I need my mother's care, support and spiritual comfort. How can the 12 constellation wean my husband?

Many people think of their childhood when they hear the word "weaning". Although that was a long time ago! But some people are still the little baby curled up in their mother's arms in spirit. Need mother's care, support and spiritual comfort. This is what people often call "Oedipus complex". So, how can we help 12 constellation husband "wean"? Let's take a look with Bian Xiao!

1. First place: How to quit cancer: Actively increase the distance with the mother and improve the communication between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Cancer boys, no matter how old they are, always have a deep dependence on their mothers. This dependence is not so much the level of diet and daily life as the spiritual bond formed by the former. But Cancer is also a very pure, pure and kind constellation, so on the one hand, they will try their best to prevent (and fear) the estrangement between themselves and their families (naturally, usually with their mothers); On the other hand, I will also take the initiative to explain this emotion to my wife, hoping that the other person's cognition will be realized. But when the other party is so sincere, it is unwise to be unhappy or even lose your temper.

You might as well be closer to your mother-in-law, and you must enhance your feelings. If you can get along like a mother and daughter, how can your mother-in-law not argue with her husband? One of the characteristics of Oedipus, a cancer man, is that he regards his mother's value orientation as his own distinguishing criterion. If his mother always asks him to listen to you more, treat you better, and even urges him to be alone in his spiritual world as soon as possible, then your husband may be close to the spiritual world after weaning!

Second place: How to wean Taurus: Express your expectations and opinions reasonably, and don't take a mentality in communication.

With the growth of age, the spiritual world of Taurus boys will gradually wean themselves, and sometimes even deliberately do so. Objectively speaking, his diligence is successful, except for one thing: perhaps because the daily life of his youth left an unforgettable mark on his heart, Taurus habitually asked his mother to choose the overall goals in all aspects for himself. In other words, they can regard their mother's expectation as the direction of their struggle. But after all, decades apart, not only will there be an objective reality of "estrangement", but sometimes the opinions of the older generation will actually be a bit outdated because they don't understand the outside information.

At this time, if you blindly follow your mother's advice, you might as well add your own ideas and make adjustments. This change is exactly what you need to do for your "weaned" Taurus husband! In order to achieve this goal, you can discuss these issues that must be decided with him more and support him to think about the effectiveness of his mother's thoughts. If you have your own ideas, you can call a spade a spade, but you must not show bad emotions, otherwise it is likely to arouse the rebellious psychology of Taurus men and make them feel that your dissatisfaction is "not right for people." In this case, things may be difficult!

Third place: How to wean Sagittarius: Just be very, very kind to him all the time!

"Hey, I find that you are very much like my mother in personalization, I tell you …" —— With cheerful tone and rich body language, shooter men usually make their wives laugh and cry —— their heartless appearance clearly shows that this contrast is a very high compliment to him; But what men usually don't realize is that most girls don't like this "generalization". But don't lose your temper with him because you are not satisfied with this comparison, otherwise careless boys will feel framed and wronged and think you are disobedient.

In particular, the Oedipus complex of Sagittarius husband is actually very pure: for this constellation that likes to simplify many things, he will give it to whoever is good to him, and that will do. But in his life, the best person for her is naturally his mother. How can you blame him for putting his mother first, regardless of his mouth or his heart? But because of this, it is relatively simple to work for a shooter man after weaning. Remember, in the next few decades, you are the one who is closer to him and always walks with him. Therefore, you only need to treat your Sagittarius husband gently and secretly when you are in love, and don't let the emotional attention between you drop obviously because of divorce. Soon he will pay a lot of attention to you!