I want to chase girls, but I don't know what to talk about.

Chasing a girl you like is like "a long drought meets rain" What a good mood! But at this time, boys always make such mistakes and keep talking and chatting with girls they like. After a period of time, you will find that the speed of girls returning your messages is far less than before, and in the end, they even return your messages. If the girl doesn't return your message, what should I do at this time? Let's talk about the misunderstanding of chatting with girls:

1, don't do useless work.

In order to talk to a girl, you said to her, "You are so beautiful, just like a fairy in the sky!" " "You say such a thing, it will only make girls feel that you are just the most common one among her many suitors, and you are nothing special. So a polite thank you can send you away. And then it's gone! You can't interest girls at all!

When you first become friends, don't talk to her in a hurry. You might as well "lurk" around her for a while, take a good look at the content of her circle of friends, and find a point, a point that can make you different from other suitors. Only in this way will you stand out from the crowd, be unique and look so different. Only in this way can girls be interested in you and you can continue.

Look at her circle of friends and find her hobbies. For example, she took many photos of going out with friends. You can say this:

"So, we are like-minded, we all have a fun-loving heart, and we all like to travel."

Only when you make a "wonderful appearance" from the beginning can she remember you. So, don't say anything useless. If you want to attract her, you must make yourself different! throw a sprat to catch a whale

2. Don't confess yourself.

When talking about happiness, some people will speak and do things recklessly, as if the other person is their old friend for many years. There is an old saying: "If you talk too much, you will lose." Chat with your sister, the more you talk, the more exposed you are, so that she can see through you at a glance.

For example:

"It's a holiday, let's go out together!"

"You attract me so much that I can't forget meeting you! I really want to see you, let's see you tonight! "

The most direct manifestation of exposing your sense of need is that girls talk a lot or they ask to meet on their own initiative. Because of your behavior, you usually put physical pressure on girls. When she can't stand the pressure any more, she will kick you out of her circle of friends.

But if you really want to date a girl and make your relationship go further, you can find some white lies to "routine" this girl.

"You really hate it. I can't get it out of my mind. I think if we meet, my brain may not be so tired! "

This sentence is really witty. Although you want to see her, you don't express it directly. Because you just get along, so don't expose your desires too obviously and clearly at once. It takes a process to warm up the relationship between you. What you need to do now is to take every step in a down-to-earth manner.

3. Don't be too nervous

Because everyone's personality is different, but because the opposite is the person you like, you will be very shy. Now we mostly chat on mobile phones. If you are still so nervous across the screen, you may find it difficult to attract girls. Because you are really nervous, so that girls lose the desire to chat with you.

If every time you chat, the content is ordinary, which can't arouse girls' interest at all, and the tone is hesitant, then this girl may not want to chat with you again. Our chat must be rich, we should be painters, and we should know how to create a painting through the charm of language, so as to make her more interested. "I think the miniskirt you wore that time was great. I wonder if there is any chance for me to see you wear it with my own eyes? "

What you say always makes people daydream. This kind of slightly ugly words is very useful for flirting between two people.

So, do it when you have to, and don't be too coy. Make sure she sees your manhood. Only in this way will she trust you and rely on you.