Ni Ping and Chen Kaige broke up for 26 years: he married and lived a happy life. She remarried and became a miserable mother.

"This is a period of no self-esteem and loss of self."

1997, Ni Ping first evaluated her emotional past with Chen Kaige in her new book "Days".

They walked hand in hand for five years, but finally Chen Kaige turned and married Chen Hong.

After breaking up, Chen Kaige married a little wife and gave birth to two sons. However, family life has been controversial in recent years.

Ni Ping also met her lover after coming out of the pain, but after she remarried and became a mother, she experienced the torture from her family every day.

"If there is a next life, I don't want my parents, children and family."

Ni Ping said this in a talk show, which made people sad.

Now that Ni Ping and Chen Kaige have been separated for 26 years, what are their living conditions?

Ni Ping was born in Weihai, Shandong. At that time, she was called "Liu" after her father.

As long as she can remember, her parents have often quarreled about some trivial things in life.

/kloc-when she was 0/0 years old, her parents finally divorced because of emotional discord, and she lived with her mother.

From then on, her father completely withdrew from her life and never appeared again.

Due to family reasons, Liu Ping is very sensitive to inferiority complex.

When she grew up, she changed her name to "Ni Ping", and she never wanted to have anything to do with her father.

When Ni Ping was at school, she was accidentally invited to participate in the filming of the film Chrysanthemum, and she fell in love with acting.

Before that, she never thought that she would become an actress. This performance made her completely interested in acting.

In the later days, Ni Ping often used her spare time to study acting, and her dream gradually tilted towards becoming an actress.

After graduating from high school, Ni Ping was admitted to Shandong Art College, and was assigned to work in the local Shandong Theatre after graduation.

Because of her outstanding appearance and excellent performance ability, after working in the theater, she soon became a "Hua Dan master".

In those years in the theater, although the salary is not much, Ni Ping has accumulated a lot of experience.

But her life didn't stop there. By chance, her life began to develop from an actress to a host.

1988, Ni Ping was a guest at the Spring Festival Evening of Qingdao TV Station.

Standing confidently on the stage, she was attracted by the CCTV director sitting under the stage and invited Ni Ping to work for CCTV.

Since then, Ni Ping has been transferred to CCTV as a commercial program host.

When Ni Pinggang joined CCTV, Chen Kaige was already a well-known director in the circle.

Chen Kaige is seven years older than Ni Ping and graduated from Beijing Film Academy.

From 65438 to 0984, he made his first solo film "Yellow Land" and won the Yin Bao Prize in the 38th Locarno International Film Festival.

He became famous for a time, and met the first important woman in his life, Hong Huang, at the height of his career.

After Hong Huang was a famous family and graduated from a famous university, it was more than enough to stand with Chen Kaige, who had achieved little at that time.

Chen Kaige and Hong Huang appreciated each other's talents and fell in love and lived together on 1987.

During this period, Chen Kaige went to the United States to study abroad, but because he had no formal status, he only studied abroad for two years, and soon he was faced with the problem of being unable to study abroad.

In order to help Chen Kaige tide over the difficulties, Hong Huang married him in America.

But their marriage lasted less than two years, and Hong Huang asked Chen Kaige for a divorce in a way that was out of character with her.

The reason is that Chen Kaige is recruiting actors for the new play, and he is very optimistic about Summer Xu, who was just starting out at that time.

During the filming, he and Summer Xu often exchanged stories, which made Hong Huang feel uncomfortable.

Although Hong Huang wanted to have a theory, her family background didn't allow her to be a "bitch", so she chose a divorce.

Chen Kaige expressed regret for this marriage, during which she was almost at the bottom of her life.

The appearance of Ni Ping rekindled Chen Kaige's life.

199 1 year, Ni Ping has become the host of CCTV super variety show.

At that time, she had just broken up with the famous sketch actress Guo Da because she was opposed by Guo Da's mother.

After breaking up, Ni Ping was in the window, just as Chen Kaige came into her life.

In the process of recording the program, Chen Kaige was attracted by Ni Ping, who was beautiful, generous and polite.

Because of recording programs, the two often compare scripts together in private.

Chen Kaige's heart has unconsciously reached Ni Ping's body, and then launched a fierce pursuit offensive against Ni Ping.

Because Ni Ping grew up in a single-parent family, she lacked the feeling of being loved.

Faced with the pursuit of Chen Kaige, who is seven years older than herself, she quickly fell in love with each other's sweet words.

Not long after they were together, they began to live together.

Chen Kaige once told Ni Ping that he was an "unmarried person" and hoped that Ni Ping would accept his point of view.

"Ping, our feelings should not be bound by engagement. Love is free, not full of shackles and bondage. "

Deeply in love with Chen Kaige, Ni Ping gradually accepted the condition that the other party would not get married.

Although her boyfriend Chen Kaige didn't give her an identity, she always took care of each other's life as a "wife" during her cohabitation.

Before meeting Chen Kaige, Ni Ping's life was more career than life, but after falling in love, her life was completely upside down.

She concentrates on life, but occasionally she slacks off in her career.

