Why is Qu Xiaoyu's willfulness in Ode to Joy liked by so many audiences?

Qu Xiaoyu and Dr. Zhao broke up. This time it was a ditty, but Zhao Qiping didn't keep it. Is it really over for this couple who love and kill each other? But maybe they just started a new separation and integration. Then the question comes: Why can Qu Xiaoyu, a daughter who has been criticized for being willful, make Dr. Zhao so entangled?

"He appeared, I don't have to say anything. I shouted from my hair to my toes, trying to kiss him and hug him. "

In Xiao Qu's mouth, he is Dr. Zhao in white in the series Ode to Joy.

For an urban drama like Ode to Joy 2, creating new conflicts is to maintain the vitality of the topic, and the pairing of each role is also an old-fashioned way to arouse the audience's desire to discuss. It is not difficult to understand why the promo implied the blackening of Guan Yu, a new round of frustration of fans, her boyfriend's "virgin complex" and another round of tearing by Qu Xiaoyu and Dr. Zhao.

In the fourth episode of Ode to Joy 2,-Kong sincerely came to get back together with Dr. Zhao, and Dr. Zhao said lightly, "I made a circle of friends and I am your boyfriend", which made-Kong overjoyed. In fact, from the end of the first season, the audience also saw some signs of reconciliation between them, but how far can Qu Zhao go hand in hand after reconciliation?

At first, I didn't like the collocation of Qu Zhao, because their relationship was not equal. This should start with the character setting of the script.

What kind of woman is Qu Xiaoyu? She has a complicated personality and is mean and snobbish on the surface, but occasionally she has compassion. Although she was born in a rich family, she is generally educated. She will feel inferior to those who are better educated than herself, but she will be cynical about those who are worse off than herself. Xiao Qukun is called "Xiaoqu", which does have her childish side. Her style is called "only her brain", but she has two powerful points, that is, she is decisive and accurate in judging people. Her complicated personality stems from a complicated and unfair family. She is like a thorny flower with a soft heart. People who like her value her straightforward, dare to love and hate, romantic and wanton life; People who hate her say that she is too self-centered, has little education and often takes a sarcastic attitude towards the poor. Her existence needs to be tolerated by the people around her.

Qu Xiaoyu's education has been seen through by customers.

Where is Dr. Zhao? In fact, he also has a fun heart, and there is a bad boy living in his heart. Dr. Zhao, with high education, high status, high taste and high value, is by no means a serious and lofty intellectual. He would secretly laugh at Mei Sheng, a tearful fan at the concert, and couldn't help reading the bloody yellow book. He will also make up jokes and dig at strangers who don't like him. Dr. Zhao has a serious face, but he is actually a big boy who likes novelty and posturing.

Dr. Zhao: "Do you like my hand or mine?"

Qu Xiaoyu and Dr. Zhao seem to be a good match, but there is a huge gap between them. First, in terms of knowledge, in the eyes of Dr. Zhao, Qu Xiaoyu has no culture and never gives himself a sense of confrontation intellectually. Dr. Zhao's admiration for intelligence makes him not appreciate Qu Xiaoyu, because Qu Xiaoyu is a rich second generation who can't make him feel evenly matched in the spiritual realm. In the first season, Qu Xiaoyu swept away Dr. Zhao's interest in playing cards because of the gap between wisdom and knowledge. Even if Dr. Zhao gets back together with her, such things will continue to happen.

Qu Xiaoyu cannot satisfy Dr. Zhao intellectually, and is always in a humble state in love. Qu Xiaoyu has been chasing Dr. Zhao, pestering him again and again and being nice to him, and Dr. Zhao seems to firmly control the final decision, taking whatever he wants from this relationship. There seems to be no balance between a man and a woman, one is always high and the other is always low.

