world with him? Think again, when the shooter loves you, will he spoil you, will he want to smile at you, will he say he is sorry, will he give you all the beautiful things, and will he want to give you the whole world. Many people react that it is difficult to fall in love with others after the shooter has left. And the shooter's reaction After breaking up, my ex will call and say that I can't forget it, but time can't go back! It's really heavy I can only say that I cherish the present. If you haven't let the shooter have a clear conscience, cherish him, love him more and make him miss you. If your shooter has gone, and it's for your own good and you don't take it seriously, and he has a clear conscience, then it's hard for the shooter to turn back. Like the shooter and the person who is being liked by the shooter, please note that when he is mentally free, he flies away like the wind and dandelion. ...

If people want to be free, they must first get rid of the mental shackles of fear of losing. Get rid of this heavy mental burden, and you will feel that everyone is independent. The person you cherish, that feeling, that time, really existed and did not dissipate. From then on, you are no longer afraid of separation, no longer care about gains and losses, and no longer worry about the future. As long as you are worthy of the person you care about, as long as he can live a better life, as long as you don't owe anything, don't regret it, and keep silent about your dreams, it doesn't matter whether you are together or not. Secondly, we should get rid of the social shackles of various secular concepts and fame and fortune. The best way to get rid of it is to conform to nature, cancel self-centeredness and be indifferent to nature. Spiritual freedom is also Zhuangzi's spiritual freedom beyond the world. In fact, it is a state of mind without fear, anxiety and desire, which makes people in adversity regard the adversity of the world as a journey of confrontation with the world. It can be seen that Zhuangzi's spiritual freedom is a very comprehensive and thorough human consciousness. It liberates people from the pressure of nature and society and the bondage of "I", and gives people in difficulties and adversity the courage to survive.