Song Hye Kyo Jing and Song Joong Ki: The best love must be reciprocal.

Our husbands and their wives are getting married!

Just two days ago, the news that Song Hye Kyo Jing and Song Joong Ki opened houses in Bali was still being broadcasted. A heavy hammer came this morning: the wedding news is scheduled for the end of 10!

Do you still remember the hot line in Descendants of the Sun?

Dr Mu-Yeon Kang, played by Song Hui Jing, has been kidnapped. When YOO SI JIN rescued him, he said to the kidnappers:

"Don't scare her, don't touch her, don't talk to her, your opponent is me."

How many girls cried and cried to marry YOO SI JIN after hearing this sentence.

Before that, they have always denied this relationship. But netizens still captured the message of love from their eyes.

Fans said: I told you. Eyes don't lie. The way Liu Dawei looks at Mu-Yeon Kang in the play is definitely the light when he loves you! !

Don't talk nonsense, just send sugar:

In fact, this year 1 month, the two have already had a sweet date in Tokyo, and the media have taken pictures. Two people talking and laughing wrapped up and got off the taxi.

Looking back at the previous interaction between the two in public, fans also found many clues.

After Descendants of the Sun became a hit, Song Joong Ki responded to the scandal with Song Hye Kyo Jing in the interview: I enjoyed it, but I couldn't help laughing.

When Song Joong Ki was at a meeting in Chengdu, China, Qiao Mei parachuted in, and they sprinkled sugar again, so they were jealous of each other. Everyone shouted together: together, together. .....

Song Joong Ki and Song Hye Kyo Jing walked together on the red carpet of this year's Centennial Art Appreciation Award held in South Korea. Song Hye Kyo Jing's skirt is in the style of wedding dress. Fans shouted, is this a wedding drill?

At that time, Qiao Mei's arm broke free several times in Song Joong Ki's arm. Fortunately, Zhong Ji's husband pulled it back and put it back. For the flowers presented by the audience, Song Joong Ki even personally gave them to Qiao Mei. What a overbearing president fan!

Hearing the news that they are getting married, fans also left their most sincere wishes: I will wake up laughing even in my dreams. Obviously they are getting married, but I am so happy.

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In fact, regardless of the play, apart from the sweet interaction, what impressed fans the most was the intimate love between them.

The heroine in the play is not Mary Su's silly white sweet, and the male protagonist is not the overbearing president who pampers his girlfriend 360 degrees for no reason.

Both are bright spots in the workplace.

The woman saves people in the operating room; This man risked his life to save hostages on the battlefield.

In the first episode, they fall in love at first sight and flirt with each other. In the second episode, they have a sweet date. When they found that their values were different, they broke up immediately without delay.

Outside the play, Song Hye Kyo Jing became famous at a young age and was the dream lover of countless boys; Song Joong Ki, an athlete, was born and graduated from a prestigious school. Since their debut, there have been almost no bad films and countless circles.

Love is a game, we must always be evenly matched, evenly matched, in order to be interdependent for a long time.

Because too strong opponents are tired, too weak opponents are boring.

Look at the dialogue in the play:

When facing the boy you like, say, "I am a soldier, and this is a job that someone must do."

Mu-Yeon Kang, a doctor played by Song Hye Kyo Jing, said, "I am a doctor. I think life is dignified, and there is no value or concept that can override life. "

This is a mature love, and the hostess has already passed the age of being cared for by a warm man, and will not be stupid enough to entangle "Do you love me or not" and "Why are you not as good to me as before".

She only cares about "whether our love today will have tomorrow". When she was treated unfairly in the workplace, she didn't cry to her boyfriend, but fought independently but could recognize the cruel reality.

This is the normal state of life and what a woman in love should look like.

According to a survey of a dating website, 72% of China women want to hold hands to warm men.

But the real mature and rational love should be that you have enough confidence and temperature, and you don't have to warm yourself from your boyfriend.

Just like Xi Murong said, "The lush season has gone away from me, and I am elegant and fearless."

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Warm man's love is to understand you, love you and help you.

Good morning, warm breakfast, lunch break kiss, bedtime hug.

He is like a huge cotton candy, wrapped in layers of sweetness, from morning till night. Meeting you, I think it's a blessing that I have cultivated for eight generations.

