There is a man harassing me, and I don't like him. How can I refuse him?

If you really don't like it, refuse it. If you can't refuse it, you will be treated coldly.

If you don't like someone, you must make it clear and have a clear attitude. I have a friend who always likes to keep a good relationship with people he doesn't like, and it is not easy to refuse others. She always likes to tell each other that it is better to be friends, so she will always be troubled by such emotional things, because if a girl refuses decisively, it seems that there is still hope for a boy. Especially for boys who like to harass girls, they must be severely rejected, otherwise it is likely to make things very serious.

You can say it politely when you refuse, but you must be clear. If you really can't do it, you will be treated coldly. I remember meeting a boy on a blind date. After meeting him, I made it clear that I didn't think we were suitable and should not waste each other's time, but he would still send messages frequently to harass me and even ask me to go home once. I didn't say anything extreme, but I never replied to any of his messages. Even if he came to me, I would stay away. A few weeks later, he never bothered me again.

In short, there are many forms of refusal, as long as you make your thoughts clear and don't be ambiguous. Having sex with someone you don't like is actually a waste of each other's time. If that person is an extreme person, you can be tactful, but you must show your attitude. If the other person keeps harassing you and even makes extreme moves, you can also ask others for help. In short, don't confuse the relationship between the two sides. In fact, there are other ways besides euphemism and cold treatment. For example, if you are a person who is not good at rejecting others, you can tell them through their mouths that you have no thoughts on them. Or send a related dynamic. If the other person can understand it, it should be interesting to stop harassing you.