How to help a depressed girl out of trouble?

First, don't think that she is ill, at least her family doesn't say so. She is in the most difficult period now. She wants to cheer up and give her time. Second, know where she goes to work, know what happened, and be careful not to let her know. The third important thing is to infect her with the care of her family, let her know that she has returned home, the warmest and safest place, let her feel the love of her family, and tell her that no matter what happens, it doesn't matter, it's all over. If you say something you shouldn't, the biggest possibility is emotional injury or "accidental injury" to your body. She was afraid that her fellow villagers would know, and she was embarrassed to meet people during the day. Anyway, let her parents know as little as possible. To prevent everyone from having a hard time on their faces. Because the girl loves him so much, when she is in contact with him, she regards him as his support and her whole. However, at the moment when the boy said that he was going to break up, she felt that the sky was falling, and suddenly she lost her dependence and took all the money. I can imagine how much pain she suffered when she said such a thing in this situation. I hope this girl can cheer up and find her own support again. I hope you can live a happy life! ! Depression is usually considered as a low-energy state, and anxiety is considered as a high-energy state. Anxiety and depression are more related than people think. Internally, a depressed person often experiences many anxiety symptoms.

Today, the teacher of Tian Ge Psychological Counseling Center in Nanchang, Jiangxi Province brought you a real case. A girl of 2 1 year-old suffered from depression and anxiety for a long time.

Meng Si (a pseudonym), female, 2 1 year-old, came here this time and found that she was different from her original self. As long as the problems involving both parents were involved, she quarreled, feeling that this life could not go on.

Meng Si and her husband have been together for almost two years. When they fell in love, they both felt good. The two sides get along well, so they successfully got a marriage certificate last year. Then the parents of both sides discussed the marriage, and there was some friction in the process of discussion. The biggest contradiction is that the husband is an only child and doesn't want to live apart from his parents. Meng Si and her mother-in-law have a big temper, and their living habits are different. They have been very tired these days. Meng Si is a bit neat and likes to arrange things at home according to her own ideas, but her mother-in-law doesn't care much about these things, and she often gets into a fight over trifles. Moreover, Meng Si found that her husband was her mother-in-law, and sent messages to her mother-in-law every morning, noon and evening. Sometimes her husband does not discuss family matters with her, but directly discusses with her parents-in-law, as if she were an outsider in this family. Meng Si told her husband that he was not comfortable and that he would put on a face.

1 month ago, I also aborted a child because of pregnancy. I don't know. I took some medicine, but I was afraid that the baby would be born with problems, so I couldn't have an abortion. Now she fantasizes about quarreling with her parents every day, and then no one supports her and she is isolated.

When Meng Si came to Tian Ge Psychological Counseling Center, the main symptoms were: inexplicably crying and vomiting in the morning, suddenly losing a lot of weight, always thinking of the worst, wanting to commit suicide when quarreling (I bought sleeping pills, but the pharmacy didn't sell them to her), getting angry for a little thing, fantasizing about various ways to die, and some of them were forced.

After the psychological treatment of senior psychological counselors in Nanchang, Meng Si has now recovered to a healthy state, and her husband has also attracted attention. The relationship between husband and wife has been repaired and they can live and work normally.