A few things about engagement.

First, the man's engagement preparation 1. Bridal gifts: Bridal gifts are divided into sizes, which need even numbers and need to be wrapped in red envelope paper. 2. Bride gifts: The man should prepare six simple gifts or twelve grand gifts and send them to the woman's home. 3. Banquet gift: Pay the woman in the gift package in cash according to the approximate value of the banquet prepared by the woman when she entertains the man. 4. Matchmaker's gift: The man gives more than the woman's family. 5. Departure: The number of men going to the woman's house should be 6,65,438+00, or 65,438+02. 6. Reserve, incense, candles and guns need two copies each. 2. The woman's engagement preparation is 65,438+0. Some gifts and red envelopes. The number of people attending the man's house must be even, so the woman's house should prepare a banquet. 4.6 pieces or 12 pieces were returned to the groom's house. 5. A gift from the matchmaker. 6. A man needs to prepare several things, a ring and an engagement. 2. Eight things about engagement. What eight things should I prepare for my engagement? The first constellation network gives you an idea of what you need to prepare: pork legs, candy, wine, fish, red dates, gift money and two beautiful things. If you want a gift, you need to know your local situation. Of course, there are not eight kinds in many places. We only need to prepare six kinds, namely, pork legs, candy, wine, fish, red dates and gift money. In fact, whether it is eight or six kinds, it is auspicious, and there is no difference. The engaged man goes to the woman's house. How many people are engaged? Generally, only parents and children of both parties are required to be present, or immediate family members. After all, this is a matter for two families. As for how many people will go? The first constellation network thinks that two people can do it. If many people go, it will put pressure on the other parents, so generally two people can come forward and everything will be discussed by both parents. Matters needing attention in engagement with the woman's family 1. Sweet mouth, call it "auntie" or something, but don't go too far. Wait for your girlfriend to introduce you briefly. Don't be too intimate with her. Don't be too casual and intimate with her. Her family is watching your every move so as not to leave a bad impression. 3. Boys must wear simple, clean and generous clothes, and must not be too sloppy. 4. Meeting Ceremony Did you see your mother-in-law for the first time without a gift? Then I guess you will be K. I don't mean to say that people are snobbish, but this is the minimum etiquette. I don't understand. It is estimated that this person is not very good at dealing with people. Some preparations before engagement 3. When engaged, the preparation of the bride price bears the brunt. In the traditional sense, the bride price mainly includes eight things, namely the cash box, which means that the woman's family has money; Ruler, representing the standard of measuring happiness; Comb, meaning the couple grow old together; Ruyi scale, I hope everything goes well after marriage; The mirror represents a complete life; Scissors, which mainly represent practical functions, extend to the fact that newcomers have everything they need in their future lives. A hat is an instrument for measuring food, which means to have plenty of food and clothing here; The abacus represents a peaceful and peaceful life in the future and a reasonable plan. Second, three gold or hardware when getting married, the man will also give the woman some gold jewelry, three in some places and five in some places. Three pieces include gold rings, earrings and necklaces, and hardware includes gold rings, necklaces, earrings, bracelets and pendants. In fact, it depends not only on local customs, but also on the outcome of negotiations between the two sides. Even if the custom in some places is three golds, the man can send hardware to show his sincerity, even if it is hardware. If the budget is limited, the man can only give three gold. Third, the bride price money is the key point that the man needs to prepare when he is engaged. The amount of gift money also depends on the local average level and the results agreed by both parties. But under normal circumstances, the gift money is generally between 30,000 and 50,000 yuan. In most cases, the gift money is just a form to show the man's attention. In fact, it doesn't matter how much, but it's best to use cash as a gift, which can better reflect your sincerity. If it is really inconvenient, it is best to prepare a bank card, and do not use Alipay or WeChat to transfer money. 4. Other items In addition to the above three items that must be prepared, the man can also prepare some intimate gifts according to the specific situation of the woman's family, such as practical sweeping robots and dishwashers. And at the same time, he can also buy some high-quality clothes for the bride, or directly buy clothes for the woman herself, plus some daily food such as chicken, duck and fish, so that a perfect set of engagement items is ready!