How to deal with workplace villains

How to deal with workplace villains? In the workplace, we will always meet some hypocrites, who disturb our original quiet days all the time. Below, I sorted out the coping methods of workplace villains. Welcome to read the reference!

How to deal with workplace villains

First, suffer? Sigh? human

Nine times out of ten, people are unhappy in their lives. Some people who are disappointed with their way out, and those who mainly talk about me, usually take their own misfortune, distress and worry as the theme of their speech. They kept complaining loudly and sighing to make the speaker listen. If you carefully analyze the unpleasant things that SIHER said, you will know that these things were ordinary and not so miserable, but SIHER made his situation very, very serious.

Stunt: Write vitality for sighing people.

To communicate with such people, you should write down your vitality. In sighers' mind, he doesn't think he has poor talent and small ambition. On the contrary, they strongly expect others to have great talent and unusual level. When communicating with them, we should affirm his specialty, praise his contribution and write about his vigorous development. In this case, they will be very close to you and will appreciate you.

Second, suffer? Explore people's privacy? human

Everyone has privacy. In everyone's heart, there is a territory that is not expected to be violated. But some people are out of ignorance, maybe out of curiosity, maybe out of? I have to ask you every time I see you? How old are you, how much do you earn, and what is the pride of the couple? Wait for a boring topic to answer. Although such people are glib and eloquent, they don't know how to say taboos. Generally speaking, a person who respects others will not ask himself whether he knows that a certain job is the privacy of others. On the other hand, a person who asks questions knowing that it is someone else's privacy is a person who doesn't know how to respect others. They may convey right and wrong, but they may convey right and wrong, and they may be quite short-lived.

Gimmicks: Answering irrelevant questions to people who inquire about privacy.

When you meet a peeping Tom, you can't say anything. The best way to treat intruders is to answer irrelevant questions. What if he asks you? Who is your backstage? , what do you say? Thanks to you? . What if he asks you? How much is the bonus? , what do you say? No more than others? . What if he asks you? How to find a girlfriend? , what do you say? If you are interested, I'll tell you the details later? . After all, questions about each other are not unanswered, but irrelevant. In this case, it will neither offend the other party nor let the other party achieve its goal.

Third, suffer? Is Taoism right or wrong? human

? Right and wrong is right and wrong. ? Don't think that the person who informs you of others' right and wrong is your friend. People who are right or wrong have said others' harm in front of you, and naturally they will say yours in front of others. They are willing to be right or wrong, which is the reason for their excessive jealousy. They usually wish others more and more bad luck and poverty. Smart people don't talk to such people casually.

Shantou: Hum, let those who are right or wrong go.

The way to stay away from this kind of person is to respond coldly to any right or wrong topic he says and let him know? Wrong? Retreat. Don't offend such people. I don't agree with what he said about others being right or wrong. Communicating in words, huh, huh, is a good way. Because? Huh? 、? Huh? It is a vague language, which will not only make the person who is right or wrong feel your sophistication, but also make him feel that this topic can no longer be communicated, and then go on intermittently, which may make his speech develop in a healthy direction. In some cases, you can say that, huh? It is a kind of life knowledge that cannot be underestimated.

Fourth, suffer? Talk a lot? human

When people talk to each other, we usually get tired of those who talk to you endlessly. Some people talk a lot, but they can't speak well. They will talk all morning in one breath and all over the world in one morning. They can not only talk about literature and geography, but also men and women. They are happy and expressive. They talk a lot and never feel tired.

Stunt: ask wonderful questions to the conversationalist.

When you meet a talkative person, the way to make the other person talk less without hurting self-esteem is to ask wonderful questions. One is to ask some difficult questions according to the topic he said, such as? What is the molecular formula of missile fuel? How many men and women are told in the book Water Margin? Wait, let him not know how to answer. In this way, he can talk less and you can talk more. The second is to ask questions that have nothing to do with the topic at that time, such as? Excuse me, what time is it? Your glasses are beautiful. Are you comfortable to wear? Wait, so that the other person will feel a little scared and then stop, so that you can make time to do something useful.

5. suffering? Preach? human

Some people like to be kind to others? I'm sorry. My life? . Can you find out the ten sentences he said? Should you? 、? Do you have to? 、? Can't you? In that case, seven or eight. Such people are usually self-righteous, arrogant, self-reliant and domineering. In his eyes, the world is an ignorant child, but he is a learned professor. It makes people feel stupid and artificial. A long-winded preacher, though boring, is harmless and beneficial to you. First, we can learn from useful preaching; Second, listening carefully will make him feel extremely happy and help to enhance friendship.

