If a woman wants to marry love, what kind of man will only suffer?

There is an old saying in China since ancient times: "Marry a chicken with a chicken; Marry a dog and go with it. " In other words, what kind of life will you lead in the future if you marry a man with a successful career and a sense of responsibility, but if you marry a man without ambition, you can only suffer with him. After investigation, it is found that marrying a man with these three "characteristics" will only suffer hardships in the future, which is very heartbreaking!

0 1, no ambition, content with the status quo.

Girls actually don't care about boys from poor families when they get married, but boys who are not content with the status quo. Because my family was poor and didn't work hard. After getting married and having children, you have to spend money everywhere. A marriage without an economic foundation is difficult to maintain. One of the biggest reasons why the divorce rate is getting higher and higher after 90 is that there is not enough money to support the family.

Marrying a man who has no ambition and is content with the status quo will never be happy. Because money is the source of everything, only with money can we give our children a good education and prevent them from losing at the starting line. I have seen too many families' children feel inferior because of poverty, and many families divorce because of money. So poverty is not terrible. The terrible thing is that the married man has no ambition and no desire for money.

02, grumpy, impatient with children.

Every woman wants to marry a gentle and considerate man, because she knows how terrible a grumpy man is. He loses his temper when he sees something that is not pleasing to the eye, loses his temper when he eats something that is not to his taste, and sometimes even loses his temper with his own children.

If a woman has a grumpy husband, she will live in fear every day, lest she say something wrong and light a small flame of his temper. It is also a very unfortunate thing for a child to have a grumpy father. It is easy to leave a childhood impression on the child and feel insecure. A woman who marries a man with a bad temper and no patience with children will only suffer in the future.

03, love gambling, don't leave home.

The purpose of a woman's marriage is nothing more than finding someone to rely on, sheltering her from the wind and rain and giving him a sense of security when she is in trouble. But marrying a man who doesn't know his family and knows gambling every day is eight generations of bad luck. Of all the men in the world, you must meet such scum.

When a woman marries a man who likes gambling, she basically only quarrels after marriage. As the saying goes, "small gambling is good for feelings, and big gambling is bad for health." I believe that no woman will turn a blind eye to her husband's gambling, because gambling is not only addictive, but sometimes she will lose all her fortune if she is unlucky. Therefore, when a woman gets married, she must polish her eyes. She can't marry a man who cares about his family all day and only knows how to eat, drink, prostitute and gamble.

Emotional summary: Marrying these three "characteristics" men will only suffer in the future. One: no ambition, content with the status quo; Grumpy and impatient with children; Love gambling, don't leave home. Is it very exciting? I hope that readers who read this article have never met such a man.