What do you mean, you can't put down the shelf?

It is a common idiom that a person or a group of people often pursue self-esteem, self-respect and vanity, so that they can't put down their airs, get along with others on an equal footing, or accept suggestions, help or opinions from others. A person who can't put down his airs may be manifested in refusing others' help, being self-righteous, unwilling to ask for or accept others' opinions, etc.

This idiom is usually used to describe people or groups who are conceited, opinionated or unwilling to accept help from others, so that they cannot communicate, cooperate or develop effectively. Failure to put down your airs may lead to tension or difficulty in cooperation with others, and may also limit personal growth and development.

If a person realizes that he can't put down his airs, he can improve this situation by reflecting, accepting the help and opinions of others and trying new ways to communicate with others.