Which constellations are the most troublesome types for parents and people around them?

Today, parents and readers suddenly came to talk to the author about "children".

In an instant, I feel that I have changed from an "emotional expert" to a "parenting expert".

However, an excellent "constellation field" author covers such a wide range that in an instant, the author started a series of dialogues with this reader friend.

Her problem is that everything a child does is easy to "give up halfway" and get angry easily.

When she felt happily that the child was finally interested in one thing, she found that the child had "given up" two days before he was happy.

Then, she went to ask: Why didn't you do what you did the other day?

Then the child told her directly: I don't like it, I don't want to do it, and then I closed the door and went straight into the house, leaving her with a "stupid" face, wanting to be angry but afraid of hurting the child.

Then when I was playing with my mobile phone, I suddenly saw the author's article on the personality analysis of "a Sagittarius". Then I sat down according to my child's birthday and found: Isn't this my child's? 165438+1October 22nd-165438+1October 30th A Sagittarius is a contradiction between self-doubt and poor persistence.

Then, she thought: People who can analyze problems will definitely solve them.

So, she found the author and wanted to ask how to help her children, so that she could be more patient and know how to persist.

The author told her: In fact, the article on character analysis in A Sagittarius has put forward a solution to the problem.

First of all, she needs company, which means that if you want her to insist on one thing, you should spend more time with her because she is quite sensitive.

When she starts to do something, anyone who "laughs" at her may make her "shrink back".

Therefore, she needs your "companionship and encouragement", not "suppression".

Don't treat you as a "mother": how are other people's children, and how are other people's children excellent.

First of all, your child was born at a different time from others'. If you blame her for being inferior to others, why not blame yourself for "not coming for another month" to make her reborn?

She has her advantages, and others have the advantages of others' children.

In ancient China, "Tian Ji horse racing" was a wise man's "weakness" compared with others with his "strength".

You always compare children's "shortcomings" with others' "advantages", and sensitive children will feel more inferior.

Therefore, if you want to change your children, you must first become more patient, tolerant and encouraging.

Mother said, "I always encourage her and never get angry."

Before she finished, the author interrupted her: "Stop it, these are all statements that want to prove that you are not wrong and blame the child."

Judging from your description, if you can't say two words, she will close the door and leave, which means that you often "hit" her, and she has refused to communicate with you in her heart.

You consulted me to find a solution to the problem, not to divide "who is right and who is wrong".

If you just want to distinguish between "right" and "wrong", I will tell you now: you are right, and you can close the "dialog box".

If you want to solve the problem completely, then please do as I say, ok? "

Then, the parent reader said a word of thanks and ended the conversation.

Although the author criticized this "parent" and gave some suggestions when communicating with her, there are indeed several constellations that always make "parents" have a headache.

Including the author's own Aries.

Today, we will talk about these constellations and why they always give "Mom and Dad" a headache.

There is nothing wrong with using "three-minute heat" to describe Sagittarius.

In countless articles about Sagittarius, I always mention this classic "external heat and internal cold".

She will be particularly enthusiastic about unfamiliar people; For familiar people, there will be corresponding indifference.

Including, she is easy to be interested in unfamiliar things; And for something that is a little familiar, you will lack interest.

Besides, you always ask her why, and she wants to ask you why!

Because what is strange to her is not others, but her "self".

On the surface, the "fire image" is only the surface, while the "optimistic, generous, cheerful and generous" body is wrapped in "pessimism, introversion, sensitivity and paranoia".

Therefore, "Sagittarius" is a very hurt constellation, and it is also a constellation that needs "guidance, understanding and tolerance" from others.

Having said that, there may be many people who disagree with the author and want to say, "My Sagittarius friend likes adventure and racing very much. He is brave! "

The author tells you: "People who like to find excitement are generally people who don't live long." They like to paralyze themselves with short-term "excitement", even if they are looking for excitement, they don't have enough patience.

See how many adventurers and professional racers there are in Sagittarius? "

Just tell yourself in this form that "they are not the same, and they are not the same" to warm up your heart of "being hot outside and cold inside", instead of really "being interested here".

She will always force herself to do things she doesn't like, but she can "prove" her own things.

Moreover, if you have Sagittarius friends, you can also recall, is it the most "engaged" and suddenly regret constellation?

From small to large, the constellation that is the easiest to "give up halfway" is her.

Naturally, it will become the most troublesome constellation for parents.

Therefore, many people will persuade Sagittarius to learn to persist; But I won't be so convinced.

