How to get along with my mother-in-law rationally?

How do you get along with your mother-in-law rationally?

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a topic of concern. Although times are changing, some things never change. Some people say that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is like two women competing for a man's favor at the same time. This is an endless war and a problem that almost every family must face. Let's discuss with Bian Xiao how 12 constellation becomes a good daughter-in-law in the eyes of her mother-in-law and how to please her mother-in-law!

One: How should a daughter-in-law get along with her mother-in-law?

1, Aries:

Aries, who is impulsive, often lacks a plan before implementation and never thinks seriously. This kind of personality is often unpopular with the elderly, so it is much easier to learn to control your impulses, learn to be frugal and keep a house, and leave a good impression on your mother-in-law, especially in terms of expenses.

2. Taurus:

Taurus's personality is more realistic and pragmatic. This character has both good and bad sides. You don't need to be too serious about getting along with old people. After all, she is an old man. Just make way, sometimes it is necessary to turn a blind eye, and we should respect each other's living habits. Some old people's living habits have been around for many years, so young people will accommodate them.

3. Gemini:

Gemini's multifaceted personality is often uncertain in terms of emotional changes. The psychological changes such as sunny and rainy days, cold and hot, make them look like wayward children. As an elder's mother-in-law, of course, I don't like to see such an emotional daughter-in-law, so I must put away my reckless coquetry and uncertain temper and leave my small emotions to my husband!

4. Cancer:

Cancer's daughter-in-law is very popular with her mother-in-law, but she still can't help secretly locking up her heart in character, full of vigilance against the outside world and always stingy with her mother-in-law. I believe there should be no daughter-in-law who likes to be silent and unhappy all day. Learn to communicate with your mother-in-law more and talk about her family.

5.leo:

Leo, who has always been proud, can't stand the servile life, but when he is married, he must do his wife's duty, especially in front of his mother-in-law. No mother-in-law likes to see her beloved son being bossed around by other women. No matter how you get along with your husband, you should respect yourself in front of your mother-in-law and care about the feelings of the elderly.

6.virgo:

Virgo is also a serious daughter-in-law, who likes to be meticulous and never misses a detail. It is good to pursue a better personality, but once Virgo is dissatisfied, she will compare her mother with her mother-in-law, which will deepen the friction between them. Instead of complaining, relax, turn a blind eye or laugh it off!

7. Libra:

In Libra's view, there is no need to do anything deliberately to please the old people, but in fact, the old people just like to watch your actual actions. Whether you are sincere or false, it is better than doing nothing, so don't just pay attention to your feelings and do the right things at the right time. Even if you don't want to, you should show diligence and ability.

8. Scorpio:

Scorpio, who is not good at talking, is a person who does not know how to praise. Maybe you think you are outspoken, but old people need to be coaxed. Everyone likes to listen to sweet words of praise, so to win the favor of your mother-in-law, you must learn to praise her sincerely. Whether it's cooking or mental outlook, don't be stingy with your kind words. I believe she will show a happy smile like a child!

9. Sagittarius:

Sagittarius's daughter-in-law is a restless person. She wants to go outside once she is free, but please remember to take your mother-in-law with you next time she has such an opportunity to go out to play! Increase communication with each other and talk and get along in a pleasant atmosphere. Everything you see is beautiful. Why not?

10, Capricorn:

Capricorn is a patient person. You can take advantage of this to talk to your mother-in-law, listen to the old man's truth, ask her how to be a good daughter-in-law, and perhaps let each other find the same topic and listen to her mother-in-law's nagging stories, which will certainly make her happy.

1 1, Aquarius:

Aquarius, which has always been at the forefront of fashion, has a unique view on the trend and is unique in clothing and aesthetics. They all know what clothes, bags, shoes and makeup are popular in the season. It is better to spread this hobby to my mother-in-law and dress up with her mother-in-law. After all, everyone loves beauty, and her mother-in-law must be happy!

12, Pisces:

Obedience must be something that all mother-in-law likes to do to their daughter-in-law. So the mother-in-law doesn't have to be too strong. She can play the fool and be weak properly, let her mother-in-law give full play to her maternity, take care of you and spoil you, do everything according to her, listen to her words and be her mother-in-law's little cotton-padded jacket. This may also turn her into a daughter, who loves you so much!

Two: How to get along with the mother-in-law of the twelve constellations

1, Aries mother-in-law: make a phone call every day.

For Aries mother-in-law, being ignored is the most lost. No matter whether you live with her or not, no matter whether you are at odds, say hello to her on the phone every day. This alone can cover up all the shortcomings of you and your Aries mother-in-law, and even your husband and wife quarreling will help you. You can walk sideways if you want.

