What does the basic constellation mean?

Basic Palace: Goat, Cancer, Libra and Capricorn.

1. looks ordinary, but it's different from ordinary people.

The people in the foundation palace are really a bunch of freaks. They look so normal and promising young people, but many people don't know that the gap between inside and outside the palace is still quite large. They just have principles, but they don't put them on the table to scare people. They seem to be easy to get along with, but after in-depth study, they find that this is not the case at all. This is also the most confusing place near the basic palace, right? A few exceptions are discussed here.

◆ Unusually low-key

People in the basic palace often give people the impression of "good cards", because they are very low-key, and it is not easy to see their special reactions until the critical moment. They are not particularly ostentatious, and they may not like to jump out and be the leading role. They are not as stubborn and difficult to communicate as Dinggong, nor as soft and changeable as Biangong.

It is precisely because the basic palace will be gentle and normal at first and will not be disturbed, so it is easier to be ignored. In fact, they "have more personality than anyone else" and have a ruler in their hearts. You'll know then. It looks like a building with no steel skeleton, and its appearance is also very general, but if you really take a drill to drill, you will eat it with a click and you will never get in again. Also, if you forget to bring your helmet, please be careful not to be hit by bricks. If your shoes are too soft, be careful not to step on nails to avoid tetanus. The deeper and deeper the character is, the more frustrated it is. I often don't know where I have offended, which makes people in the basic palace unhappy and hurts myself.

Their low-key, like a curtain, wraps up their "personality" and makes people unpredictable. They think that a real master can't do anything until he gets to the point. Low-key is a good protective color, so that they can use static braking and feel safe. In his view, high-profile attention is asking for trouble and may not attract supporters. Maybe the opponents want him to make more efforts to resist. Isn't that annoying? Besides, he doesn't like being interfered, because he knows that once he is stubborn, there is no room for discussion (unlike changing the palace, he will change his mind according to the situation and agree with you; Or once you admire them, you will transform yourself), so it is better not to let others be afraid. The basic palace is a diehard loyal person who can't see the coffin, cry or die in the Yellow River. He always has the right to challenge. What he wants to do must be done in his lifetime, so he should keep a low profile and hold his breath. He won't be found by the enemy if he doesn't push, will he?

◆ Extremely mysterious

They are really mysterious! Come without a trace! I always deliberately make myself "ordinary", so that no one notices me when I come in and out. They are quiet and mysterious. It's better that no one finds out what they are doing, and not being paid special attention to makes them feel more secure. Ask a personal topic, and you will find that they will take good care of him. The smart Gankun will change the subject, and the poor will look embarrassed.

They will never express their views and express their true views at the first time. When everyone is talking about something, they shout "no" and "yes" passionately, but the basic palace is calm and noncommittal. They believe that there is no absolute good or bad, and everything can be solved in the middle. Many things need long-term consideration, not temporary excitement. Besides, his ideas do not represent the ideas of most people. Why do they have to say it? They are definitely thoughtful, but they don't like being too absolute. Ambiguity is a way to keep space and buffer. Only in this way will things not freeze, because he is a person who will not change after making a decision. It is this kind of thinking that makes the basic palace a mystery that is difficult to guess.

Lack of self-confidence and security also makes them dislike others knowing too much. Once they find any meaning of exploring the secret in the conversation, they immediately become joking with you, but they are wary of you and flashing your state. Maybe they can still talk happily, but then they already know that the prevention mechanism of insecurity is activated and the probability of returning to purity is almost zero.

They will be on their guard at the slightest sign of trouble. If they are still blind (editor's note: a proverb in Taiwan Province province refers to a person who is as blind as a bat and doesn't know the situation), the iron wall of the Basic Palace will come! Doors and windows are closed, and there are heavy locks and guards to serve. When he wants to remain mysterious, give him a little space and a little sense of security. It is more effective to make him think clearly than to force him, otherwise he can't stand being violated, and hysteria is definitely not fun.

◆ Abnormal intransigence

Being forced to compromise is an insult to him, as if they can't be their own masters and have to bow to you. What is the significance of his existence?

Never try to threaten him. The threat is a blatant challenge to the basic palace, and it is difficult for him not to take the fight. They are willing to cooperate, and they also like a peaceful solution. Just make the terms clear, even at the negotiating table, everything is easy to discuss. But if the language threatens: "If you don't do this, I will!" Is to invite you to face him openly. Then you should be careful, they will definitely take out all their weapons, and they will never be gentle.

