How to reply to your predecessor?

In my own experience, what should be broken is what should be broken. Even if he hints that he wants to get back together with you and sends you a message, male chauvinism becomes a little German shepherd and his daughter becomes a good girl, you should not believe his/her nonsense.

Before I remembered it, my ex suddenly sent me a message, but I didn't reply. You have no idea how cold and embarrassed he is. It is difficult for him to admit his mistake. Looking at the message he sent me, I hesitated for a moment. I admit, I did it on purpose. You are no longer the person I care about. Why should I reply to your message in seconds? That's a beautiful idea.

Besides, I'm not afraid of his anger. He came to me on his own initiative. He must want something from me. If I don't pretend to be coy, he is a narcissist and thinks I can't forget him. I poured a pot of hot water when the foot washing water was cold, and I felt very comfortable. It's time to watch. We can't leave people hanging. After all, we were soul lovers before. ?

I answered one? End. Don't underestimate me with question marks. I don't want to entangle with him, I won't degenerate, and I won't digress. Kill three birds with one stone. He quickly replied, Are you busy? Oh, good boy, good at chatting. I really don't want to beat around the bush with him anymore. After all, I can't hold my breath because I'm afraid I'll be rude if I go up and scold him. Although he already knows that I am such a person, our relationship is not what it used to be, so we should be polite and hypocritical to him.

I bit my finger for a while and said, not very busy. I was really fine and didn't really want to talk to him, so he seemed to have something to say to me. He answered quickly, can you chat with me? Oh, my God, so direct? I'm not a chat partner either, but from what I know about him, he must be in trouble to have such a tone.

He said: You don't have to answer me, just listen to me. This is also quite convenient, so I agreed. Although I keep a cold image, I can't get out of destruction. He was really decadent at that time. Knowing the cause and effect, it turns out that he has been doing this these days. He tried to laugh at him and tease him, but he looked half dead and I didn't know what to say.

I don't want to pester him, but I also want to give him some advice out of humanitarianism. He said, do you look down on me? I didn't respond, just a few simple pleasantries and ended the topic.

I thought hard, tossed and turned for a long time, and sorted out a long paragraph, which moved me. From a friend's point of view, I also said in black and white, no misunderstanding. I know how to comfort him, that is, to ridicule and encourage him. And he usually comes to me without talking to anyone. I can't be so ungrateful. So I sent it to him.

I don't want to have any more stories and memories with him, but I think I will give him a hand when he needs it. If we don't like each other, we will become good friends. Maybe this is fate. We will not be enemies, nor can we say everything at the same time. This is the result of being an ex after breaking up. I accept it and I don't resist it.