Today, I had a quarrel over a trivial matter, and then 12 got off work. That big night, he left me alone.

In order to enhance the mystery and keep the attraction between lovers, you should try these methods:

1 Create the spice of life

Create interest in life and change a single, day-to-day, unchanging life. For example, surprise each other suddenly, or change your clothes, change your hairstyle, or change your room layout. It will make lovers feel fresh and happy.

Respect each other

Be polite and respect each other. Although two people are madly in love, regardless of you and me, we should be as polite as when we first fell in love, and don't lose our original tenderness and consideration, because any words and deeds that don't respect each other will greatly damage each other's attraction.

A little parting is better than a wedding.

Do a short separation once in a while. Love does not lie in the morning and evening. As the saying goes, marriage is better than parting. Especially after some conflicts, the short separation not only gives the two sides time to think and reflect calmly, but also doubles the mystery when they meet after separation.

4 Distance produces beauty

Try to avoid and reduce physical contact. Kissing, hugging and touching in love are beyond reproach. They can beautify and promote love between two people, but the frequency should not be too frequent. This is the same as our diet. Eat less and taste more, eat more and taste less.

Modern research shows that after marriage 18 to 30 months, love is easy to disappear, commonly known as "short-lived love". Seriously affect the feelings between husband and wife and harmonious family life.

So, does love have preservatives? Yes! The following are "love preservatives" developed by psychologists.

[Product name] Love preservative [Main raw materials] Love [Functions and indications] "Love epiphyllum" and its syndrome

[usage]

1. Women should not nag, and men should never believe that silence is golden.

2. Women should not forget to praise men's cleverness, and men should not forget to praise women's beauty.

3. Women should not take quarrels too seriously and think that it is the end of the world; Men should not treat quarrels lightly, dismissing them as trivial matters.

4. Women should learn to cook well with heart, and men should not forget to praise and thank them when eating.

5. When a woman works for her family and men, don't forget to have her own career and space, because smart women are more attractive; When men rush about for their careers and jobs, don't forget that women at home are waiting for you, because men full of love and responsibility are more attractive.

No matter how long you are together, men and women should never forget to tell each other how much you love him or her.

[Applicable] Men and women who love life.

["Drug" shelf life] Love for life. According to clinical practice, the application of "love preservative" must be accompanied by two kinds of "drug introduction":

First, responsibility. Love is a social phenomenon. Couples sleep under the same roof, participate in social production and distribution, support the elderly and raise children. There is still a long way to go. Make sure that the core of love is responsibility, and promise each other to keep it by default.

Second, cohabitation. Watson, an American psychologist, said: "Sex is the most important issue in life, and the breakup of husband and wife's feelings is mostly due to sexual problems." If there is no special reason, both parties in love must abide by the obligation of "cohabitation" and cannot make trouble outside the festival.

If so, love will last forever.

Love preservation 18 trick:

1. When chatting, light a candle or cover the lampshade with a red scarf, which was used in the movie "Have something to say".

2. Make an appointment with the flower shop, and ask the flower delivery person to wait at the place where you are dating him or her at 7: 00 pm.

3. Meet at an uninhabited beach or beach and light a bonfire to bake potatoes.

4. Walking in the light rain without an umbrella, nodding and smiling at the people sheltering from the rain on the roadside while walking.

5. Memorize the stars, ask him (her) to Ding Jie to show him (her) the other person's constellation, and then imagine looking at the starry sky. Of course, if you don't memorize it, just point to a beautiful star and make up a touching story.

6. Sing the old, the older the better.

7. If you plan to have sex with the other person, you can say, "I heard that one way to have sex is to draw a heart on your hand. If the other person agrees, draw one." As he spoke, he drew a red pen on his palm and put it aside.

8. Prepare a piece of Zhang Kuan cloth with words written on it. When you were chatting with her in the coffee shop, you suddenly fell silent, took a piece of cloth from your pocket and shook it off. It can say, "I'm glad to be with you!" "

9. Stop your watch when you are dating him or her, and look at it when you say goodbye. "When I am with you, my time stops. I really hope it is still 7 o'clock. "

10. Insert long matchsticks vertically into the cake, spell each other's names, and flash from beginning to end.

1 1. Wait for his or her further study. If there happens to be an ant nest under your feet, you can write "I love you" on the ground with honey. In a short time, there will be words on the ground that surprise him or her.