Don't play hardball. Always remember that negotiation is easier than anything. Don't force him to crash and burn. It is the key to let people know that he is not easy to bully. They are "harmony is precious" but not timid shrimps. Don't be ignorant. Even if you are wronged at this stage, you will never forget the challenges and injuries you have had to him. "It's never too late for a gentleman to take revenge." He expects to be a person you can't bully after he has rested, worked hard and practiced hard, and then let you know what it means to "underestimate the price of the basic palace".

They are also "inexplicable die-hards", especially after becoming "great men" or "masters". Success makes them arrogant, because it means that his unique views and laws are not only feasible, but also successful. No one can change him, let alone limit his unlimited expansion of territory and challenge external laws. Therefore, there are many places that are domineering and arrogant, and they are absolutely cautious. If you are too arrogant, you will make enemies. Who can? It's just that the basic palace thinks that every inch of territory it takes seems to declare that "he is right", so the bigger and more successful the kingdom is, the tougher and more aggressive its attitude will be (if provoked). This is why successful people in the Foundation Palace are often surprisingly domineering, depending on the supporters or power base they think they have.

◆ Extremely calm

The coolness of the foundation palace has sometimes reached the point of cold, almost to the point of impersonality. For example, the first reaction of the basic palace is not crying, but thinking about what to do next. The more critical they are, the less confused they will be. The natural reaction mechanism is to find a place to put yourself first Panic and nervousness are useless. He knows that small situations can be chaotic, but the big situation should be "clear-headed." They actually know a lot of things in their hearts until they have to face them. He actually knows what to do.

If the other half is having an affair, won't he know why? Although we don't have to face the ostrich mentality, we are quietly prepared, but everyone accepts it in different ways. Some pretend to be okay and continue to endure, some secretly arrange to transfer property to their names, and even "I will see who is good if you cheat" ... all kinds of mechanisms to protect themselves have come out.

The basic palace is so calm and rational, even the water-like cancer can't be emotional, so they force themselves to be as calm as possible when their emotions fluctuate, because they know that it is useless to be emotional, and only returning to reality is king, which is why the basic palace always tries its best to make themselves still have a market and career after marriage, or try its best to control economic power, so as to reassure themselves.

◆ Abnormal depression

Everything in the basic palace is "endure first". For future plans, to maintain order, or to hate, they will try their best to suppress themselves to avoid bad things (they know how horrible they are when they break out). But people are not machines, how can they be really perfect and depressed? Moreover, if you don't rely on relief, there will be some flaws, and often you will send a signal of "I can't stand it", such as becoming impatient. The scales of the wind will start to complain or be impatient; Water is like a cancer that suddenly collapses or goes on the rampage when it moves at a certain emotional point; The sheep of the fire elephant began to indulge in adventure or stay at night; The earth elephant Capricorn will be depressed to vent at work. It's all because they're fed up and on the verge of losing control.

Each constellation has a different depression state, and the time is often calculated in years. Others kept things that should break out for days or months, and basically kept them in the palace for several years. Years later, you have a chance to hear him say, "It was actually very painful at that time!" " And that thing has already become the past, and he can put it down because it has passed. Such a basic palace sometimes makes people feel very sad.

In addition to the traces of unpleasant atmosphere, another clue is the "external" part. Depression makes their bodies sick, unhealthy, gloomy, prone to acne, hair loss, or sudden obesity and emaciation, which shows great pressure.

Don't blame the basic palace for not saying it hurts, they just can't help it! They think that if it is their own mismanagement, what's the use of talking about it? What's more, other people's suggestions don't even matter. Since life is his own, only he knows the details best, and finally he has to be responsible for cleaning up. So, what should he tell others? However, the mental health of the basic imperial secretary really needs careful maintenance. The garbage in his heart should be discarded regularly, and there should be an outlet to vent. It's like having close friends to share, family support and care from people who love him. All these will help them get out of depression and haze as soon as possible. Only love can solve their anxiety, but this kind of love must be selfless to pass their test. Some basic palaces still like to vent with fair-weather friends. Perhaps "pure fun" places can make them more relaxed, so there is no need to show their sincerity and true colors. Somehow, they just teach them to relax!

After reading the above five places that are different from ordinary people, you will know what the basic palace is "seemingly ordinary, but actually different from ordinary people." They are too good at packaging themselves and hiding under the normal appearance until you step on a mine.

I have seen a cancer man who is not good at balancing himself. The critical moment of his life is always blown up by his own mine, which makes his marriage break up, his work is not smooth, and even his family are afraid to see him. Because of depression, he often goes crazy, curses, loses control after drinking, and depression turns into destructive mania, which no one can stand. The challenge facing the foundation palace is to learn how to coexist peacefully with mines, either burying them deeper, disarming them carefully or detonating them one by one, otherwise it is still a trivial matter to hurt others, and the most terrible thing is to blow up your own life.