If you are a vacant Sagittarius, you always feel that your emotions are too ups and downs, that "enthusiasm and indifference" are one, and that you are lazy.

Stop thinking, talk to yourself more, find your own interests, ignore the expectations of others and ignore the different voices around you. Just think about one thing: who am I, what am I going to do, what is my interest, and what kind of person am I happiest with?

When you get the most honest answer in your heart, you will slowly put it down, and you can slowly get rid of the constitution of "giving up halfway"!

In this link, Aquarius girls are slightly better. She has these characteristics when she is in love.

When they treat their parents, they still do better.

But Aquarius boys are completely different. They are a constellation with the highest demand for sleep in the world.

Moreover, he will never feel "embarrassed" for anyone. Although he loves face, the concept of "face" is defined by himself.

Therefore, what to do and what not to do is also his "final say".

He can sleep until dawn, ignore his parents' urging, eat something, continue to sleep with him, close the door, play with his mobile phone when he is tired, fall asleep when he is sleepy, and get up to eat when he has had enough play and sleep.

You reason with him, and he is more reasonable than you: he knows astronomy above and geography below, but he doesn't understand "human feelings"

What you say is heavy, he ignores you, and what you say is light. He smiles at you, which will make you feel "angry" anyway, and he can "eat well".

And not only for parents, but also for friends.

They think that "friends" should not be divided into "each other": therefore, a friend's money, that is, his money, should be borrowed or not.

But his own money is not enough, so it is reasonable not to borrow it.

The author sums up that when he gets along with Aquarius, his thinking is: yours is mine and mine is mine.

So, if you are lucky enough to meet a pure Aquarius, you will find that she can eat you, use yours, and you must listen to her.

All your efforts, she can treat you as a "slave": no gratitude, no guilt, no embarrassment.

Therefore, when many Aquarius are lovelorn or irreconcilable with their parents and friends, I don't know why, and I feel particularly wronged, that is, you never look at the problem from the perspective of others.

Everything you think, everything you think, is judged from your own point of view.

It's like playing a game with you: you make the rules, you enter the competition, and you are sure to win. So who do you think will play with you?

Many people obey the rules and respect others, not because they want to, but because they want more freedom and a more equal way to get along.

Therefore, if you want people around you to stop having headaches, you have to understand a truth: how "self-disciplined" you are, how "free" you are. You should be responsible for yourself, not others!

In fact, there is no obedient Aries.

Her temporary obedience is just a "balanced" strategy. As long as she wants to do something, there are only two possibilities: one is to do it now, and the other is that she quarreled, quarreled and did it casually.

Because she is the most "self" among the twelve constellations, she can't "force" her own constellation.

Moreover, among the twelve constellations, she is the one who knows nothing about "worldly wisdom" and values "Jianghu loyalty" the most.

How to understand this sentence?

Generally speaking, when we get along with people, we all value others: for example, if you like beauty and have a beautiful girl, you just want to be friends with her.

You like "art and music", and it happens that this person also likes these things. You have the same interests and want to be friends with him.

Aries, on the other hand, is indiscriminate. As long as he thinks "this person is good to me", he wants to be friends with others.

Moreover, once you become a "friend", you will feel that "her business is my business."

Therefore, as long as Aries crosses friends, it may make "parents, relatives and friends" particularly headache.

This friend, as long as she asks for help, basically she will go without thinking, and sometimes she doesn't care what to do.

The result can be imagined.

There is no "think twice before you act" behavior, which is basically a problem that you can't solve by yourself. What is the result?

Only go to my parents, relatives and friends for help.

So if a person gets into trouble, the whole family will bear it, and she won't feel anything bad, because she is "for friends!" " "

So, that's interesting, and you should have good interpersonal relationships, right?

Not really, because Aries has never thought about what "making friends" is for. We must have the same goal when we go on the road together.

Therefore, if they grow up with different interests and goals, they will eventually "go their separate ways".

Therefore, Aries friends, I have eaten all your losses; But you may not have suffered what I have suffered.

Believe the author: As an Aries, you are just a layman who needs to eat, and there is still some distance from Superman. Even when quarreling with parents, it is very loud, but the first thing to do when you come home from school is to ask: Mom, have you cooked the meal? I'm hungry!

So, while reading this article, exercise your "ability to judge people" and don't make your parents angry again.

The above are the twelve constellations summarized by the author, which are the most likely to make "people around, parents" have a headache.

I don't know if you are among them and agree with the author's point of view.

You are welcome to express your opinions in the comment area, and you are also welcome to put forward different opinions.

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