Let's take a look at the correct steps of blind date.

Blind date-These five steps will help you avoid detours.

Step 1: Resolve the embarrassment: When we meet for the first time, we must be active, enthusiastic, polite and generous. The best opening remarks are that you are very similar to my Chinese studies or friends, and then list the advantages and interesting places of your Chinese studies or friends. The tone is mainly praise and appreciation.

Step 2: Create a topic: Create a topic of interest to the other party. The most active topics are constellation, food, study, life, work and hometown. Remember not to judge or slander others in communication.

Step 3: Learn to ask questions: When communicating, don't check the cross-examination of household registration. Questions should be laid, for example, I want to know if the other person can cook. You can ask, "Do you like Sichuan food or Hunan food? Which dish are you best at? " ? "

Step 4: talk less about yourself: remember to talk less about yourself and wait for the other person to ask. These are all tests of TA's interest in you. Remember, the first question of TA is very important, and all the questions that follow are related to the first question. For example, how many jobs did you have after graduation? You are testing your stability, salary structure, judging your work ability and interpersonal relationship ... Don't talk big.

Step 5: Determine the next date: If you have a good impression on TA and want to know how TA feels, you can pave the way for the next meeting and exploration. For example, there will be a concert, a new movie next week, or go to experience TA's favorite food and see how TA reacts. These preparations should focus on each other's interests.