Warm man's love is to build a discourse system with only you. In this world, you are the king. You are used to giving orders, and you create heaven and earth.

But if this space collapses, you will never get out.

Yi Shu's novel Xibao tells a tragic story of falling in love with a warm man.

Jiang Xibao in the novel was originally high flyers, a law student at Trinity College, Cambridge University. She is in her prime and extremely beautiful.

This is a hot beauty with a noble diploma, but she has fallen into the gentle trap of a wealthy businessman. Because she didn't have a happy childhood and saw other people's faces abroad, she chose to be Xu Cunzi's mistress.

She really got Xu Cunzi's love and got a lot of money. Under his protection, she can do whatever she wants. She didn't have to worry about everything and gave up her most proud studies.

She knew that she was ruined, that she had no true love and no life. After Xu Cunzi died, her life was just a pile of waste money.

"Love can make you gentle and lovely, and it's also the easiest for you to be beyond redemption."

Smart as a treasure, but never stopped the temptation of wealthy businessmen who "warm man offensive". She got everything easily, but lost all reasons to live seriously.

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According to news reports, a man in Guangdong deliberately fattened his girlfriend from 50 kg to 90 kg for fear that her girlfriend would be driven away by other men because she was too beautiful.

He doesn't appreciate your chubby figure, but wants to bind you by feeding you fat.

Similarly, there are the following sweet words:

"No matter how fat you are, I like you."

"If you don't have a job, I will support you."

"You don't have to do anything. Everything I have is yours. "

This kind of love story sounds like alcohol chocolate. Intoxicating, but tempting you to slide into the abyss.

A warm man who has been coaxing you will only cut off your wings a little.

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Simone de beauvoir wrote in "The Second Sex":

A person is very lucky that he has to embark on an extremely difficult road, whether it is an adult or a child, but this is the most reliable road. A woman's misfortune lies in being surrounded by almost irresistible temptations. She doesn't need to make progress, but is encouraged to slide to bliss. When she found herself fooled by a mirage, it was already too late, and her strength had been exhausted in the failed adventure.

This society is full of women's decline.

Dr. Zhuang Shu, played by Jin Dong in The Chaser of Justice, is a boyfriend who likes to throw cold water on her.

Lu Chenxi, the hostess, is unreasonable and arrogant. Seeing it in his eyes, he will mercilessly point out his girlfriend's fault.

In one of the plots, hospital patients were not in the local area due to medical relations and insisted on returning to the county hospital for surgery. Lu Chenxi thinks that the county hospital can only wait for death for such a difficult operation. After the director of the department approved the transfer application, she ran to the office to scold the director and then to the ward to scold her family. Received all kinds of complaints.

Boyfriend Owen Zhuang didn't say with indignation like a warm man: "Your work is so bad, don't do it, I support you!"

But when she is irrational, help her clear her mind with a calm mind and solve the problem of medical insurance together.

He will do all kinds of jiaozi to please his girlfriend, and he will also point at her nose and criticize her severely.

Accompanied by him, Lu Chenxi became a more patient and understanding doctor.

A good boyfriend is warm when it is warm and cold when it is cold; Don't drag your feet, don't indulge blindly.

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The real emotion is "aftertaste" in the heart, not around.

No one will hate a man who can take care of others, but as a boyfriend, he not only needs warmth, otherwise, with his tolerance, you may miss the best treatment period of princess disease and give up self-growth.

The essence of feelings is mutual warmth. If your temperature is enough, you don't need others to add an unnecessary temperature. Therefore, boyfriends also need a kind of coldness to teach you to grow up and make you a better you.

He will criticize you for always speaking ill of your colleagues, but he will also teach you workplace rules.

He will point out that you don't read much, but he will also accompany you to enrich yourself.

In the fat season, he will take you swimming and running when he dislikes you, instead of letting you continue to eat seaweed.

He will remind you that besides family, your friends and career are also important in this world.

The best love is that he takes your pursuit as his own and helps you realize it together. Even without him, you can be strong by yourself.

The reason why I work so hard now is because when I meet someone I like, I don't have to avoid it because of my inferiority, but I can stand by you with an unquestionable attitude and say: You are good, and I am not bad.