A way to chat with strangers to find a topic.

A way to chat with strangers to find a topic.

You don't need to be a topic guide.

First of all, I hope you can accept yourself who can't find a topic. Not everyone has to be the center of the crowd. You can be a good listener in the crowd. There is no need to blame yourself for not being able to chat.

Based on * * * similarity, with differences as the topic.

Try to start from the same point when you were young. For example, you are students of the same school, but your grades are different. You can start from the differences brought by different grades.

"Senior, you are a junior now. Are you going to graduate school in the future?

"I envy you as a freshman. I am a junior now, and I really want to go back to my freshman year. What do you think of college life?

Talk about topics that everyone knows.

Keywords constellation, food, gossip, travel,

Movies and other topics, anyone can talk.

"Have you ever been to Beijing? Do you feel tired visiting the Great Wall? "

"I know a western restaurant nearby that is particularly delicious. What do you usually like to eat?

"Have you heard the gossip of XXX recently?"

Start a dialogue around each other.

I'm not familiar with it. I shouldn't ask too personal questions. At the same time, you need to judge the points in the other person that can open the topic.

You can refer to the following aspects: the other person's height and appearance, accent, hairstyle and hair color, clothes, electronic equipment, height, skin color and so on. (Never speak ill of others)

"Your Mandarin is good. Where are you from?"

"You look beautiful? Does anyone say you look like a star?

Expand the topic

Don't switch from one topic to another in just a few words, which will easily give people the impression that they can't chat. After the other party gives you a topic response, you can continue to expand around this topic, and the extended ideas include

(1) Continue to expand through the keywords of the other party. Xiao Li: Senior, you are a junior now. Are you going to graduate school in the future? Xiaomei: I plan to work directly after graduation. Postgraduate entrance examination is too difficult (key words: work, postgraduate entrance examination)

Xiao Ming: What is Senior Xue going to do? Xiaomei: Maybe I will go to an Internet company.