What is a soul mate? Which is the best soul mate in the constellation?

Platonic love mode, spiritual communication, or only spiritual love, soul mate is the kind of lover who goes deep into the soul and may not have much physical contact. If you don't want to hear the defined answer, you can look at the works about body and mind, such as the book Awakening of Love translated by Hu Yinmeng, Taiwan Province or her autobiography ~ You can slowly realize ~ ~ her rotation excerpt: Hu Yinmeng retired from film at the age of 35 and began to specialize in physical and mental practice. She has translated many works by the Indian master Krishnamurti, which has benefited a lot. In the book, she mentioned that Kirchner also answered "What is true love?" . He thinks that human beings don't know what true love is at all, because that realm has surpassed themselves, so he suggests to find out what is not true love first, and perhaps true love can appear by breaking perception. He wrote in "Freedom from the Known": "Fear is not love, dependence is not love, jealousy is not love, possession is not love, responsibility and obligation are not love, self-pity is not love, and the pain of not being loved is not love. Love is not the opposite of hate, just as humility is not the opposite of vanity. " Hu Yinmeng believes that love must have strong feelings. However, Kirchner pointed out that true love is not a feeling. True love is not a desire or happiness, it often appears after the feeling fades. He said: "The so-called love belongs to different dimensions, but I don't know how to get into that wonderful source. What should I do?" Don't do anything when you don't know what to do, right? In this way, do nothing, and then your heart will be completely silent, no longer eager, no longer pursuing. As soon as the self-centered activity disappears, love appears. In addition, Dr. Peck defined love in his own way: "expanding the will of the mind to nourish the spiritual growth of individuals and others." . "The explanation of" true love "encountered in life is mostly interdependence, dependence and snuggling. If there is such love, it is a blessing in life, and sacrifice is true love. To tell the truth, this realm is also very noble, but it also has certain difficulties. However, Hu Yinmeng pointed out: "What is hidden behind sacrifice is often control, dependence and self-sanctity." She said, "Dependence and possession are manifestations of addiction. The dependent person wants to get the emotional guarantee from the person he or she depends on. He (she) can't face his inner great anxiety and fear of losing the other party, so he (she) is more avoiding and relying on the other party. "Perhaps the initial thrilling attraction is the beginning of love, but in the end, love may not be able to tell which is love and which is the inner weakness of dependence, anxiety and fear. Hu Yinmeng said that she had a vague image in her mind: "I seem to have experienced a kind of love with no purpose and no future. It doesn't need any system or commitment. It exists independently, comes and goes freely and is carefree. " But at the same time, she also questioned her image: "I want a liberated relationship, but do liberated people still need a relationship?" "... as for the constellation. First place: Pisces Male Pisces Male's feelings are very similar to Wilde's fairy tale "The Fisherman and His Soul", which describes a sad and cold dream. In order to love the little mermaid, the fisherman is willing to give up his soul, but the ending is to die with the little mermaid's body. The process of Pisces man's pursuit of love is the process of pursuing his soul mate. Unfortunately, this immature heart insists on matching a man's tough appearance, and it has to knock out its teeth and swallow blood when it hits the wall. Most of the endings are either Pisces man's acceptance of life or his own misfortune. Second place: virgins are sisters who are very sensible and caring for others in many people's hearts. So whenever I talk about the word sad, I always feel that it will not affect virgins. Their lives are so thorough, how can sadness be meaningless? However, this is not the case. They clearly know everyone's needs. If you are secular, virgins will not talk to you about spirit. But they are extremely hard on themselves. If they can't find a soul mate, they would rather be single. Originally born like summer flowers, in the process of pursuit is so helpless. Third place: Aquarius women really don't know why a group of people who are eager for quick success suddenly poured into the group of Aquarius women. Is it because they collectively got their birthdays wrong? In any case, Aquarius girls will rank third, and it is definitely a great responsibility to report birthdays indiscriminately. Let all Aquarius girls show their violent tendencies and pat their backs. On the other hand, Aquarius women themselves have the potential of soul mates, because the spiritual field is always their passion, and they can even abandon a lot of materials for this. Unfortunately, at present, men don't know what they are afraid of, and they always feel that chasing souls is not too far from mental illness, so they would rather rely sadly on the sense of security of nothingness. Of course, Aquarius women rarely cling to this, because a soulless body is not very attractive to them. If this article is about who is the best leftover woman, 80% Aquarius women can win the championship. Fourth place: The biggest difference between Gemini men and women is that Gemini men like to ask childish and maddening questions, while Gemini children like to ask cute and addictive questions. A child who loves to ask questions is definitely a soul seeker. Otherwise, there is nothing to talk about at the sight of daily necessities, or a silvery white golden Huang Cancan. Therefore, don't underestimate the soul communication ability of two children. They are often easy to dig out other people's worries. Communicate with such a person, she keeps asking you language questions, listens carefully to your thoughts and opinions, and integrates a good listener and speaker. You were blind to let her go. Fifth place: Scorpio men don't think that the charm of Scorpio men comes from deep eyes. In fact, their eyes can not only arouse the reverie of good people, but also reach the deep heart of each other. At a glance, all your disguises will collapse. Communication with Scorpio can be said to be all-round, not limited to words and expressions. Sometimes when two people sit quietly, they can feel the current of the meeting. Perhaps it is precisely because of this unique penetrating power that people are obsessed, sad and indignant, but they have to admit that they are excellent soul mates.