In the first season, when Dr. Zhao confessed that he liked Qu Xiaoyu, he said:

"(Qu Xiaoyu) exaggerates things without discretion, even the most basic goodwill, but sometimes I envy her. Life is too bitter, everyone is very serious and disciplined, but (she) lives very freely. "

This passage, Qi Tongwei will cry when he reads it, and Guan Juer will be silent when he listens to it. Why can Qu Xiaoyu live freely? Because she grew up with a golden key, because of her willfulness, others are paying for her. Is it really the freedom of Qu Xiaoyu that Dr. Zhao likes? I once doubted it. If Qu Xiaoyu was born like Fan, her freedom would be gone. If she encounters twists and turns in the future and has to restrain her life, how will Dr. Zhao face it? Will it be just Qu Xiaoyu's golden key that has not faded and Dr. Zhao's shaky view of freedom that really maintains this relationship?

Therefore, I didn't like them for a while.

When Qu Xiaoyu wants to find Dr. Zhao, what she can do is very monotonous. Qu Xiaoyu talked nonsense under Dr. Zhao's Weibo, spared no expense to help the poor children in the hospital, constantly created an encounter with Dr. Zhao and constantly attacked him. One depends on money, the other on entanglement. This is Qu Xiaoyu's strategy. As a person standing on the commanding heights of this relationship, Dr. Zhao enjoys the feeling that others love him to death from the bottom of his heart. He likes to be appreciated, relied on and praised to the sky, which is the reason why his short content lasts for a long time. However, this love is too lacking in understanding each other. From the beginning to the end, Dr. Zhao accepted Qu Xiaoyu only because the other party just flattered himself. Is Qu Xiaoyu's insistence on Dr. Zhao because of his love, or is she just unwilling to get what she can't get, just to satisfy her possessiveness?

In an unequal relationship, the deeper you get into it, the more you lose. Qu Xiaoyu's contribution is several times that of Dr. Zhao. She can pull down her expensive princess's face, but Dr. Zhao Can can't. From the bottom of his heart, he never thought about paying or sacrificing anything for Qu Xiaoyu. He is self-centered and very decent. Xiao Qu fell in love with him, but it was just a game, once it didn't hurt decent self-appreciation. I used to think that what really captured Dr. Zhao was an educated leprechaun, and Xiaoqu just lacked two and one.

However, the notice revealed that in the later plot, when Qu Xiaoyu went bankrupt and was burdened with huge debts, Dr. Zhao did not abandon her. This plot is very important, not only because of the drama conflict, but also because it is the touchstone of Qu and Zhao's love. When Qu Xiaoyu went bankrupt, she suffered a real setback in life, and her freedom to be supported by her family was also severely tested. But Dr. Zhao is still guarding her, which shows that Dr. Zhao may not only care about Qu Xiaoyu's status, wealth and freedom, but also maintain their love, and there are deeper reasons.

On the surface, Dr. Zhao is an introverted and mature intellectual elite, but in fact he is a typical representative of a boring man. What Dr. Zhao doesn't show humanity to outsiders is his rebellion and madness, which breaks mediocrity, and his frankness and true Qu Xiaoyu coincide with Dr. Zhao's inner demands. Singularity says that the pattern and taste of Qu and Zhao are not at the same level, which is superficial, but from the point of view, the needs of Dr. Zhao and Qu Xiaoyu are just right, and the taste that Dr. Zhao really yearns for lies in Qu Xiaoyu.

Qu Xiaoyu's bankruptcy is a bad thing for her, but not necessarily for her and Dr. Zhao. A friend in need is a friend indeed, so is friendship and love. Qu and Zhao really began to understand each other in their troubles, and Kong was therefore more tolerant and restrained. Because of understanding, their feelings are stronger.

Of course, there are more realistic reasons for the arrangement of Ode to Joy series. Many people often pair Guan Juer with Dr. Zhao, thinking that Guan Zhaopei is more in tune. In real life, the "unlocked" Guan Juer, whether it is the pattern or the taste, or the fun experience, may indeed be more suitable for Dr. Zhao. But in TV series, such pairing will be monotonous and lack of conflict. Viewers can't expect to hear them talk about dvorak and Liszt in every episode. On the other hand, Qu Xiaoyu and Dr. Zhao will have many conflicts, which will make this relationship more topical. A TV series is a hit, and no topic is nonsense.