1At the end of 994, Chen Kaige's father Chen Huaiai died unexpectedly of lung cancer.

After learning the news, Ni Ping put down all his work, asked for leave from the unit and hurried to the Chen family.

At that time, Chen Kaige was very tired from filming, and with the shock of his father's death, he really couldn't spare the energy to organize his father's funeral.

Ni Ping loves her boyfriend so much that she contracts funerals, big and small.

From preparing things to the funeral, she must personally check every detail.

This is not just love for Chen Kaige. In her mind, Chen Kaige's home is already her home.

Under the auspices of Ni Ping, Chen Fu's funeral was held smoothly.

And after she has dealt with all the matters, the whole person is already in a state of extreme fatigue.

But when facing her boyfriend Chen Kaige, she will still show her best side, because she doesn't want to spread any negative energy to her boyfriend.

At that time, Chen Kaige's family also imperceptibly regarded Ni Ping as the prospective wife of the Chen family in the future.

Although Ni Ping always regretted that Chen Kaige was an unmarried family, she was greatly satisfied when she saw Chen's affirmation of her.

Unexpectedly, Ni Ping's fiery blood was exchanged for Chen Kaige's "betrayal".

During the filming of Chen Kaige's new film "Windy Moon", Ni Ping visited the crew as his girlfriend.

She often heard Chen Kaige get too close to actor Chen Hong on the set.

At first, she just tentatively asked Chen Kaige, "What happened to you and Chen Hong?"

Chen Kaige always used "rumors" to reassure Ni Ping.

Ni Ping didn't keep pestering her boyfriend for fear that he would get angry if he asked too many questions.

Until one day, a woman rang her doorbell.

Chen Hong told Ni Ping that she was pregnant with Chen Kaige's baby and hoped that Ni Ping would quit voluntarily.

After hearing the news, Ni Ping's heart was in chaos, and she couldn't accept the dramatic fact.

She looked at Chen Hong's belly and said "Not true" over and over again.

But when she found Chen Kaige and listened to each other's acquiescence, she couldn't hold back her inner feelings any longer.

Ni Ping dragged his tired body home, recalling the past dribs and drabs, as if he were like a clown.

Not long after the breakup, Ni Ping saw the news that Chen Kaige and Chen Hong were married in the United States.

Ni Ping in distress situation, why should his emotions be based on her pain?

When her friends learned that, they rushed to her to comfort her.

Ni Ping, with tears in his eyes, looked at the news of Chen Kaige's registered marriage and trembled and said, "He is not an unmarried family. He just doesn't want to marry me."

Five years of love ended like this.

Ni Ping was immersed in a sad mood and couldn't get out for a long time.

Later, in the book "Days", she described this relationship with Chen Kaige: "This is a day without self-esteem and self-loss."

In the same year, under the introduction of friends, she met Wang Wenlan, then director of the photography department of China Daily.

That year, Ni Ping was 37 years old and Wang Wenlan was 43 years old. Both of them have passed the prime of life.

They value each other's suitability more than love.

After getting along for a period of time, they established a relationship.

From 65438 to 0997, Ni Ping and Wang Wenlan entered the marriage hall.

After marriage, Wang Wenlan was very kind to Ni Ping, and helped her to heal the rift in her heart with love.

From 65438 to 0999, 40-year-old Ni Ping gave birth to a son named "Tiger Child" for Wang Wenlan at the risk of an elderly woman.

Ni Ping thought that life would go on like this, but nothing was found with congenital cataract.

This is a fatal blow to Ni Ping.

In order to treat the child, Ni Ping decided to quit his job as a host.

At that time, the Spring Festival was coming, and Taiwan Province had arranged for her and Zhao Zhongxiang to host the Spring Festival Gala that year.

After careful consideration, Ni Ping finally decided to spend the Spring Festival with the audience.

On the Spring Festival Evening that year, she used an impassioned tone on the stage, and the audience counted down happily.

And only she knows how painful her heart is at this time.

After the Spring Festival Gala, she bid farewell to the CCTV stage and embarked on a long road of seeking medical treatment.

At that time, domestic medical conditions were not very developed.

Ni Ping took nothing to seek medical treatment everywhere, but failed.

When she was most tired and needed comfort, her husband Wang Wenlan stayed with her to comfort her fragile heart.

Although he has no congenital eye disease, he is as lively and active as other children.

After playing for a day, I fell asleep, but Ni Ping, who was old, couldn't stand the toss and had to wait for her husband to go home to change shifts.

Although nothing is taken care of by Wang Wenlan at night, whenever nothing makes a sound, Ni Ping will wake up from his sleep.

As a mother, Ni Ping is great.

When she got nothing to seek medical treatment, she often received letters from the audience, several of which left a deep impression on her.

"A woman is a mother, not as serious as you. They gave up everything except their husbands and children and disappeared into the audience's sight. I am really sorry for the audience. "

This sentence is deeply imprinted in Ni Ping's mind, and she doesn't want to go back to the stage of yearning and the audience.

But she knew that her son needed her help and company more.

