Psychological tutor Li Meijin constellation

Li Meijin, a professor at China Public Security University and a postgraduate tutor, has been engaged in the research of criminal psychology and adolescent psychological problems for a long time. She once suggested that crime prevention should start with the education of minors, and she knows the psychological problems of minors very well. Professor Li Meijin thinks that the best way to destroy a child is to make him extroverted. She said that for a reason.

In real life, many parents think that children's introversion is very bad, so they rack their brains to make their children more extroverted. What's more, some parents think that introversion is a defect. In fact, in psychology, whether introverted or extroverted, there is no difference between good and bad, they are just two personalities. Some people are very warm and generous, and talk a lot when communicating with others. Such people are the so-called "extroverts". Some people never take the initiative to talk to others or start a conversation. Even if the air freezes, they don't want to look at each other. Such people are introverted.

Psychologically defined, introverted personality is characterized by being alone, not dealing with people, and often showing pessimism and high self-concern. Many people think that such a character is not suitable for a person's future development. In fact, when they really understand introversion, they will find that introversion is actually a very rare quality. Although introverts don't like dealing with people, they are often observant and like to think independently. According to relevant data, more than 70% of the successful people in the world are introverts, such as Newton, Einstein, Buffett and Stephen Chow. Even the famous cartoonist Miyazaki Hayao is a very introverted person. He once told people that he was very afraid of socializing, and once someone stared at him, he would be particularly nervous.

In fact, the more introverted people are, the more emotional they are and the more imaginative they are. For example, Bill Gates, the founder of Microsoft, was regarded as a person with psychological problems when he was a child. He often stays alone in the underground garage and does his own thing. At that time, Bill Gates' mother thought there was something wrong with her son and forced him to see a doctor. As a result, the doctor said, "You'd better not interfere with him." Since then, Bill Gates' mother has never interfered with him. Bill Gates has always maintained an introverted personality, which is why Bill Gates will succeed later.

Relevant research shows that extroverts are often led by the nose, follow the crowd and become slaves to the collective will. On the contrary, introverts tend to maintain a high degree of independence and will not let their thoughts be assimilated by others. In short, introversion is not a shortcoming, but a very rare advantage. Therefore, for parents, don't let their children give up their introverted temperament, because it will ruin him.