2, Taurus mother-in-law: unchanged.

Not all women are fickle, and the Taurus mother-in-law is very willing to live a fixed and step-by-step life. When a family joins a new member, life will change. Then do your best to keep her life the same: cooking, washing clothes, shopping? This is a great respect for her, and sometimes she will feel a little grateful to you for it.

3. Gemini mother-in-law: Go shopping with her.

Gemini mother-in-law should be called "Chao mother-in-law". She knows better than you what is popular in the season. Shopping with Gemini's mother-in-law is generally stress-free. She won't think what you buy is expensive or impractical, and will give you advice like a girlfriend. It will be much better to communicate with her at this time than at home. Go shopping with Gemini's mother-in-law and teach her online shopping. You will be good friends.

4. Cancer mother-in-law: Do good deeds with her.

Cancer's mother-in-law is very affectionate, and she is willing to lend a helping hand if others have any difficulties. If she sees someone pitiful in the news and wants to help her, you can help her: help her find out the truth, help her find out the contact information, and help her donate money and materials? This is a little secret between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Women tend to become close because they have the same secret, and so does their mother-in-law.

5, Leo mother-in-law: praise her

The lion's mother-in-law is the queen at home and holds the decision-making power of big and small matters at home. You can't be a queen in this family, but you can be a princess. The lion mother-in-law not only loves face, but also has a little vanity. You can keep her shortcomings in mind, but what you say must be a compliment. As long as you praise the lion's mother-in-law, your day as a princess is just around the corner.

6, Virgo mother-in-law: self-criticism

Virgin mother-in-law is the most capable and tangled in the world. It's not easy to get rid of her. But as long as you observe carefully, you can know the characteristics of her behavior: before she expresses her views on things related to you, no matter how you feel about yourself, you should first examine yourself. If you can flatter her without trace, it will make her face turn from cloudy to sunny.

7. Libra mother-in-law: Help her manage her finances.

For many mother-in-law, it is taboo for daughter-in-law to intervene in finance. But if you manage your money well, you can find a suitable wife for Libra's mother-in-law. But here are some daily financial management tips, such as: pay attention to the activities and development trends of banks and plan savings reasonably? You just do a good job of inspection and provide technical support, and the decision is still left to your mother-in-law unless she explicitly authorizes it to you.

8. Scorpio mother-in-law: Tell the truth.

Scorpio's mother-in-law is born with a pair of "eagle eyes" and has superior ability to distinguish between true and false. In her view, "white lies" are nothing but hypocrisy. Even if you can fake the truth, you can only lie to her once or twice at most. Instead of coaxing her into lying to her and reporting good news instead of bad news, it is better to present the facts to her every time, and she will give you more affirmation.

9. Sagittarius mother-in-law: hardworking

The shooter's mother-in-law is very mobile and wants to prove that she is not old with practical actions. Mother-in-law is very busy. Of course, you can't be idle. Cooperate with her and talk more about housework, children and work. This is what the shooter's mother-in-law is most concerned about. What she hates most in her life is laziness, but you should be really diligent.

10, Capricorn mother-in-law: It's always one minute early.

You always have to be a minute early for things related to Capricorn's mother-in-law. We agreed to go home for dinner at 0/2 o'clock on the weekend, 1 1: 59; We agreed to pick her up at 9: 00 and go downstairs before 8: 59? Don't reschedule your appointment with her unless you have to. Capricorn's mother-in-law will not easily show her dissatisfaction with you, but if you are so punctual and trustworthy, she will love you with her actions.

1 1, Aquarius mother-in-law: send ideas

Aquarius's mother-in-law is like an old urchin. After decades of life, she is still full of curiosity. Buying some fresh and interesting gadgets for her will make her happier than giving her a big gift on holidays. If she doesn't have diabetes, don't forget to go to the cake shop to buy her a delicate cupcake when she goes home. She will be happy to call you her "sweet little cotton-padded jacket".

12, Pisces mother-in-law: a white lie

Contrary to Scorpio's mother-in-law, Pisces's mother-in-law likes to stay in her own small world, and all the outside disturbances have nothing to do with her. It's not so much bad news as good news. Tell a little lie about some unavoidable problems, otherwise it will not only make her panic, but also affect your life. Weave a beautiful net for mother-in-law Pisces, and you will be as beautiful as the net in her eyes.

Is mother-in-law really that difficult to get along with? The answer to this question is definitely two extremes. Is there a solution between yes and no? Why do women embarrass women? Today, Bian Xiao sorted out the ways of getting along with the twelve constellations, hoping to help you!