After visiting many places, Ni Ping learned from a doctor that there is a hospital in the United States that meets the requirements for surgery.

Since then, Ni Ping has led people who have nothing to shuttle between China and the United States.

But in the face of expensive surgery, Ni Ping was worried again.

After careful consideration, she decided to send her mother to the United States to accompany her, and she went back to China to film and earn medical expenses.

Those years were the most difficult period in Ni Ping's life.

Her husband, Wang Wenlan, also broke down several times and finally filed for divorce with Ni Ping.

Ni Ping has no time to be sad. She must work hard to make money to pay for medical expenses.

She often looks out from the balcony alone in the middle of the night, thinking about the past.

When she can't talk about her heart, keeping a diary has become her only way to vent.

She wrote her feelings and thoughts on paper, and let the diary replace her sadness, but she still had to wipe away her tears and continue.

When she was most helpless, the appearance of a man made her life see hope again.

The man's name is Yang Yazhou, a famous male director in China, and he has cooperated with Ni Ping many times.

After experiencing a failed relationship, Ni Ping has no time to meet new people, and Yang Yazhou's insistence has gradually warmed Ni Ping's heart.

Everyone in the circle knows that Ni Ping was at the bottom of his life. It was Yang Yazhou who pulled Ni Ping out of the abyss step by step and comforted her when she needed care most.

Ni Ping was gradually moved by Yang Yazhou and agreed to confess.

In 2005, the two married in a low-key registration at the Civil Affairs Bureau, with no wedding and no banquet.

After marriage, Ni Ping continued to be busy with nothing. She doesn't know when it will end, but she prays for a miracle day after day.

Until the day of 20 12, Ni Ping came to the hospital again and found nothing.

"Every review is the most stressful time for me, because you never know what the result is."

She came to the doctor with nothing at that time. After the doctor checked, he said to Ni Ping:

"Check it again when you get married."

This sentence made Ni Ping instantly break through the defense. She took her son to seek medical treatment for more than ten years and finally overcame the disease.

Ni Ping said excitedly in front of the ward with her son in her arms: "Son, wait until you are 60 years old before you get married. Mom never wants to come to the hospital again. "

On 20 14, Ni Ping returned to the CCTV stage and hosted the emotional program "Wait for Me".

She looks haggard, and the suffering she has suffered for her children over the years is unimaginable.

Ni Ping finally returned to normal life with his faithful wife Yang Yazhou and nothing.

And after Chen Kaige and Chen Hong got married, how did it go?

1996, Chen Hong and Chen Kaige got married in the United States because of pregnancy.

Chen Kaige made a bowl of braised pork for Chen Hong to celebrate their marriage.

This reminds many people that when Chen Kaige and Ni Ping are together, most of them are Ni Ping who cooks.

And Chen Kaige will cook for Chen Hong, which makes many people feel sorry for Ni Ping.

Their marriage is also controversial, because their relationship is based on Ni Ping's pain.

Chen Hong once responded to this matter: "Each of us has the right to choose happiness. When I was with Chen Kaige, he was single, so there was nothing to destroy other people's families. "

Chen Kaige didn't say much about it. At this point, he could do nothing but feel sorry for Ni Ping.

After Chen Hong and Chen Kaige registered their marriage, they gradually faded out of the show business and concentrated on being the woman behind Chen Kaige.

At that time, Chen Kaige's film production often exceeded the budgeted cost. At the worst, even the entire capital chain was broken, and it was still in debt.

Finally, Chen Hong and Chen Kaige and his wife pooled their money to pay back the money.

Chen Hong thought that it was up to him to control the cost, so he began to transform and became a producer in Chen Kaige.

She not only helped her husband get sponsorship and investment, but also carefully checked every expenditure of the crew.

With Chen Hong's help to Chen Kaige, there is almost no over-budget shooting expenses in Chen Kaige.

20 16 Chen Kaige filmed The Legend of the Demon Cat.

He wants to create the feeling of "prosperous Tang Dynasty", but he is afraid that the production cost of this scene is too high.

Chen Hong stayed up all night, helped her husband carefully plan the cost step by step, and finally realized her husband's dream scene.

Chen Kaige couldn't drink at the celebration of the legend of the demon cat, and Chen Hong gulped it down instead of him to show his mind.

As a wife, Chen Hong can be said to be the ultimate.

After marriage, she gave birth to her sons, Chen Yuan and Chen Feiyu. She gave up her career for the sake of her family and became the staunchest supporter behind Chen Kaige.

Although their feelings are still controversial, in their hearts, the past is a cloud, and it is true to live the present.

Ni Ping finally broke up with Chen Kaige, and then "nothing" with Wang Wenlan's son became the pain of her half-life.

Fortunately, with her perseverance, she finally recovered from her illness. After divorcing Wang Wenlan, she met her real home, Yang Yazhou.

Now, she and Yang Yazhou have been married 17 years. Although they didn't have strong passion, they had a good time.

Two people who once loved each other now have happy families.

Perhaps the feud has become a cloud, and their hearts have long been relieved.