12. Go to the restaurant and pay the bill in advance. Chatting, the lights suddenly dimmed, and the waiter brought out the birthday cake and sang Happy Birthday.

13. Go out for a lover's barbecue picnic.

14. Choose an interesting place, such as Dundun or Changbai Mountain, look at the map, look at the pictures, look at the legends, and let him or her feel that he or she has been there. When the other person asks, tell him or her, "I haven't been there, but I know it like the back of my hand." Because I know I will go there one day in my life. Would you like to go with me? "

15. Book a set that only two people know. For example, I want to go to the restaurant on the corner of Chilou to eat hot pot. I suddenly remembered your lovely face when I looked in the mirror in the morning.

16. A "Selected Traditional Crosstalk", when two people are lonely, they often have unexpected happiness while watching it.

17. Tell stories together. One person speaks a paragraph, and the other person goes on. There is such a story. "This cat is madly in love with a light bulb." B: "They are married." A: "They have a baby." B: "They are married." A: "They gave birth to a child." B: "It's a light bulb with a tail".

18. Learn from the ancients and explore Xun Mei.

What looks ordinary at ordinary times is love.

So plain is the most real, and it is a kind of romance in itself. It comes from your heart.

The feeling of love will fade away and even retreat. But affection is eternal! True feelings are eternal!

Ordinary is the happiest!

1. There is a set of children that belongs to both of us, although it is not big.

Sitting on the carpet with you, listening to music and drinking coffee.

3. Give something or wipe your back when taking a shower.

4. Smile at you while eating delicious food.

5. Traveling with you

6. Brush your teeth with a toothbrush and use the same towel together (although it is unsanitary)

7. Hug you when you come back from work and say you are tired and hungry, and then cook a table of your favorite dishes.

8. Take care of our parents with you

9. I love you with all my heart and every time.

10. Kiss you for nothing

1 1. Fly kites together every spring and take a walk together after dinner every night.

12. Hug you often, and I miss you hugging me.

13. Wake you up with a gentle kiss every morning, or be woken up by you.

14. I often see you smile and feel very satisfied.

15. Go shopping with you, go shopping.

16. Walking in the street to keep in touch with you, whether holding hands, holding arms or hugging.

Waist, in short, don't be separated from you.

17. Watch our children grow up with you.

18. Be sensitive and grateful and make tea with you when you are very old.

19. discuss any problems with you calmly, and try not to get angry or quarrel.

20. I'm happy to answer you when you call me wife, pig.

2 1. When I wake up at night, I will kiss you and tuck you in without waking you up.

22. Reach out my hand to you whenever you need it.

23. Wipe your hair with a clean towel when washing your hair.

24. Don't disturb you when you concentrate on your work.

25. On the streets in winter, you can wrap yourself in a big coat to keep warm together.

26. Bring some flowers when cooking to make the home warmer and more energetic.

27. Talk to you gently when you are sick, and try the water temperature before feeding you medicine.

28. Always look at our photos.

29. I often want to surprise you

30. Learn to cook more delicious and nutritious dishes and eat well with you.

3 1. Sleep with you during thunderstorm and lightning.

Before going to work every morning, prepare what you need today.

Remember to clean your glasses when there is dust on them.

34. If we quarrel, besides crying, I will first reflect on myself.

35. Watch the sunrise and then the sunset on the same day as you.

36. Enjoy the feeling that you hug me from behind.

Don't say sorry to you, because try not to do anything that makes you unhappy.

38. It suddenly rains and gives you an umbrella or picks you up from work.

39. No matter how tired you are, listen to you carefully.

40. In case of an accident, I will leave you everything that belongs to our sweet memories.

4 1. I wake up next to you every morning and thank God for keeping me alive and keeping us together.

42. Love you wholeheartedly and never leave.

You two do it together. The more you do, the deeper you love each other.