How does the zodiac refuse to harass others?

Scorpio, they are very smart and good at talking. They like to make up excuses to refuse others, not because they like to lie, but because what they think is different from what they say.

These Scorpio people will not refuse others to say no, but find excuses to refuse others. They use that cleverness and lying to hide their true refusal intention, so as to avoid the guilt or shame caused by direct refusal, or to avoid being hurt. I am afraid that refusing in any way will hurt others. In fact, this is also a way. They are considerate of each other, considering each other's feelings, and directly refusing to say no will cause certain harm to each other, so choosing a gentle way to refuse others, or saying no in another way, will not cause so much harm and influence to each other.

But it is wrong to make up reasons to refuse others. We should bravely say no, sometimes not to others, but to make up an excuse, which will make others think you are casual. When we were young, we were taught that it is not impolite to say no, but when we grow up, we should bravely say no.

Saying no doesn't necessarily mean that you are impolite or that you are not casual. Saying no does not necessarily mean that there will be conflicts in the future. Saying no doesn't necessarily mean that you will lose any chance, and saying no doesn't mean that you will lose all the way out. It's not that saying no is bound to lose anything. We should choose how to sayno. Instead of making up a reason to say no, we should learn a way to sayno. I have other things to do now and I can't give you any promises for the time being. There is no time to tell others what you are doing now. I believe everyone will understand. I don't think I'm suitable. I think anyone can have a try. You can give others some advice while rejecting others. So let's not make up excuses to refuse others, but bravely say no.