A person's top accomplishment is not to entangle with rotten people.

A person's top accomplishment is not to entangle with rotten things!

In life, we often encounter accusations, supercilious eyes and inexplicable injuries from others.

They are like a curse. The more you care about and fight back, the more people and things like this will eventually fall into an infinite loop.

Tit for tat is not a good way to solve the problem. Forces are interactive. As the old saying goes, it hurts the enemy 800.

Deal with a man as he deals with you, and you can only be trapped in your own bad things forever.

The Book of Changes has long made it clear that we should not dwell on struggle for a long time. Although there will be a little blame, the final result is auspicious.

People who don't dwell on things are lucky people, and lucky people have their own days.

I heard the story of an absurd camel the other day.

A camel trudged through the desert. Camels are hungry and thirsty under the scorching sun.

Suddenly, a piece of glass scratched the soles of its feet.

Suddenly, the camel was furious, kicked open the broken glass, but accidentally cut a deep hole in the sole of his foot, and the blood dyed the sand red at once.

The camel sighed and walked on. The vultures in the sky have been following it. He was very angry and shouted at the vulture.

Crying and screaming, but attracted wolves in the desert. The camel ran away in fear and didn't care about the bleeding on the soles of its feet.

Finally, he escaped the wolves, but due to excessive blood loss, the smell of blood attracted a large number of man-eating ants nearby.

The camel was exhausted, and the man-eating ants soon covered its whole body and slowly stopped struggling.

Before he died, the camel regretted it. Why should I tangle with a piece of glass and a vulture?

Camels traveling in the desert should have pulled out in time when they met glass fragments, but they were emotional and brought them disaster.

Camels are not entangled in the matter itself, but in the spirit of their hearts, which is essentially entangled in themselves.

So we went back to see what happened to the camel and how ridiculous it was to deal with it.

Really wise people can often see its essence and will not be influenced by negative emotions. They can put it down in time to avoid disaster.

The ancients said

People who really care about the world have a big picture and are not as knowledgeable as villains.

Monroe, the prime minister of the Northern Song Dynasty, was famous for his big pattern, and everyone praised him for punting in his stomach.

When he first took office, many people didn't accept him, and some people made irresponsible remarks behind his back:

Once it happened that Lv Meng heard it, but Lv Meng pretended not to hear it and went straight over.

Officials traveling with him complained for him and prepared to give Lv Meng an exit, but he was stopped by Lv Meng.

The story spread slowly, and everyone praised Monroe's generosity.

Lv Meng's position as prime minister naturally has its advantages. The more powerful he is, the less he will be entangled in these boring things.

This kind of non-entanglement won the hearts of the people and won everyone's respect for Monroe.

People with patterns will not waste their time on things that will only kill their efforts and will not please them.

This happened to me when I attended an industry conference before.

A gorgeous woman is mending her makeup in the bathroom, and the cleaning aunt is mopping the floor. When she was dragged to her position and let her out of the way, she was as indifferent as if she didn't hear her.

When the woman finished wearing makeup, she found a few stains on her skirt and immediately swore, "Are you blind? This skirt is enough for your salary this month. "

Aggressiveness and onlookers are increasing, which makes her converge.

Makeup was supposed to make a person more beautiful, but from the moment she was angry, all she could see was hostility, meanness and even some horror.

People with small patterns, even if they decorate their faces with cosmetics, will jump on their faces whenever something happens.

Don't dwell on it. It seems that you have spared others, but it's actually better than yourself.

Not pestering is not only an attitude, but also a kind of wisdom.

The bigger the pattern, the less tangled it is.

Don't pester the bad guys, be yourself, and time will give you the best reward.

In ancient Tibet, there was a man named Hu Ba who lived by farming.

He has a very strange habit. After quarreling with others, he will run home quickly and run around his house and land.

After running, he began to do his own thing as if nothing had happened, and the more he worked, the more energetic he became.

A few years later, he actually became the man with the most land in their town.

Everyone was curious about the secret of Hu Ba's wealth, and finally found it from his conversation with his son.

On one occasion, my son quarreled with others outside and went home with a full face of grievances, letting his father help him vent his anger.

Hu Ba taught his son:

Hearing this, my son listened to his father and no longer cared about those people.

Born as a man, I have encountered many bad things and struggled. Instead of solving things, it will get deeper and deeper.

Really good people don't dwell on these bad things, they know how to focus on more important things.

As the saying goes:

When you encounter something, do you choose to compete with others? Or choose to laugh it off and do your own serious business? It all depends on your mind.

Therefore, the success or failure of life is up to you, and different attitudes will have different endings.

Life is too short to have the mentality of "always competing with peers and not arguing with fools".

Things have happened, that is the past, let it go, in order to move forward better.

Feng Tang said:

Yes, there are too many beautiful things in this world. We haven't seen all the beautiful things in this world. How can we have time to dwell on things that waste our efforts?