Shantou: It is more important to listen to a long-winded preacher.

Therefore, it is more important to communicate with them than to listen. As long as you have nothing urgent to do, calm down, listen and remember, it's all right. Repeat what he said at an appropriate time, or maybe ask a question or two. Trust, this practice, will certainly make you suffer great benefits.

Sixth, suffer? Praise yourself? human

Some people meet others, one mouth is good to me and the other is good to me. Clearly self-righteous? 1? It happened that it was said to be? 2? . The listener blushes for this, but he is not ashamed. A boaster is both an inferiority complex and a conceited person. Such people tend to be weak outside and weak inside. Yang Yang? His intention is only to attract our attention to satisfy our vanity. This kind of casual praise gives people a feeling of boasting and superficiality. The accurate way to communicate with them is to answer with humorous words. He said? 2? , the heart is still thinking? 1? Dear, you can't be sure about the nonsense you said to him, but he will think that you are a man of bad faith; You can't refute what he said. If you retort, he will think you are a person who can't kiss.

Special effects: be humorous to the braggart.

The accurate way is to answer humorously, which looks like the truth, vague and laughs it off.

Seven, suffering? Destroy people's ambition? human

Some people have sharp and spicy words. What comes out of his mouth is like pots of cold water. Whether you accept it or not, it's all on your head. That drive, you have to put out the fire of pride in your heart. This kind of person is usually a person who fails again and again and loses all hope. He is also a person who disdains you and is not like others. He is also a proud person who is confident that he can't do what others can't do, and he is eloquent at ordinary times. Are you standing alone, suddenly? People around you stay at a respectful distance from sb. Talking to him and blindly accepting it will make him unscrupulous.

Stunt: Strike at people who undermine people's ambition.

A proper way is to seize the opportunity and then attack it? The stupid, incompetent and ridiculous place in his history may be the blank words, improper words and logical mistakes he said at that time, which made him unhappy, and then made him push himself and others, realize his wrong behavior at that time and control his mouth.

Eight, suffering? Noisy and aggressive? human

When you are in high spirits, maybe a cheeky person with ulterior motives will come in and pick his nose and eyes, which will immediately create a good conversation atmosphere full of gunpowder. Most of these people think they are better than you, know everything and can do anything. He pretends to be the embodiment of truth, no matter the size of watermelon or sesame, he will fight you with the spirit of defending the truth to the death, and he will be arrogant. Once such people have prejudice against you, they will go against you everywhere. In this case, it is easy to fall into the whirlpool of arguing back.

Gimmicks: Tell the truth to noisy and aggressive people.

If you want to get out of the whirlpool, you must use weakness. This weakness is to make every word of yourself an irrefutable truth, but also a short truth, so that the other party can't attack you. It won't take long. Too sad to hold back? The other party will automatically? Excuse me. .

Nine, suffering? Full of lies? human

In society, some people lie as easily and naturally as an excellent artist performing on the stage, without feeling guilty at all. Most of them have no big or clear intentions. The reason why people who are full of lies are full of lies may be to cover themselves up, slander themselves and beautify themselves. Maybe they think your discrimination is poor, and then they shake their lips and talk nonsense. It is harmful for you to associate with such people. Telling a lie ten times may make you think it really happens.

Stunt: Correct one of the lies.

Communicate with them, should you understand? Attack a little and break the whole line? The strategy and tactics, seize one of the lies, confidently put forward objections. In this way, he will feel ashamed, and that arrogance will drop immediately. This kind of attack will not only hurt his self-esteem, but also make him correct his lying.

Ten, suffering? Can't you be vulgar? human

In order to give others a good image, some people make their words full of rich vocabulary, misuse some technical terms, put on airs and become superficial; Some people's daily speech is rude, unsightly and full of nonsense. Rory is wordy and monotonous. A sentence can be repeated ten times, and one thing can be asked nine times. Some people have no waves, no roughness, no swaying posture, and no fascinating topics that make you disgusted. These are all vulgar expressions. Most of them are people with narrow common sense and poor communication skills. In my own life experience, I am often laughed at by others and have a sense of inferiority in my heart. They are eager to improve their common sense and communication skills.

Shantou: Give proper guidance to those who can't tolerate vulgarity.

Communicate with people who are intolerant and vulgar and give appropriate guidance. Say a word or two about the correct ways and precautions to meet their needs, but don't guide them too much, so as not to hurt their self-esteem and touch their inferiority complex.