What is the motivation of Taurus boyfriend's cold violence? How to solve it?

Breaking up with cold violence, as the name implies, is to show a look of indifference, and then alienate you and leave you, which is also a kind of violence. Taurus man's temper is like a stone in the toilet, smelly and hard. When they are cold-blooded to you, how do you need to fight back or deal with it? Let's take a look with Dada.

First of all, keep yourself honest. When they make up their minds to break up, they sometimes choose to use silent cold violence to solve it, and they are still very determined and do not know how to restrain themselves. At this time, if he tries to provoke you or make you uncomfortable, then ignore him. Remind yourself that his remarks have nothing to do with the real you. He just wants to control you. In the face of stubborn Taurus, you don't have to fight back, argue or excuse angrily, turn around and leave quietly, continue your original life track, do what you should do, try to do what you like and make yourself happy. So the cold violence of beef brisket will only hurt yourself.

Second, euphemistically resolve the move of "I will give you a bowl of noodles to eat, or it will get cold if you don't eat" in the movie. Taurus is completely effective. Taurus is homesick and longs for stable love. Sometimes their stubbornness is only temporary, and it will pass after venting. What's more, they can't get angry when they hit cotton with their fists. Therefore, such gentle words can easily hit the soft heart of Taurus, and there will be no reason for cold violence. In the face of cold violence in Taurus, the most taboo is to be hard. Softness is the most effective way, and it can also keep their feelings and prevent them from collapsing.

Third, draw a clear line. If you really can't stand the Taurus man putting on a bad face and losing his temper from time to time, then you can just break up and draw a line, indicating that he has no right to do this to you. The persistence of cold violence is connivance. If you think that repeated tolerance can solve the problem, it is too simple, because Taurus's emotional intelligence is not so high, and they will not put themselves in your shoes, so it is the real solution to draw a clear line between the two. Sometimes getting rid of it is not a bad way.