So we pray that these basic palaces, which look like ordinary people but are different from ordinary people, should carefully handle their "abnormal" parts and make themselves truly "ordinary people". In fact, this is also the wish of all basic palaces, and their "abnormality" is by no means a disguise. In fact, deep down, they really want to be healthy, sound, socially based and successful people.

2. Ambitious dreamer

If there is no great and grand dream to support him to move on, there is no need for the basic palace to exist. They are kings and powerful people who can control everything. They want to go down in history all their lives, and if possible, they want to be vigorous. Perhaps it is a lofty non-stick pan; Maybe it's the bullying of the meritorious party. Of course, this is all done by great men in history. Dream smaller, build your own kingdom, own your own army or people, build your own brand and so on. This is why the Basic Palace is always surrounded by a group of people, or hanging out with colleagues and friends all day.

Maybe you will wonder why they must have their own people. Because only in this way can we thoroughly implement the concept and fully realize the organizational structure, situation control and company operation in control. Realizing your dream is an affirmation of yourself. After being affirmed, you can "own wealth", which will inevitably affect more people's participation. Success goes round and round. The philosophy of the Foundation Palace is that instead of only having our own meager strength, it is better to "drive a group of people in their respective posts and make everyone live well". In that case, how can he make it happen? This is also the reason why Basic Palace is keen to run the company.

The basic palace will be good friends with or without mutual benefit. As long as it is taken care of by his "country", mutual benefit is the basic concept of the palace, so it is generally generous to employees. Many excellent and generous company bosses are basic palaces, such as Wang Yongqing in Capricorn, Zhang Zhongmou in Cancer and Guo Taiming in Tian Ping. They not only established their own kingdom, but also took care of their employees. Although they are very strong, because the basic palace has a strong king style, in his dream kingdom, he will take care of you as long as you are willing to obey.

The basic palace is a person who will give everything for his dreams. Of course, the above-mentioned cases are all very successful, but there are also some basic palaces that may persist in pursuing their dreams regardless of their own abilities, thus married with children may have established an appearance, but in fact it is crumbling. Aries, in particular, will not live long, always thinking about starting their own great cause, only thinking about how to grow bigger and forgetting to keep it. The bigger the dream, the worse for him, right? Although other basic palaces are not so aggressive, they also have impulsive characteristics. They often don't know how to brake, but just want to chase their dreams, which is also very dangerous.

The basic palace will refrain from cheating. Although a little autistic, it doesn't want to be out of touch with society, because once it is far away from social norms, it will be completely "weird" and completely lonely. Unless you have fulfilled your responsibilities, you have raised your filial parents and children, and then you live in seclusion and farm in the mountains. When you have money and emotional obstacles, willfulness is also a dream to be fulfilled.

However, small "willfulness" in life can be seen everywhere, and almost all of them have some kind of adventure or hobby that they like better but others may not understand, and no one can stop them. They think, "I'm so depressed that I have to do my duty. Can't I do what I love?" Being the master of their own life is their deepest cry, and they need to find their passion for life by willfulness.

One day, when I spent most of my life in mediocrity, I suddenly felt "awake from a big dream" and felt that my face was disgusting and vulgar, which was a waste of life. Then I suddenly turned to another kind of thinking, and my life took a sharp turn, such as changing my lifestyle, quitting everything to wander far away, or spending all my savings to live a completely derailed life, as if only in this way can I honestly face my inner call.

This wayward dream is not too worrying. What is even more frightening is to spend a lot of money to dream of "opening eight stores in one breath" and "expanding to the world in three years" and other grand career maps. In particular, Aries, which has the highest family scare index, is particularly aggressive, but it is often planned first. If the stakes are too high, you may lose all your money if you are not careful.

3. Workaholism and hard work

"Either in the company or on the way to the company." At home, he is quite gregarious in his work, and almost all his duties make him work overtime without resentment. Before finishing the work, he was more uneasy than anyone, especially when he was entrusted with a heavy responsibility by his boss. In case he has another grand dream for this job, he is willing to spend 20 years to build it at all costs, and he is bound to work harder, but every day he accumulates a sense of accomplishment, which makes him deeply feel that he is worth the fare, and unconsciously becomes a slave to work.

They also think that work is the best way to prove their existence value, and employers don't need to worry that they will fish, because they need a sense of accomplishment as their right-hand man and the execution of "working in their own position" to climb up their accumulation step by step, and they are willing to work hard for all this.

There are also some basic palaces, even if the work is not satisfactory, they will try their best to be patient enough (believe me, this will be a long process). Cancer can't escape the boss's human pressure, Libra will consider the friendship with peers, Capricorn will "seek politics" and the family burden is so great, so even if you complain, you will still work hard for the company.

