Why is Virgo always very Buddha to feelings? Is this good?

Virgos are born perfectionists. They should pursue perfection in treating themselves and others. They always focus on what they think is important, but their feelings are always Buddhist, because they think that the current relationship does not meet the standards in their hearts, and those that do not meet the standards are equivalent to inferior products and poor quality. How can they care about a bunch of defective products? They care more about their feelings and experiences.

I lived with a classmate of Virgo University for four years. She is the most Buddhist person I know. She likes reading, playing ball, dancing and singing, but nothing seems the same. As a result, others feel that they are emotionally Buddha, as if they don't care about anything. In fact, compared with the views of outsiders, they like it too much, as if every hobby would be abandoned by her at any time. She has had three boyfriends, handsome, rich, versatile and mature.

Everyone is a man who actively pursues her. We all envy her, but she doesn't seem to care much about them. She never takes the initiative to find someone else, nor does she act like a coquette. We all think that she doesn't really like them. Later, every time I broke up with her, she felt that she didn't like them at all, just for fun. On the day of breaking up, she wandered around like a normal person, and we always comforted her. Later she told us that she actually liked them, but not so much.

In fact, treating feelings well is also very bad. On the one hand, we can know whether this person wants it or not. If not, you can make it clear in time, which is good for yourself and others. On the other hand, this lukewarm Buddhist attitude can easily make Virgo people miss many possible feelings, many people, and their ideas are inconsistent, which makes people who care about themselves or care about themselves misunderstand. I think it is necessary to communicate more in love, express your thoughts or show them in other ways to let the other person know, so as to last for a long time.