Most basic palaces have a sense of responsibility. If they can't complete the tasks assigned by the company, they will blame themselves, so once they invest, they will stay awake and even forget to eat and sleep in order to work perfectly; People who are used to speeding up will be at a loss once they slow down or have a holiday. Also, because I was too involved in my work, I was riveted like crazy and didn't know I was tired. When I finished my work, I found that I was very tired and there was something wrong with my body.

So many people will find it boring to associate with the foundation palace, because their life center is basically around work. They talk about work all day, want to work, and have almost no private life. When they go home to face their closest family, they don't know what to say, or they don't want to say anything or think about it. They are completely different from energetic people at work and are particularly impatient with their families. When they are family members, they really have to bear a lot of such contrasts, which not everyone can bear. People in the basic palace actually know that they are different from ordinary people, so there is no shortage of supplies at home after work, which may also be a manifestation of compensation mentality.

The environment has a great influence on the basic palace. Workaholics have the concept of "battle shirt". If they want to go to the battlefield, they must be decent, do what they like and have a good facade image. Even housewives should be very professional, how to teach each other and do housework efficiently; If you marry a rich family, you must learn manners, buy famous brands and go to high-end places. Marrying an ordinary family will wash away the lead and work hard; When you are in charge, you must have the demeanor of a supervisor, such as a limousine, rain or shine; Female stars are bound to shine, otherwise why should they be stars? What they do is just like what they do, whether it is dedication or hard work. In short, they won't be lazy about what they should do.

The exception is Aries. The exception is that they have more personal likes and dislikes, and they are only passionate about the work they like. If they just want to make a living instead of what they love, they will be listless, even willing to go to work on time, unwilling to do more, willful and disdainful of the world, and only listen to their inner voices, which makes the boss feel a little quiet.

4. Kill people without saying "I love you"

Want to hear people in the foundation palace say "I love you"? It's really hard! This makes men and women who are madly in love with the Basic Palace very angry. Just like the fixed palace and the changing palace are full, I love you and you love me, but the basic palace just won't say I love you easily. It really makes people wonder, is a simple sentence so difficult?

To put it bluntly, love is "made", not "used to say". Don't get it wrong. They believe that true love exists in mutual respect and understanding in daily life, and every care every day is the embodiment of love. This is the truest love. Sweet talk? It's too superficial, and he didn't say anything. But strangely, they still love what you say. )

Basic palaces are very rational, especially in love. They think it is not easy to meet someone who really loves each other. Who knows how far fate can go and how long it can last? These are the reasons why he can't say the word "love" easily. At most, he is only willing to admit that he is "still full of love" and "happy to get along with each other". He loves them too much to promise to export easily. They deliberately remain rational, because deep down in the foundation palace, they know that once in love, they are more possessive than anyone else, so they must be more rational and normal. The more relaxed they are, the more hopeful they are to live happily and permanently. Therefore, if one day the basic palace of your dream really says "I love you" to you seriously, you must be mentally prepared. If you want to change your mind, they will come after you. Will you still feel romantic? Moreover, they are more dictatorial to their lovers than anyone else. If you are controlled, you are likely to become a canary in a cage, and it is not a leisurely sorrow.

But like I said, they tend to show their love to you by actions, so it's actually good if you can read their "language of love". For example, you will enjoy a good material life, and he will carefully face all your requirements and take time out of his busy schedule to accompany you (such as working overtime). He also cares about his family.

It is not easy to say "love", but also comes from their powerful self-protection mechanism. Saying "I love you" is like giving up. What if it's miserable? They love face and sometimes fall in love. At this time, they prefer to use vague or joking ways, such as role-playing, to "have a little retreat"; When the water elephant's cancer really has full love to vent, it will use the tone of "love", just like mom and dad are coaxing their children. Libra, on the other hand, becomes a little embarrassed when it is against friends, or fooling around, that is, it just doesn't "cut into the key points" casually. What is more serious is the shepherdess, who obviously likes it but wants to choke: "Who likes him?" "I don't have time!" It seems that other people should know that this is a kind of fun, but in others' ears, they will think that she hates each other. I missed a good marriage because of saving face.

In fact, because of shyness and in order to avoid embarrassment, you don't have to say too many sweet words to relieve stress, at least not directly. The hardest thing for them to imagine is, how can Dinggong say "I love you the most" so categorically, and how can they determine who loves you the most before they have finished their lives? I can't understand the basic palace, and some people think it's really old-fashioned

Of course, there is also a player-type basic palace, which talks about love cynically. It is conceivable that such a basic maid-in-waiting has no intention of being serious with you at all. Don't mistake what you meet for the best, but be careful that he is just playing with you.